Taurus 's male cautious behaviour with new woman?

While I was going out with my ex (VIRGO) of 2.5 years there's this guy at work that liked me and I felt an instant connection with him. Even when I was together with my ex I still came home and was very confused my own emotions. 3 days ago this Taurus man that I like at work gave me his number. He was very shy saying he didn't give a woman??s number for a long time. . He also finished off a relationship with his ex girlfriend 4 months ago.. He hasn't called me to my phone but kept the texts very simple.

2 nights ago he texted said he was somewhere and I jokingly say where was my invite. He asked me to come and I was asking if he was serious.
When I got there he was very happy and we shared an amazing first time (date) as he called it together. He was very generous, caring, sensual, a bit possessive asking about my ex and asking if I'm doing this to a few of my guy friends at work or not??_ he took me to his favorite spot ..Where he goes to when he feels sad.. i
ts looking over the mountain it was such a romantic??_moment??_.
which I havn't felt from my virgo ex..ever..I'm also a Taurus and I can understand what he's feeling in terms of looking out to the stars??_mountains??_views and everything??_ We were just sitting in the car together staring out the windows??_(strange?) .. when we finally cuddled. It was the most comfortable hugs I ever had in my life??_I have been with so many other zodiacs signs including Taurus , caprion, scorpio, and virgo..but no guy has hugged me that way before.. even he was amazed as to how comfortable we both felt.
.it was so??_lovely??_cozy and we almost felt asleep. That was the first time we spent together ! ! that's when he was asking whether I do the same thing with my guy friends..I said no ofcourse.. we made out finally and he was again surprised that we actually kissed ! ??_good old slow Taurus ..so cautious.. !
The funny thing is we both had a matching jumper which I didn't realize until he mentioned it. ! he was again surprised at that and said it was so strange but very ! we both had blue and white patterns jumpers.. !!..we ended up cuddling and stuff for about 3 hours and I said I needed to go??_he didn't wanna let me go at first ??_

My ex virgo is hurting because he knows i'm no longer waiting or committed to him. I'm a taurus and one man at a time is my thing. I can't be with my virgo when i have such strong feelings with this taurus man..is this wrong? 😢

Sounds real cozy...haha. I've always wondered what a Taurus/Taurus relationship would be like. Never dated one. All the Taurus women I've known are so nice, and they have such amazing natural beauty. My Pisces friend married a Taurus woman. When I go over his place, he goes to bed early and she and I just stay up and talk; have the best convos. Seems to be such a mutual respect and admiration betw. Taurus men and women. Astrology books I've read on Taurus/Taurus say we'll be too indulgent and won't challenge each other. We'll basically be content to sit on the couch with matching snuggies, eating rich food. Not sure why that's so bad though...hahaha....

It was very cozy, peaceful, relaxing . We were just staring out at stars, views cuddled for hours . Its something that I don't think I could experience with any other signs. We both are very stubborn in nature and like to feel loved/wanted. Luckily I have a Venus in Gemini which Makes me a challenging individuals. I like constant simulations and appreciates boredom sometimes. I'm a more social/outgoing/ Kind of person but also love home cooked meals/coZyoness/cuddles /sensual touches/affections and Food !!! See I am also a dragon so that has a big influence in my Taurus sun. He's a snake therefore we click like match made in heaven hahaha. The sensual touches from a Taurus man is amazing and I can't resist ??n only want more of it ! It's something I can never ever receive from a Virgo/Taurus relationship.

@ redbull I can totally agree with you . However because of my Venus in Gemini I tend to move a little too quickly n allow that person to know immediately if I am interest or not. It's a very black and white from me. If I dont like someone it's obvious but if I fall for someone it's obvious also . Virgo is way too grey for me which scorpions can shut you out completely and too much of a mind games which I can tolerate. Virgos are persistence and way too decisive for my liking. I can't imagine a better life than cuddling with a taurean all day long... and enjoy great food . I forgot to mention that he likes to go fishing and that's when I was intermidiately interested as a thought of fishing with him out the sea for hours is just purely undeniable. .. It's so peaceful. .. 😉

Sorry I meant to say scorpions can shut you out completely which we can't torrelate and virgos are way too grey and indecisive to my liking. Virgos are big on communitors which keep Taurus on our toes but they just leave it as that ..

