Turnin Point with Taurus Male

For all the ladies confused by Taurus male please dont get excited because this is not the post about the happily ever after. Actually I want to hear about from the women who actually had enough patience to handle a taurus man and have it pay off. Just wanna know what the turning point was, if there was one. I've read that when they "choose" you, you'll know it. I guess im not the chosen one lol. I wanna hear from the women who are.

When a man tells me he is a Taurus I run the other way.

Maybe they can be good friends but not great lovers.. JMO!

We don't get a lot of those types in here. We mostly service complaints and questions from fixed signs, and women who signed the FWB contract, but didn't read the exemption clause freeing their Taurus of any liability for damages related to "cuddling", eating together once in a while, asking about their lives, and acting like a gentleman.

So which are you? Fixed sign? Or FWB breach of contract?

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
We don't get a lot of those types in here. We mostly service complaints and questions from fixed signs, and women who signed the FWB contract, but didn't read the exemption clause freeing their Taurus of any liability for damages related to "cuddling", eating together once in a while, asking about their lives, and acting like a gentleman.

Lol

Posted by Infinite8
Lol @ TLS!

I'm a fixed sign. I have been "chosen" several times but unfortunately was not able to reciprocate for one reason or another.

Timing is very tricky... Isn't it?!?!

LOL, yes, you are like a matador with your timing.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
We don't get a lot of those types in here. We mostly service complaints and questions from fixed signs, and women who signed the FWB contract, but didn't read the exemption clause freeing their Taurus of any liability for damages related to "cuddling", eating together once in a while, asking about their lives, and acting like a gentleman.

^^^^^THIS HERE...LMAO!!!! Always good to carry around a pocket size magnifying glass for that pesky little "exemption clause"...LOL!!!!

Timing is everything..

I don't think there is a turning point. Well, Ive never read of one.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
We don't get a lot of those types in here. We mostly service complaints and questions from fixed signs, and women who signed the FWB contract, but didn't read the exemption clause freeing their Taurus of any liability for damages related to "cuddling", eating together once in a while, asking about their lives, and acting like a gentleman.

buwahahaha. TLS - I don't complain how taurus men treated me. I ended up questioning myself...it was running away
from those exes and they are the one chasing me. The last chase I got took him a year to stop... it was just because he can't accept that I don't deal drama from him, He invited me to have dinner and I was late about 15 minutes then he's gone and came back kept calling me and texting where I was , I said I was there and couldn't find him, then he said I was lying, so before he finish those drama . I switched off my mobile. - he was the challenger suitor, he never won because I already told him. I don't want to be his lover. just friend.then he went to another country contacted me to get my visa there and live with with.. gosh.. really those tauruses
I've met along my ways it was like - I was acting like a bull.. and they were acting like scorpio. lol

OMG...are you guys serious? This has gone into a different direction. No one has a success story with a taurus?

Guess I fell for the "boyfriend" experience. I was fine with fwb but he started with the feelings...guess thats the protocol for taurus.

Didn't read the fine print unfortunately

Lol @ boyfriend experience!

@ TLS and the famous "Willy Wonka Contract"...sooooo REAL....Lol!!! One a day......just one a dam day is all I can stand from you!!! DONE & DONE...LMAO!!!

Thinking of people who have a success story then they wouldn't be here. As frustrating as Taurus is, my Scorpio moon will make me walk to the ends of earth to find "love." Recently, I posted questions about Taurus man, not FWB, just casual friends. I find it strange how he blatantly flirts with every woman except me, he knows I "like" him. If anything changes for the positive will post something.

Correction: he does flirt with me, when no one is around, as if I'm kind of taboo or addiction.

i have a success story (so far) but moment i think was the turning point is pretty pitiful. it was the moment i told him i fancied him. up until that point we were good friends who liked the occasional fun and lighthearted flirt with each other.

maybe no one has one clear defining point. as you can see, mine was certainly nothing special.

the moment*

I just thought that Taurus men take their time evaluating and assessing you and your potential to be their woman. Then once they deem you worthy, they come on strong and show you that you are "theirs"....guess not here lol

Bottom line: Is it a waste of time dating any Taurus man?

Posted by miimii
I just thought that Taurus men take their time evaluating and assessing you and your potential to be their woman. Then once they deem you worthy, they come on strong and show you that you are "theirs"....guess not here lol

Bottom line: Is it a waste of time dating any Taurus man?

