Taurus men decoded: Turns out big, tough Taurus is just a big pussy cat ....

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Met a Taurus guy, externally, he was the personification of all things manly. However, the more I got to know him it turns out he was more soft and pink in the middle than I am. This isn't the first time I've experienced this with a Taurus, I've found many of them to be sweet as pie and so kind and gentle but also very emotional and weepy. One Taurus guy, who proposed to me 3 times, literally cried constantly. It was too much for me to handle so needless to say, it didn't work out.

Also, they play weird games like having a male friend of theirs call posing as some random guy who got your phone # to try and trip you up, I guess to test your loyalty (I passed though I didn't know at the time that I was being tested). To me it's just screams insecure. Or they'll just completely out of the blue, without warning or reason, pull a disappearing act or ignore you only to later return as if nothing happened. They aren't terribly direct, I am very fwd, I speak what's on my mind. The most recent Taurus implied many of his thoughts in his actions and I had to pick up on his meanings. I found it to be very exhausting, I got bored afterwhile and drifted. I thought since he had quite an age difference on me (he's 10 years older) that there could be a meeting of the minds. Not the case, he was very smart but not terribly bright. His level of conversation consisted around partying, drinking, gambling, and tough guy fights he'd had.

I tried but it was pretty much done, I felt the drift becoming stronger, until we'd only spoken twice in 3 months. He reached out to me. I responded the first time to his "how are you" inquiry, and then he disappeared for a few days after that he msg'd again buy this time I didnt reply. It's funny when you no longer give them the attention they crave and this one in particular craved A LOT of my attention, is when they get possessive. I had a feeling there was someone else anyway, turns out, he had a long time girlfriend. In the beginning, I even commented once to a friend about how it appeared to me like he cared about what I thought of him, but this was before I even knew he was interested. He would randomly pop up, he had this thing about being liked.

Ultimately, I think it annoyed him that I wasn't an open book for him to thumb through when he felt the urge. When he did ask a direct question, if it warranted response, I'd answer. But he would ask things of me that were clearly none of his business and I didn't hesitate to tell him as much.

I don't do especially well with clingy and emotional so I need a more fiery, detached man who is content with space and comfortable with us leading separate lives while being in a happy and healthy relationship. Taurus guys you're still sweety's in my book just not the right type of man for me. Mystery solved.

Taurus women, great friends. Very direct and once you get past the initial sniffing session, it's all roses. Some of my most dear friends are Taurus women.
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It was really just a venting session for the most part. My referring to Taurus men as big, kitty cats wasn't meant as a put down at all. Just meant that they aren't the bruts they're often projected to be. These have been my experiences and yes, don't we all pretty much pass judgment on our limited experiences with a sign from time to time, I'm guilty, I'll admit to it. I don't think Taurus men are slow or simple at all, I said the man I dealt with most recently was quite intelligent but he was also dull. Sure, it's quite possible it could've been on purpose ( some trick to elude me) but what's the point in that?

Idk, I know there are some great guys out there of all zodiac signs, I chose to share my experiences with the Taurus today. I won't say I'll never date another l, it's not like I survey the men I date for their astrology sign before meeting them. However, I've noticed these behaviors in this sign and chose to share. No more, no less.

Btw, a man being more sensitive in no way makes him weak. IMO, showing emotion is probably one of the strongest things you can do.
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Oh a Taurus is always one step ahead of the game. Why? Because we are probably the ones to get hurt or some Bullshit like that. AND we already know by numerous encounters that we aren't just going to let people in. Although I am the one to open up more and show less in beginning. I take my time with you very quickly we know want we look for.
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I fell inlove with a Taurus 3 yrs ago...I'm still very in love with him but I gave up hoping he would come back ...my heart has never been repaired¢
Now I'm stuck with this bipolar cancer who will have to fill the void...
Don't play games is your lesson and now you are living in eternal regret and with a bipolar cancer to make your eternal loss even worse...

The name of the "taurus game" is if you have something good / of value whether an item or a relationship never let it go hang on tight and be patient you will eventually reap the reward..

The minute you say to a taurus "I want out" or you retreat the taurus is going to give you what you want... Sometimes we want people to "fight for us" but they never do and it's always their loss.