Posted by CluelessCancer
Likes eating and watching the mountains. That's cancer talk. Question for you do you feel like your ex Virgo got bored of those things. I mean can a Virgo enjoy hiking? Sky watching? Traveling. They seem so awkward. What keeps their attention?

if i am into someone, i will enjoying doing anything they like really, maybe not anything, none of the adventure things, like bungee jumping, sky diving etc. more the earthy simple things, like traveling, BEACH, movies, restaurants, sight seeing, walking, driving, shopping..chatting, laughing. anything where i feel connected to the person. all most simple things. but i also like big cities, tall buildings, crowds, NYC type place, a go-go.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
Likes eating and watching the mountains. That's cancer talk. Question for you do you feel like your ex Virgo got bored of those things. I mean can a Virgo enjoy hiking? Sky watching? Traveling. They seem so awkward. What keeps their attention?

if i am into someone, i will enjoying doing anything they like really, maybe not anything, none of the adventure things, like bungee jumping, sky diving etc. more the earthy simple things, like traveling, BEACH, movies, restaurants, sight seeing, walking, driving, shopping..chatting, laughing. anything where i feel connected to the person. all most simple things. but i also like big cities, tall buildings, crowds, NYC type place, a go-go.

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Posted by saweetz1988
The sensual touches from a Taurus man is amazing and I can't resist ??n only want more of it ! It's something I can never ever receive from a Virgo/Taurus relationship.??

Venus in Gemini also - def. makes for an atypical bull I think; some tension there for me at least (and as some other Venus/Gemini bulls have stated on other threads). I can totally see Taurus/Taurus being amazing with the touch. Often we do to others what we want them to do to us. My hands are all over my Sag girl during intimacy - constant massage - while everything else is going on, and she tells me she loves it. This is *definitely* not a returned favor. I have to take her hands and like guide em if I want that....hahahahah...Its basically massaging myself with her hands, lol. I can definitely see how great this aspect could be with a Taurus woman who communicates through touch the same way I do.

Posted by Impulsv
If you'd be with a Scorpio shed know exactly how to massage you. I say that because the Taurus I dated loved my messages as well. He didn't have to say a word n I knew how he liked his face stroked n his ears kissed .

That is too funny! I am a face-stroker! hahahahahah...and I am all over her ears.....but I'd have to tell her if I wanted her to do something like that - gentle touch on the neck, ears, throat all drive me crazy.

TAURUS/Taurus : Certainly I can never agree with you more.. there's nothing like a taurus and taurus sensual touches.. I had a little thing with another taurus man and it was exactly the same.. I think taurus/taurus relationship are the ones in public cuddling... never take their hands off each other.. In the car...we were just cuddling most of the time....he put his arms around me and i also put my arms on top of him...i cuddled him while he was touching my hair.......it was soooo nice ...if i didn't say i needed to go we would have just been doing that all night long LOL ..see with me...every time I come home I always hope that there's a man i love waiting infront of the door unexpectedly....its so romantic in my eyes...

VIRGO/Taurus: now when it comes to a virgo/taurus relationship. he turned me upside down.. amazing relationship as he knows me extremely well due to his analytical behaviour... he can see things people don't..he can read me more than i can read myself...as soon as i get a bit upset..he's there...consistent...which keeps me on my toes...but very indecisive.. very practical indeed.. i got a microwave for christmas ...that shows how practical he is...i did get a necklace for my birthday ..apart from that..nothing ROMANTICcc....no flowers...no open the door...no spoil.. although ...but if i need help he's there immediately... he can spend days helping me with my assignments...fixing the doors etc... not much cuddling... i was so used to...bang bang thank you mam....kind of relationship and i thought i was becoming a lot less emotional because of him..think of reasons.. think with my head and not with my heart...

Scorpio/Taurus : a man who shut me out for 6 months 3 years ago.. is still hanging there waiting for me to come back to him after 3 years...they never let go... relationship with that man,..ya he did cuddle...touch kiss etc...NOThing like the sensual touches from a taurus...never will be that comfy...🙂 they do spoil people they love..buying gifts..paying for dinners....travel etc..

