What will Taurus guy do on being cheated upon?

Me and Taurus guy were close friends, as good as in a relationship but weren't committed. I always used to ask him take the next step, but due to his family reasons he wouldn't (which were valid). So once I thought nothing is happening, and nothing won't happen now.. So I gave up and got close to a guy 2 years younger to me.

We got really close and had sex, I confessed this to my Taurus guy. He was a furious and then when he cooled down; he supported me to get out of the trap of that guy( he was a bad guy and was playing a game with me).

During this my exams started and Taurus guy spent the best time of my life with me. It was a dream for me. I was never so happy.

But just after my exams got done, he started withdrawing.. He now keeps questioning me as why I did it? Why him? What made me stray? Was his love so less? Etc etc.

During exams while he was thinking of our future together, about us getting married some years down the lane.. Now he isn't even sure of our present together.

He is like will I be able to forget? You were my pride, I lost it now. The whole college has come to know what you have done, they are all gossiping, what should I do in that case?

I told him if we come out together as a strong couple, they all will stop. But he won't understand.

He is stuck that new things keep coming up, I cannot sustain it. I AM not able to forget all those stuff. How you disrespected me? Etc etc

I know I have hurt him deeply, it will take time to forget that stuff. And he being the Taurus guy I also know it's a lot from his side that he is talking to me.

What should I expect out of this now? Will he ever come back like before? Or he will leave me eventually?

It is hurting him badly, I daily see him crib about it. I love him a lot and it hurts me as well to see him like this.

Should I keep loving him without expecting anything to lessen my guilt and the hurt I gave him? Or should I give him some time and space and initiate a no contact rule?

I want to make things better with him. He still talks to me the most, out of all the people in his life. But at times his reactions do hurt me. Like in case of his ex, if I normally talk about her or initiate a topic, I get reactions on it.

Idk what to do? Will it ever be normal? He has been crying ever seen and I don't know how to make him feel good and gain his trust again.

Please help me!!!

I am shocked he has not completely shut down on you, and seized all

Hurt a bull? Cheat on a bull? They will never be the same bull you've once had prior to. They like their security. They like to be comfortable. They have formed trust, trust that they moved slow to achieve, and you all but chop it down in one motion? He is doing what you are wondering. Your answer is within your own text..now if you are asking if he will continue this relationship. No one can answer that confidently. He may choose to overcome, or he may choose to leave.



I am a little confused with your story though. "You gave up on trying..deciding to push up on bull #2" Were you and bull #1 every actually in a relatrelationship?

Am I reading this wrong?

This is probably the first post I haven't bothered to read because I already know the answer. You have two options. Fire and brimstone OR psychological torture. Generally the women (at least those I've known) can get very physical when truly upset. Since Taurus women can be pretty strong, that means they will send you through a wall before cutting all ties. The men however may explode OR they may find a way to break up with you yesterday (the break up will be so absolute, it will almost be retroactive). When they are gone they are gone.

To give you an example, a Taurus buddy of mine had an inklng that his girlfriend (now ex) was cheating on him. So by the time she told him the truth, not only was he not shocked, he had already started moving on with his life. She was offended that he thoguht so little of her, but he brought up the fact that he wasn't wrong and his unverified hunch was now 100% correct. So he cut her off entirely and a decade later she STILL tries to contact him. IF he chooses to respond he gives her one word responses then ghosts again. He's been dating a Pisces woman ever since, but his ex still tries.

Now that I've read your post (couldn't help myself) I'll say this. Technically you werent committed to each other and weren't actually in a relationship. You already asked about exclusivity and he told you that he couldn't due to "family reasons". You probably should have told him you were going to move on before you did. That way you could make sure there was no hurt feelings between you.

The thing you must remember is Tauruses find comfort in their partners. They basically "own" their partner's to some degree (as do all of the fixed signs). Giving your body over to someone else is essentially the fastest way to kill things with a Taurus. This is why he's having so much trouble reconnecting with you. As OrangeS0daPop stated, you've messed with his comfort level.

If I had to guess, this may tarnish what you could have had. Taurus can get very fixated on an idea once it's in their heads. He won't be forgetting this situation for a loooooong time (years). You won't be able to force him to change his outlook either. If you want to be with this guy, the best thing you can do is be patient and hope for the best. To be honest though, given that he wasn't looking to be exclusive with you before, this doens't look good.

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Posted by Chuckcem
Now that I've read your post (couldn't help myself) I'll say this. Technically you werent committed to each other and weren't actually in a relationship. You already asked about exclusivity and he told you that he couldn't due to "family reasons". You probably should have told him you were going to move on before you did. That way you could make sure there was no hurt feelings between you.

The thing you must remember is Tauruses find comfort in their partners. They basically "own" their partner's to some degree (as do all of the fixed signs). Giving your body over to someone else is essentially the fastest way to kill things with a Taurus. This is why he's having so much trouble reconnecting with you. As OrangeS0daPop stated, you've messed with his comfort level.

If I had to guess, this may tarnish what you could have had. Taurus can get very fixated on an idea once it's in their heads. He won't be forgetting this situation for a loooooong time (years). You won't be able to force him to change his outlook either. If you want to be with this guy, the best thing you can do is be patient and hope for the best. To be honest though, given that he wasn't looking to be exclusive with you before, this doens't look good.

Damn you read your taurus friend like a book

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I've known him and my other Taurus friends for a looong time.