Dump the cancer and stay single until something bitter comes along...
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Very bad mistake he made so yea life will go on
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Nag I can't dump him he's pretty OK aside from h mood swings...however the Taurus I was speaking of was perfect which caused me to fall so hard for him...then one night he got drunk and started a physical fight with me...and I went crazy... He ended up going to the e.r n getting stitched up...he tried to act like every thing was cool afterwards but I couldn't trust him...he was a sweetheart then in an instant a psycho... Broke my poor little heart...
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Well duh!

Most people protect their vulnerable core to avoid being F'd over all day long every day.

Although Taureans are wired to present an image of equanimity whether they like it or not, there's usually a lot going on under the surface. Ofc other placements can influence this as well.

All I got from this was that you became involved with this man because he presented a powerful, masculine image and when you discovered that he was actually someone who thrives on co-dependency and emotional displays with his partner, you distanced yourself. That's fine, and I commend you for not stringing him along - or maybe the sex wasn't great, so didn't have to grapple with giving it up to get away from him!

Basically: you are right for most Taurus dudes. The calm, even macho exterior is a facade in most cases (me included!).

All I can say is that you should continue pursuing guys who are fiery and detached. Some will turn out to be what you're dreaming of, others will be pussycats deep down.

Keep plucking away!
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Nag I can't dump him he's pretty OK aside from h mood swings...however the Taurus I was speaking of was perfect which caused me to fall so hard for him...then one night he got drunk and started a physical fight with me...and I went crazy... He ended up going to the e.r n getting stitched up...he tried to act like every thing was cool afterwards but I couldn't trust him...he was a sweetheart then in an instant a psycho... Broke my poor little heart...
I'm missing the connection between him being perfect and starting a physical fight with you which required medical attention—
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Nag I can't dump him he's pretty OK aside from h mood swings...however the Taurus I was speaking of was perfect which caused me to fall so hard for him...then one night he got drunk and started a physical fight with me...and I went crazy... He ended up going to the e.r n getting stitched up...he tried to act like every thing was cool afterwards but I couldn't trust him...he was a sweetheart then in an instant a psycho... Broke my poor little heart...
I'm missing the connection between him being perfect and starting a physical fight with you which required medical attention—
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Connection= the Taurus I met pretended to be normal... Got crazy..n got fukd up...
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Nag I can't dump him he's pretty OK aside from h mood swings...however the Taurus I was speaking of was perfect which caused me to fall so hard for him...then one night he got drunk and started a physical fight with me...and I went crazy... He ended up going to the e.r n getting stitched up...he tried to act like every thing was cool afterwards but I couldn't trust him...he was a sweetheart then in an instant a psycho... Broke my poor little heart...
I'm missing the connection between him being perfect and starting a physical fight with you which required medical attention—
Lololololololol lololololololololololololo ‚ ‚ ‚

I thought the exact SAME thing but I thought.... Nah! Let someone else bring that up just for a change... Good old scorp!!! Lol lol
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No..I actually was replying to your comment about Taurus' ...the one I met was a jerk ...no games played on my part
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Nag I can't dump him he's pretty OK aside from h mood swings...however the Taurus I was speaking of was perfect which caused me to fall so hard for him...then one night he got drunk and started a physical fight with me...and I went crazy... He ended up going to the e.r n getting stitched up...he tried to act like every thing was cool afterwards but I couldn't trust him...he was a sweetheart then in an instant a psycho... Broke my poor little heart...
I'm missing the connection between him being perfect and starting a physical fight with you which required medical attention—
Lololololololol lololololololololololololo ‚ ‚ ‚

I thought the exact SAME thing but I thought.... Nah! Let someone else bring that up just for a change... Good old scorp!!! Lol lol
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...the name of Taurus game ext
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Nag I can't dump him he's pretty OK aside from h mood swings...however the Taurus I was speaking of was perfect which caused me to fall so hard for him...then one night he got drunk and started a physical fight with me...and I went crazy... He ended up going to the e.r n getting stitched up...he tried to act like every thing was cool afterwards but I couldn't trust him...he was a sweetheart then in an instant a psycho... Broke my poor little heart...
I'm missing the connection between him being perfect and starting a physical fight with you which required medical attention—
Lololololololol lololololololololololololo ‚ ‚ ‚

I thought the exact SAME thing but I thought.... Nah! Let someone else bring that up just for a change... Good old scorp!!! Lol lol
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There's always one around when required Š
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And typically bull holds in his anger and doesn't know how to release stress or build up. So try to get him in sports or something that helps him cope.