...I can truly see why u want her to touch you the way u need to be touched...

..have you ever had a sexual relationship with a virgo ?...they know how to please in that sense... my virgo ex knew it all..he read me well and knows how to sweep the woman off his feet.....me and him had great sexual chemistry... virgo touches a lot in the bed room...any experience?


Scorpios...didn't really touch my ears...neck...or anything like that...normal..🙂

...i don't think ..you understand how much taurus love food...and how calm and peaceful we could feel...cancer i find are very much too emotional...they can shift from one mood to the next so easily... ..taurus can taste...like no one else can...we have such amazing 5 senses...the other day i was in the office...seeing another taurus female putting a scarf over her nose the whole time..smelling it...i couldn't help myself laughing !!! because i do the exact same thing ! ...

as for Virgos... while my ex dated his ex girlfriend.. he told me that he occasionally gets bored with her.. and he never once get bored with me...even if we just sit at home...in the car..or do nothing at all.. he says i always make him happy...so fun to be around... I'm very out going and i don't be a doormat to him... he loves that...
he loves camping ...he always ask me to go with him like 5 times a year.. he sticks to one place...doesn't like to travel to different places much..doesn't like change...big risk of us earthy signs...i'm more of a daring type that he is... i dont see him hike, sky watching or travelling much... he surfs and thats it..

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hahaha..i can't say much with that as i havn't been with a taurus long enough for me to comment on this...we enjoy the same things so maybe that will lead to boredom down the track..because we will end up doing EVERYTHING together ! ..fishing together...cuddles...eat together....sit on the couch together..eat the same things ..n stubborn fights will happen 2
I always get very attached to them because of their sensual touches..i long for it...I have to say though that i'm not that confident with our sex chemistry... nothing like virgo/taurus thats for sure... i didn't get that with the kisses...😢 ...maybe thats not a good sign LOL

Lovely story. And no, I don't think it's wrong at all as long as you make it clear to your virgo Ex.
I part ways with an arie a few months ago because we didn't really love each other anymore but rather we're just use to being together... and also because I met my ex taurus love and realise how much I've missed him since the day we left each other a decade ago.

And I totally agree about Taurus man touch and presence. They have a very soothing presence and the way their hands touches you make you feel soo wanted and so at ease...I won't even talk about the way they HUG!

Posted by Leylia12
Lovely story. And no, I don't think it's wrong at all as long as you make it clear to your virgo Ex.
I part ways with an arie a few months ago because we didn't really love each other anymore but rather we're just use to being together... and also because I met my ex taurus love and realise how much I've missed him since the day we left each other a decade ago.

And I totally agree about Taurus man touch and presence. They have a very soothing presence and the way their hands touches you make you feel soo wanted and so at ease...I won't even talk about the way they HUG!

😢 lets not go into the way they hugs...its like...i just want the cuddles and nothing else matters ! feel like i'm 3 years old again... i'm head over heal with him but he's taking his time to firguer out what he really want out of " THIS" ..i'm giving him time./space/and patience...

as of virgo ex...he just called...no he doesn't want me to move on but at the same time he can't give what i want which is " commitment" its the way he is and he thinks he will be alone for the rest of his live... he still wanna presense in my life..a taurus female like myself.. is ALL OR NOthing ! 😢

have you spoken to your taurus ex? and what is your star sign ?

Me and my taurus ex are getting marry next year.
Our story is a very long one... I've created a thread somewhere on the taurus board about our whole story.
As for your Virgo ex...how comfortable will the 3 of you be with that? I mean Your Bull, your virgo ex and yourself... and somehow I don't think it'll be fair since he still have feelings for you.

Posted by Torro
^^ nvm, I totally missed out the part that the Virgo is your EX now. Reading too fast *mental slap*

What's here to wonder though? As far as I figured if I didn't miss something, you're not with the Virgo anymore and you obviously like the Taurus. Two Venuses together is an attractive match, an explosion of romance and sensuality, but the game can get dull after a while. Not that it can't work, as you both have a lot more than your Sun sign in your charts.