Miimii...let me stop jacking around on ur board (love TLS posts...they make me laugh...sorry) and try to make a honest effort at answering your question. My first true love was a Taurus...together 5yrs & living together until he unfortunately passed. My whole world crashed. That's another story, however, "yes" they take their time evaluating/assessing and the key word here is "TIME"...which 6 months to you may seem like 1 week to them in those terms....that's just how they typically move. And "yes", once they "move" (deem you worthy), it's like NASCAR race cars...0 to 100mph in the blink of an eye. I loved my Taurus dearly and he was very good to me...great guy...very protective...and knew how to be a "best friend". Was very fortunate to even share the last 5yrs of his life with him....no regrets! 🙂

Finally an answer to the original question! Lol! Sorry to hear about your loss but im glad you were able to experience real love with him.

Thanks!

Posted by miimii
I just thought that Taurus men take their time evaluating and assessing you and your potential to be their woman. Then once they deem you worthy, they come on strong and show you that you are "theirs"....guess not here lol

Bottom line: Is it a waste of time dating any Taurus man?

i think this was true in our case. we spent a lot of time sizing each other up. when i eventually confessed my feelings he started to pursue me and yes, there was no stopping him. i think he was perhaps waiting to see if the feeling was mutual because he wasn't going to make the first move.

not a waste of time at all dating them! my taurus is an absolute treasure.

Posted by Eyes84
When a man tells me he is a Taurus I run the other way.

So do I LOL.

Mainly because they're such players.

I do love George Clooney though. What a sexy man.

Posted by Lovelyisis

"yes" they take their time evaluating/assessing and the key word here is "TIME"...which 6 months to you may seem like 1 week to them in those terms....that's just how they typically move.

Firstly, sorry about your loss. That is rough and I don't know how I'd recover...The above is very true though about the time factor. The older I get, the more I take my time in a relationship too. Last one took me several yrs to actually commit. It seems women, in their 30's especially, often have a major agenda/timeline/deadline thing going on - They "want it now" like Veruca. After my first marriage, I ran into this a lot. I never abide by it and if I feel someone pushing me, I will just stall longer, as I want to ride that situation out and really "assess", as you say, whether or not this is real, or if I'm just to check a box, fill a role, etc.

Posted by miimii
I just thought that Taurus men take their time evaluating and assessing you and your potential to be their woman. Then once they deem you worthy, they come on strong and show you that you are "theirs"....guess not here lol

How do you know he deemed you worthy? Isn't it also immature to blame him with the "he started it"? Somehow you allowed yourself to fall in love with your FWB. When you go into an FWB, really you're entering into as situation where the partner is, from the start, less committed to being concerned about your emotional states - and I'd assume that could be generalized to cover any feelings you have of being led on.

I'd also question the assumption that bulls come charging once they decide. Maybe in a more traditional dating/courtship, but with FWB? He's already getting everything he wants/needs from you, why exactly is he going to charge in and claim you as his woman? Men don't seem to particularly care about official titles, while I find most women do. Were you wanting to start a family with this guy? Maybe he just isn't even ready for that. Depending on the nature of your FWB, and how ok you were with it with him and others, he may be hesitant there as well.

You sound like you were really ok with the FWB. If he knows its a regular thing for you, he may be (hypocritically) conservative in that area, which wouldn't surprise me. Best thing to do is wait out sex with a Taurus - make him value it, etc. If its easy and requires no work, we just expect it, and we don't value it as much. You started off very much on the wrong foot - best way is natural/organic/friendship IMO, then all the sensuality. Even your dress code will give it away if you are too eager to hop in bed. For instance, you already have your pants off in your profile pic. If you go out with your Taurus with no pants on, we know what you're after.

Turning point was when he asked me to move in with him 6 months into the relationship. He shared finances with me and took care of us like a unit. Unfortunately, we did not work out because of his inability to change and grow for himself throughout the years. It's fine when it's working, but if it's not working that stubborn Taurus trait is not good.

@Tls Actually fwb is a very new thing for me. I was in a relationship for 10 years with my sons father. I know im not in love with taurus because it takes me a long time to let someone in as well. Taurus and I didnt have sex right away because I didnt like him like that at first. I am somewhat afraid of the charging bull thing cause im not ready for that and he could probably sense that in me. Im very comfortable with him but I dont know what I would do if he pursued me in more of a relationship type way and that's the reason for my question.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by Lovelyisis

"yes" they take their time evaluating/assessing and the key word here is "TIME"...which 6 months to you may seem like 1 week to them in those terms....that's just how they typically move.