My step dad is a Sagittarius and I well i am a Taurus. So I ended up having a hate/like bond with my dad always over critical thinking to my own, can't see eye to eye. I don't even hug him. I keep a mutual respect and space and do talk to him only when needed. Otherwise I go do my own thing.
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Dear god I miss him¢¢¢¢
Who knew 46 stitches would turn him off‘

what sign are you?
Perfection in human form aka Cancer ♋
Nah... I'm not getting the link between perfection in human form AND being a Cancerian...
Lol lol Me neither!! Lol lol lol lol But glad to see scorp and taurus on same track!! My best friend at school was a scorp. We didn't need to speak. We would just look at each other and think the same thing and burst out laughing!!

I am beginning to realise that cancer energy and pisces energy does not bode well with taurus energy and perhaps if only scorp and taurus can get it right from the beginning they stand a better chance than the other water energies. I firmly believe from evidence on these boards that scorp is a better energy if only the two parties can work it out from the get go!!!
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Too bad if u don't see it...it is Wat it is embrace it n luv it ˜
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Posted by devilandthedancer
Met a Taurus guy, externally, he was the personification of all things manly. However, the more I got to know him it turns out he was more soft and pink in the middle than I am. This isn't the first time I've experienced this with a Taurus, I've found many of them to be sweet as pie and so kind and gentle but also very emotional and weepy. One Taurus guy, who proposed to me 3 times, literally cried constantly. It was too much for me to handle so needless to say, it didn't work out.

Also, they play weird games like having a male friend of theirs call posing as some random guy who got your phone # to try and trip you up, I guess to test your loyalty (I passed though I didn't know at the time that I was being tested). To me it's just screams insecure. Or they'll just completely out of the blue, without warning or reason, pull a disappearing act or ignore you only to later return as if nothing happened. They aren't terribly direct, I am very fwd, I speak what's on my mind. The most recent Taurus implied many of his thoughts in his actions and I had to pick up on his meanings. I found it to be very exhausting, I got bored after while and drifted. I thought since he had quite an age difference on me (he's 10 years older) that there could be a meeting of the minds. Not the case, he was very smart but not terribly bright. His level of conversation consisted around partying, drinking, gambling, and tough guy fights he'd had.

I tried but it was pretty much done, I felt the drift becoming stronger, until we'd only spoken twice in 3 months. He reached out to me. I responded the first time to his "how are you" inquiry, and then he disappeared for a few days after that he msg'd again buy this time I didnt reply. It's funny when you no longer give them the attention they crave and this one in particular craved A LOT of my attention, is when they get possessive. I had a feeling there was someone else anyway, turns out, he had a long time girlfriend. In the beginning, I even commented once to a friend about how it appeared to me like he cared about what I thought of him, but this was before I even knew he was interested. He would randomly pop up, he had this thing about being liked.

Ultimately, I think it annoyed him that I wasn't an open book for him to thumb through when he felt the urge. When he did ask a direct question, if it warranted response, I'd answer. But he would ask things of me that were clearly none of his business and I didn't hesitate to tell him as much.

I don't do especially well with clingy and emotional so I need a more fiery, detached man who is content with space and comfortable with us leading separate lives while being in a happy and healthy relationship. Taurus guys you're still sweety's in my book just not the right type of man for me. Mystery solved.

Taurus w
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Posted by devilandthedancer
Met a Taurus guy, externally, he was the personification of all things manly. However, the more I got to know him it turns out he was more soft and pink in the middle than I am. This isn't the first time I've experienced this with a Taurus, I've found many of them to be sweet as pie and so kind and gentle but also very emotional and weepy. One Taurus guy, who proposed to me 3 times, literally cried constantly. It was too much for me to handle so needless to say, it didn't work out.

