Taurus man shutdown

After a bull shuts out his lover, is there no way to get them back? Or do they come back by themselves and want some space? I've read some bulls do this to draw the line between determination and desperation....is that true?

another gemini ... again 😛

well ... you have to do all the chase now ... be persistant 😛

What happened to trigger the shutdown?

@OmagaIII: its a bit complicated so long story short: i have been a little inconsistent because of my personal issues i had to work out. Then all of a sudden he just shut me out 😢 i have seen his face in 15 days.....idk anymore. Hows it going with your scorpio girl?

Inconsistency is a passion killer for us. Shows that you don't care enough to keep things going. I tend to retract as well when I sense this. If we are consistent we kinda expect the same in return.

It is all about mutual respect and care.

Have a look;
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpio-attempt-at-attention-4560388/?sort=desc

That is how it has been going hahaha

@OmagaIII: why did you hide the comment—? 😛 im dying of curiousity

Hahaha because it was meant for a totally different thread. How I managed to type it here, I will never know... 😛

In my defence... 😉 I am using my phone.

Aftershine is not our usual gemini, she is an honorary taurus society member, we cannot let her down.

Yes, aftershine you must make some bold moves! 15 days seems pretty damn too long tbh, give him one bold power play move that indicates that you still like him, but let him know 15 days is just too much for you to handle. He must've read your personal issues the wrong way, a common taurus reading error and he's now trying to gauge you, see what your about.

You can do it aftershine!!!

@vainth: aww 😄 thank you so much lol i guess the word "subtle" flew right out the window, at this point. I will try to get my feels across, wish me luck!

@aquansideout: "cold as ice" for my bull seems like an understatement 😢 let the chase begin 🙂 wish me luck

We do open up, and yes it takes time. I don't know about others, but you really have to tick me off for me to write you off. And only 1 girl has ever gotten me to that point. Mostly only my close family can tick me off that much lol

Anyway, you need to understand that we are very self critical. This is something I am really trying to break the cycle of in my own life. We might appear strong and mighty, confident and self assured, but we have a soft and squishy inside which over thinks and leaves stuff to the last minute, in most cases when it is to late, before we do something about it.

That being said, we do not communicate all that well, since we are dreamers and romantics and really fear the outcome of our words even though when we say it in our heads it always ends 'happy ever after'. I think and feel that because of this, any break (I see it clearly in my current situation) in a long build and tended relationship, no matter what the status or type, it sends us in a spiral of confusion. We don't know how to always handle it, so the very first instinct for us? Turn inward, self inspect and self analyse to determine why it happened, even though most of the time it isn't our fault.

I sensed this between me and my Scorp love interest, and I had to force myself to not be so critical since she picks it up and then she reacts negatively, which makes it worse. Sometimes we also run and hide, not from you, but our selves because we aren't always as strong as we appear.

I don't think you need to really chase, just comfort but opening up a little bit and telling him with little hints and gestures that what happened was something you had to face and that despite it all he still was there. The rest, well, I think the rest will fall in place. 😉

Good luck!

it depends what u did to shut us out - I'm kinda seeing an aquarius atm and he's so inconsistent and hot and cold that it annoys me cause I'm very persistent and always there for him. He's even tried to make me jealous a few times, which does work, but makes me think - if u wanna play that game then seeya! and i can literally block them off and feel nothing for them by rationalising it by the fact of their actions to make me jealous and play me.

Im very very very patient, but theres a limit eventually And if i hit that limit, I'm done.

Omagalll,

and that's why I don't like the Scorpio woman and a Taurus man.. it's exhausting. lol

But we have so much in common. 😛

Not a man but URGGGG on the inconsistencies. It urks the nerve.

Omagalll,

Aww. Yup. I pulled back and not a chaser.. Are you? lol