taurus women - weird

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xangelfishx
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well yeah.....if you're pushing people's buttons of course they're going to snap at you.....and if they LIKE you then of course they're going to be offended at you for doing that - especially taurus women - we can tolerate certain things from friends or ignore certain things in people that aren't really part of our lives.... but we don't expect that from someone we like - we expect them to be sympathetic and want to make us happy the same way we want to make them happy.
I know I'm guilty of that - people think I'm a push over but when they try to push my buttons they find out diffrently....
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obviously there is something you are leaving out....for example the scenario given is obviously not a true one....the questions have to be a bit more subjective than that....unless the taurus you're talking about is an escapee from a looney bin then she would not be upset about you saying leaves are green.... I suspect the questions are more open ended than that and maybe you're playing devils advocate just to tease her....I don't think you're giving us the full story...
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well.... when i go off on a person, it may be cuzi asked a question and they didnt repsond the way i hoped they would, so i get weird,put my guard up, start defending myself in a way by putting them down, or saving face. Mostly becuase i feel they are not being honest with me, or i am embaressed that they dont feel the same as me,and then i feel stupid if i feel i have shown my feelings, and havent gotten a good , positive response back. then a few days later i will regret going off on the person and spill my feelings. then again, if i get nothign good in return, a few days later or that same day i will take it back.
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If you are a Virgo....then ugh. lol I had a love/hate relationship with a Virgo and what made me weird about him is that he tried to be sweet and affectionate at the most inopportune times. I'm not too keen on PDA, dependind on the extreme (I love holding hands and a quick pec but thats about it)he would always try to do stuff in front of other people but act so distant when we were alone. Or when we were talking face to face he was all ummm and uhhh but he wrote me 3 page letters....dude, she's waiting for you to take the lead.
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leading and demanding are 2 different things, dont get cut trying to think you can tell this woman what to do or how to do it. I think with a Taurus woman "letting a man take the lead" means expecting him to take the initiative and get things rolling in a gentle suggestive way. She might want you to run the show in certain areas but she most likely wont like you trying to act like youre her master.
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I've been told before that i give confusing signals as if one minute i like the person and the next i dont. This usually happens if i like you but i'm unsure how you feel about me or if you have pissed me off (even though you may not know it). At times like these i will usually adopt a very cool nonchalant attitude (for security as well as to subtly let you know i have a problem). It is not above me to make you jealous either if i feel the situation warrants it (such as showing friends more attention). I never have trouble being affectionate but the more sure i am about you is the more affectionate i'll be, this is how i show my love. To be honest, i know they say taurus and virgo are a good match but i have never really had good relationships with virgos, i find them to be bossy, constantly moaning plus very pushy (almost like strict father figures)with a "my way or hit the highway" attitude...all of which are a big turn off for me but thats just my experience!
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lol no Universe, it shouldnt piss the other person off, it should encourage them to let you know that they like you....remember what I advised in my first post, take the lead, let her know that you do like her, give her some reassurance and security...and afterall that shouldnt be hard because that's the same thing you're asking for. I don't think the jealousy thing even send mixed signals unless you're doing something to make the other person jealous and it just doesnt seem to be working...and it probably wont with a Taurus female especially if she can tell you're just trying to make her jealous which she probably can because ses so smart like the other Taurus women. And no persuing and pushing are 2 very different things. You can persue someone without pressuring them. Make suggestions that clarify your intentions dont demand what you want (i.e. "wouldn't it be nice if we enjoyed each other's company some time soon" vs. "come over tonite").