Also, they play weird games like having a male friend of theirs call posing as some random guy who got your phone # to try and trip you up, I guess to test your loyalty (I passed though I didn't know at the time that I was being tested). To me it's just screams insecure. Or they'll just completely out of the blue, without warning or reason, pull a disappearing act or ignore you only to later return as if nothing happened. They aren't terribly direct, I am very fwd, I speak what's on my mind. The most recent Taurus implied many of his thoughts in his actions and I had to pick up on his meanings. I found it to be very exhausting, I got bored afterwhile and drifted. I thought since he had quite an age difference on me (he's 10 years older) that there could be a meeting of the minds. Not the case, he was very smart but not terribly bright. His level of conversation consisted around partying, drinking, gambling, and tough guy fights he'd had.

I tried but it was pretty much done, I felt the drift becoming stronger, until we'd only spoken twice in 3 months. He reached out to me. I responded the first time to his "how are you" inquiry, and then he disappeared for a few days after that he msg'd again buy this time I didnt reply. It's funny when you no longer give them the attention they crave and this one in particular craved A LOT of my attention, is when they get possessive. I had a feeling there was someone else anyway, turns out, he had a long time girlfriend. In the beginning, I even commented once to a friend about how it appeared to me like he cared about what I thought of him, but this was before I even knew he was interested. He would randomly pop up, he had this thing about being liked.

Ultimately, I think it annoyed him that I wasn't an open book for him to thumb through when he felt the urge. When he did ask a direct question, if it warranted response, I'd answer. But he would ask things of me that were clearly none of his business and I didn't hesitate to tell him as much.

I don't do especially well with clingy and emotional so I need a more fiery, detached man who is content with space and comfortable with us leading separate lives while being in a happy and healthy relationship. Taurus guys you're still sweety's in my book just not the right type of man for me. Mystery solved.

Taurus wo
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Nothing worse than a woman scorned, I find it amusing that you have gone to this great lengths to decode, what you assume, by your stories all Taurean are weak & clingy, there is a reason why the bull ,is separated from the herd, or maybe you just needed, your frustration to be aired out, because you’re sick and tired of being a runners-up, by a Taurean with no effort at all, to be the last phone number in his book, you see jealously comes in many forms, and they are very good at reading between the lines, Taurean do not have to prove anything , they are the most glamorous, considerate, generous, slow, sensuous, selection of cells to embody that lifeless soul of yours, and the sex is gargantuan, we rarely have an opportunity to use that word.
The males carry themselves, females are stylish but not intrusive to be centre of attention, males can tap into their female side, slowly removing your guard so they can truly connect, and they can make you feel special. Their acts of generosity cannot be matched, because it so humbly executed. That why most of these topics here are how to either keep or get back a Bull.
Maybe your suffering an episode of narcissistic personality disorder, with a touch of delusional granger, which in most cases is a bloody turn off to a Taurean, When a women trys to hard to be noticed, it my have the adverse effect,lets give that a pass,and call it a challenge, not to be mistaken to a strong minded women, it mostly what you are inside not out to a taurean. But when we have decoded you, and find out there is no walk the walk, only hot air, we don’t call you up on it, we just let you continue your fable, knowing the sections of your storys are missing , like when he hurt you.
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Nothing worse than a woman scorned, I find it amusing that you have gone to this great lengths to decode, what you assume, by your stories all Taurean are weak & clingy, there is a reason why the bull ,is separated from the herd, or maybe you just needed, your frustration to be aired out, because you’re sick and tired of being a runners-up, by a Taurean with no effort at all, to be the last phone number in his book, you see jealously comes in many forms, and they are very good at reading between the lines, Taurean do not have to prove anything , they are the most glamorous, considerate, generous, slow, sensuous, selection of cells to embody that lifeless soul of yours, and the sex is gargantuan, we rarely have an opportunity to use that word.
The males carry themselves, females are stylish but not intrusive to be centre of attention, males can tap into their female side, slowly removing your guard so they can truly connect, and they can make you feel special. Their acts of generosity cannot be matched, because it so humbly executed. That why most of these topics here are how to either keep or get back a Bull.
Maybe your suffering an episode of narcissistic personality disorder, with a touch of delusional granger, which in most cases is a bloody turn off to a Taurean, When a women trys to hard to be noticed, it my have the adverse effect,lets give that a pass,and call it a challenge, not to be mistaken to a strong minded women, it mostly what you are inside not out to a taurean. But when we have decoded you, and find out there is no walk the walk, only hot air, we don’t call you up on it, we just let you continue your fable, knowing the sections of your storys are missing , like when he hurt you.
OK buddy