. Ya 🙂 I do like this Taurus man alot and it's kind of scary ! My Virgo ex just came over mine after he begged me to Let him come 😢 amazingly me and my Virgo ex sorted things out and he's telling me to be careful with this new man. He's not angry about it just found it strange how fast I moved on. We both know me and my Virgo ex can no longer be together because of his less than 100% committed nature. He does love and care about me alottttt but that's that he can't give me what I want which is commitment so that was the end... My Taurus man disappeared ??me ofcourse after a text saying he's not 100% sure what he wants from "this" atm but that night was good ... Then he disappeared. ??!! I need to be more patience .. With this man or I will seriously push him away ! Hard from going one to the next so quickly this is highly unexpected as first I didn't wanna be with anyone for a while ! Meanwhile I can't stop thinking about this man!! Arghhh

Posted by Torro
That Virgo seems very mature, still caring for you as a friend. Yeah, the Taurus disappearing act. I'm starting to think that it always happens. They're all romantic and sweet than boom, the "I'm not so sure about this" bomb. And they get under your skin so quickly. I do believe that patience is the key with any Taurus, as one yourself I'm sure that you'll be just as patient and cautious with him as he is with you if you really like him. Just keep that Gemini Venus under control, any Taurus with personal Gemini planets tends to come off more flirty and tends to have crushes more than they want.

you are spot on... my venus gemini plays a big part in how move things too quickly than i should...and move on so quickly as soon as new person's in the picture...
In saying that it does help me get what i want most of the times. my taurus man did like me but never once Facebook messaged me or things so i had to make the move. It played well. he was very very shy when he gave me his number ...he said he hasn't given a woman number for a while ...and that shows how PRIVATE ...and slow he is... ..I do seem too flirty and my taurus man has charms as well...he seems flirty on the outside but gosh was he not shy when he gave me his number. i was amazed and i feel like i was a tiger trying to eat him or something lol i'm sure its a different story for them in the bed room :p

My virgo truly care and still love me as his friend. he was truly hurt and never wanted to hear or know who this new man is. we didn't really share that " I"M SO IN LOVE WITH YOU " but he asked me if i was in love with this taurus man and i couldn't say anything... i think i could be and its driving me mental if i was... hahaha... my taurus man disappeared...or is he just not that into me ?😢

he's coming to this event tonight with a group of friends from work and surprisingly he's may be turning up to a party ! I wouldn't be surprise if he doesn't turn up due to his cautious behaviour...i can not wait to see how it turns out if he does turn up. I"m kind of scared....n nervous..at the same time...😢

He didn't turn up to the event so now I know he's not interested 😢

Posted by Torro
Did you contact each other afterwards? There could be a ton of reasons why he didn't show up, don't give up all too soon.

He hasn't texted me or call me the past few days. He knows about the event via facebook cause we mentioned before. He said he doesn't like clubbing...n i told him i wasn't going to go...i ended up going anyway..I saw him today at work ! was waiting all excited ...couldn't wait 2 see his face as this would be the first time we see each other at work after we ...kissed..n stuff from that night.....he gave me flirty smile and I was getting butterfly in my stomach and my heart beat raced to about 200 km/ hr LOL !! oh dear...anyway found him from him that he hurt his foot playing sports on that saturday ...he asked me where i went who i went with etc... nothing serious...

didn't c him much after that 😢

I think I"m going to give him a few weeks... he knows my ex is still in my life so maybe he's backing off...and he was also sorting things out with his ex before he did stuff with me..he said it wasn't meant 2 be with his ex and i wasn't meant to be with mine... now i dont know what he's thinking..how long he's going to take... my venus in gemini isn't liking the situation AT ALL ...i'm trying my best to be calm...we both work together and are applying to be managers together..it is going to be a very interesting journey..

I rather know if hes interested in me or not... he said that night was really good and he did say some really really cute...sweet...amazing things...lyk we had a matching jumper and that was really strange etc..


I just don't want to get hurt from him...i dun want to waste my time thinking about him if he isn't feeling the same way..

what do you think Torro? should I just let him be for a week..if i get nothing from him should i cut it loose..move on and just be his friends ?😢

THANKS U HAVE BEEN a great help !!!