Venus in Taurus

This is my 4th one in a row and I've noticed a pattern.

Towards the end of each date, they get insecure and start mentioning kissing and telling.

The 1st time it happened, I knew it was game and a few guys came to the same conclusion.

It happening again with this Gemini sun. Venus taurus.

One our first date, he was looking for reassurance toward the end of the date. I gave him some and all was well.

2nd date, again, towards the end of the date, hes again looking for more reassurance. This time, hes decided that self sabotaging stories about himself aren't enough. Hes up the ante to now discussing his sexual and non sexual encounters with other women.

As with other venus in Taurus, next comes the hardcore "friend zoning" game to make me "jump."

It's the part of the story where these guys try to talk about their sexual conquests in an ego driven way, looking for atta boys or whatever. Meanwhile the women they're are on a date with are subjected to hearing about what they favor in a women's looks, making fun of female "try hard", and infamous clingers and stalkers.

Ironically as I listen to all this hogwash, the Gemini starts bringing up my behavior disgusied as the behavior of another girls action. He called her a stalker. Did he just call me a stalker?

Then he got up from our date to greet another girl he knew.

My rose colored glasses have come off completely.

Then he hits me with the most passive aggressive question of the night.

He is Spanish man.

"DMV. let's say you got famous, would you ever leave for a beautiful, dark, gorgeous, black man"

I declined to let him walk me to my car.

I'm exhausted.

They play this hot and cold game, right in your face and it gets brutal.