@LadyNeptune
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Posted by runatresno
We have these crazy intense fights that result in him injuring himself and me being depressed for weeks.
this sounds like abuse dude
Posted by LadyNeptune
Get yourself a Leo Venus. You can thank me later.
I am a venus in leo and i personally would find a venus in taurus too slow no offense but i think leo is too dynamic for a venus in taurus not to hate depending on the rest of the chart ofcourse.
They will not go well together i have seen many couples with this placement and they end up in a fighting divorce
I think venus cancer,capricorn would fit good both having a need for security and financial security
Wow toxic
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venus
they are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
What a horrible way to live
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Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
What a horrible way to live
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They both actually love it, but the audience is sometimes tired of it 🙂
Edit: they make it up for each other and the others, so I guess its balanced, but the drama is never ending 🙂
Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
What a horrible way to live
😞 click to expand
They both actually love it, but the audience is sometimes tired of it
Edit: they make it up for each other and the others, so I guess its balanced, but the drama is never ending click to expand
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Did you grow up witnessing that, Pandora?
"We have these crazy intense fights that result in him injuring himself and me being depressed for weeks. But then when we don’t talk about it we act like nothing happened. I’ve never been happier in my life"
I just read that again
It is so fecked up, scarily so
Love is....injuring oneself and bouts of depression
Jfc
Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
My boyfriend is Venus in Scorpio we fight like lions i am more free and relax he is more suspicious whenever he is angry he can say really painful things to tick me off i think Venus in Scorpio is not a good placement in general specially not with a cancer moon. I have a sagg moon with Leo Venus he can make issues out of little things be very extreme about it and bring up the past so much i start to become aggressive at one point because i don't care about the past i do not wanna think about it. I sometimes have a hard time staying with him but whenever we don't fight we are perfect together all i want is peace and love no anger it makes me a complete different person. It's like they want the pleasure with the pain and they want to hurt you so they feel good about it i really don't know
Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
My boyfriend is Venus in Scorpio we fight like lions i am more free and relax he is more suspicious whenever he is angry he can say really painful things to tick me off i think Venus in Scorpio is not a good placement in general specially not with a cancer moon. I have a sagg moon with Leo Venus he can make issues out of little things be very extreme about it and bring up the past so much i start to become aggressive at one point because i don't care about the past i do not wanna think about it. I sometimes have a hard time staying with him but whenever we don't fight we are perfect together all i want is peace and love no anger it makes me a complete different person. It's like they want the pleasure with the pain and they want to hurt you so they feel good about it i really don't know
Posted by Schawq
Venus in Scorpio male can be very abusive.. don't hurt yourself :/they can be sooo draining and I find that they're unloyal (seems to be different from Venus in Scorpio female)
please explain more i do agree with this even though he will never admit as in the part of draining my energy sometimes water can put out fire. I've noticed it for a long time now i get very affected by him easily with the even the little things. It's mainly mentally and emotionally draining me
Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
My boyfriend is Venus in Scorpio we fight like lions i am more free and relax he is more suspicious whenever he is angry he can say really painful things to tick me off i think Venus in Scorpio is not a good placement in general specially not with a cancer moon. I have a sagg moon with Leo Venus he can make issues out of little things be very extreme about it and bring up the past so much i start to become aggressive at one point because i don't care about the past i do not wanna think about it. I sometimes have a hard time staying with him but whenever we don't fight we are perfect together all i want is peace and love no anger it makes me a complete different person. It's like they want the pleasure with the pain and they want to hurt you so they feel good about it i really don't know click to expand
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gurrrlll.... you complain alot about your man's watery parts. i honestly think you would be happier with a man with air placements in personal planets, becausse of your saturn aquarius too and your leo venus and sag dom chart.
your man has basically no air.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Get yourself a Leo Venus. You can thank me later.
taurus venus isn't really good with fire venus either.
unless he got mars taurus, cap mars, or virgo mars (earthy)
like yourself.
Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
My boyfriend is Venus in Scorpio we fight like lions i am more free and relax he is more suspicious whenever he is angry he can say really painful things to tick me off i think Venus in Scorpio is not a good placement in general specially not with a cancer moon. I have a sagg moon with Leo Venus he can make issues out of little things be very extreme about it and bring up the past so much i start to become aggressive at one point because i don't care about the past i do not wanna think about it. I sometimes have a hard time staying with him but whenever we don't fight we are perfect together all i want is peace and love no anger it makes me a complete different person. It's like they want the pleasure with the pain and they want to hurt you so they feel good about it i really don't know click to expand
gurrrlll.... you complain alot about your man's watery parts. i honestly think you would be happier with a man with air placements in personal planets, becausse of your saturn aquarius too and your leo venus and sag dom chart.
your man has basically no air. click to expand
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It's just that i do not like to be emotional or too hung up on the past or to stay sad for too long because when that happens i become very depressed i am a happy go lucky person just need to learn to deal with it but yeah it takes time and effort to both get there and understand each other
Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
My boyfriend is Venus in Scorpio we fight like lions i am more free and relax he is more suspicious whenever he is angry he can say really painful things to tick me off i think Venus in Scorpio is not a good placement in general specially not with a cancer moon. I have a sagg moon with Leo Venus he can make issues out of little things be very extreme about it and bring up the past so much i start to become aggressive at one point because i don't care about the past i do not wanna think about it. I sometimes have a hard time staying with him but whenever we don't fight we are perfect together all i want is peace and love no anger it makes me a complete different person. It's like they want the pleasure with the pain and they want to hurt you so they feel good about it i really don't know click to expand
gurrrlll.... you complain alot about your man's watery parts. i honestly think you would be happier with a man with air placements in personal planets, becausse of your saturn aquarius too and your leo venus and sag dom chart.
your man has basically no air. click to expand
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probably the full moon in scorpio that brings things back up right now i am so uncomfortable
Posted by Pandora101
My mother has a scorp venus and my father has a taurus venusthey are together like 45 years, their fighting was a nightmare.... they fight like there is an audience for it, then switch to like nothing and everything is okey, for like a hour, and it starts again.... I think the scorpio venus cant help it.... the taurus venus is calm, but when the scorp venus presses and say really hurtful things and abuse, the taurus venus react finally nasty too....
I think when moon or venus is in scorp, they want a reaction, they are not happy, until everybody is driven insane, and then they are happy (just my observation)
OP, you decide..... its not going to get better, but if you want long time, he will not leave you, that is for sure...
but the mental abuse will continue, brace yourself
My boyfriend is Venus in Scorpio we fight like lions i am more free and relax he is more suspicious whenever he is angry he can say really painful things to tick me off i think Venus in Scorpio is not a good placement in general specially not with a cancer moon. I have a sagg moon with Leo Venus he can make issues out of little things be very extreme about it and bring up the past so much i start to become aggressive at one point because i don't care about the past i do not wanna think about it. I sometimes have a hard time staying with him but whenever we don't fight we are perfect together all i want is peace and love no anger it makes me a complete different person. It's like they want the pleasure with the pain and they want to hurt you so they feel good about it i really don't know click to expand
gurrrlll.... you complain alot about your man's watery parts. i honestly think you would be happier with a man with air placements in personal planets, becausse of your saturn aquarius too and your leo venus and sag dom chart.
your man has basically no air. click to expand
It's just that i do not like to be emotional or too hung up on the past or to stay sad for too long because when that happens i become very depressed i am a happy go lucky person just need to learn to deal with it but yeah it takes time and effort to both get there and understand each other click to expand
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if it's not easy peasy then i would not recommend it for you. it will be very very hard for you in life....

i have venus in scorp and my partner has venus in taurus. we don't fight anymore. when we did it was awful but we've managed to work out the best way to deal with disagreements and they never escalate anymore.
If you're crying together then its wayyy too toxic and the expiration date is long overdue. Ive never been in a relationship like that good lord
Posted by LadyNeptune
Get yourself a Leo Venus. You can thank me later.taurus venus isn't really good with fire venus either.
unless he got mars taurus, cap mars, or virgo mars (earthy)
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But Leo Venus knows the way to Taurus venus’s Heart... thru the stomach 😂
Posted by Toti
Venus in Scorpio people should not be in relationships for the sake of their partners. It's very hard to maintain a healthy relationship with them, regardless of their sun sign. Almost impossible. Admit to yourself that you are in a toxic relationship and go out. Don't ruin your health. He isn't worth it.
How many have you been with Toti?
Does this apply to Scorpio Moon and Mars also?
I'm sorry but that sounds awful and dysfunctional af. Good times can happen with anyone....especially with ppl who don't abuse themselves and you....eeeek.
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Get yourself a Leo Venus. You can thank me later.