Firstly, sorry about your loss. That is rough and I don't know how I'd recover...The above is very true though about the time factor. The older I get, the more I take my time in a relationship too. Last one took me several yrs to actually commit. It seems women, in their 30's especially, often have a major agenda/timeline/deadline thing going on - They "want it now" like Veruca. After my first marriage, I ran into this a lot. I never abide by it and if I feel someone pushing me, I will just stall longer, as I want to ride that situation out and really "assess", as you say, whether or not this is real, or if I'm just to check a box, fill a role, etc.

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LOL TLS!!! Glad I caught this other Willy W. post the following day...omg...lmao!!!! As for my loss, thanks for the kind words. Never 100% recovered, most never do when it hits that close to home...especially w/ the 1st person u fall in love with. I think probably also has a part in play w/ me not allowing men to ever get THAT close to me again....honestly fear mostly. Yet am still able to love and have fun. Funny, some tauruses on this board knew I engaged in a fwb w/ another taurus w/ same bday as my 1st (plz don't ask me how the hell I ended up down that path...lol!), however, both of us were dealing w/ other relationships & knew it going in & kept things in their proper perspective. We did 2 breaks in between...him 6 months...me doing the last one of 8 months....& now I've only come to a bit of a hump w/ phasing him into the "friends only" lane because even though I ended my relationship, I need a breather from all. I completely understand why the bit of a hump & take full accountability for it, however, he's understanding of "everything that has a beginning...also has an ending" whether it be 2 days or 20yrs. I'm 43 & am never in any rush to be "labeled" in anything...I've learned to maximize the ride in between & exit the same courteous polite way I came in. I actually enjoy the break becuz I know I'm just not ready to be in anything serious w/ anyone for that matter. 🙂

whats your sign and if you like him, theres literally nothing you can do lol, they either like you or they dont. im sorry ;/ we're actually very picky.

when youre the chosen one, they will be very affectionate with you and be jealous and possessive over you. they will also want to buy you things. little gifts, but frequently. i was with a taurus for two and half years but he was an asshole..

everyone is different, i would look to the internet for the answer to this question. like a legit astrology website, not here... here can be biased.

Yes, there is a turning point, Scorpio is not afraid to die because it gives back life, we can chop or may chip himself. The depth of our understanding is what frees us and also what hurts us most.

When I put in an ultimatum about myself , about what I 'm doing with my energy, then you can get my kiss goodbye.

If this isn't a turning point for Taurus, not sure what is. After 4 months of friendly chatting and some flirting, the following happened in one conversation. He is Taurus, I'm Libra. He confides, and says "I would get married again for love." Melted my heart for a moment. Talks about his family, and again confides some private information people usually don't, especially men. Lastly, officially asked for a date. I gave up many times, but he kept "bumping into me." Signals were very hot and cold. I never knew what he was thinking or what was going on. Most people here suggested I be patient, and most suggested to move on. I took the high road of trying to move on, I'm guessing ignoring Taurus and/or being patient yet friendly works.

I have a Taurus who has kept me on the side for 5 yrs while he fooled and flirted with several. I was adamant on not giving him sex until he chose to choose just me and be loyal. Just posted a novel of my story this morning here on one of the threads but don't think anyone would have that much to read it. He has flirted over the years but never slept with anyone or shared his naked pics or went down on them and have unprotected sex jeopardizing his job and reputation ( the lady he was fooling around was at his work place ) where his boss was very impressed with him so much that she is about to make him the director of the dept. Not only that he has dept from student loans and was targeting on getting more education and make big paycheck a and impress his family specially his mom who is a very Christian lady and it was like he was in a trance or something and when he found out he could be a father of a child he made by cheating on me and could be adding more to his dept and totally embarrassing his mother and losing me for good he has become very focused and disgusted in himself. He is going for counseling now where he says he wants to learn how to built his character and find a way to be committed to me and he says he has learned a lesson and will never fool with another woman again.

This morning he texted me this - "Well right now I am overwhelmed with guilt. I want to get over it.
Your right my character is not a good one and I kinda had a feeling about myself being that way for a long time and I didn't have this realization until I did it with ( name of the person he cheated on me with) but I do have a good person inside (probably very deep inside)"

I would believe this is a turning point in his life and in our relationship. Time will tell perhaps..