After 3 years Taurus man still apprehensive about where I stand.

What's your relationship like? Do you live together? Have kids? Has he ever used the L word?

He probably have his eyes on someone else....?! It's time to move on and do what's best for you!

Can y'all go answer my question about a Taurus man?!

After 3 years of what? Knowing each other? Sleeping with each other?

You are still an "option" after three years

Doesn't that answer your question?

It seems you both want different things

Posted by MyStarsShine
You are still an "option" after three years

Doesn't that answer your question?

It seems you both want different things

Right! Am I missing something?

I agree with all the above so far.

Why were you waiting for three years?

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Posted by VenusGrl
Long story short, after 3 years, I said, "You and me, me and you, nobody else! If it's not enough, maybe we should cut ties"? He quickly replied, "Ya lets do that". Wtf? Can anyone enlighten me? The closest I got was 'he thinks so', and he's been thinking about it a lot. Now he's not talking to me, and told me he's seeing someone else. Is he lying? Stalling?

His response says everything. Sometimes men are absolutely honest and we refuse to hear it. He's neither confused, lying, or stalling. You were in a 3 year fwb arrangement. You demanded more, so he cut you loose and replaced you. That's the breaks.

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What is your sign? She said "you, me and no one else" and then she says "if that's not enough maybe we should cut ties?" Giving him that option was an easy way out and he took it!

He may not be seeing someone else hit just testing her to see how she reacts, her responses and also to see if she really likes him they way she may have said before. He could possibly be looking for more in her actions rather than words. Taurus men are slooooowwww lovers when it comes to love. Maybe he has thought about it but you have him an easy option to take. I suggest laying low for a bit, give him his space and let him come back to you & explain what that was all about. Maybe you scared him and he ran. They do run -a lot but if this is the guy you want, 3 years is long but you've got to be more patient. In the meantime, have fun and enjoy yourself. You'll know how he feels when he comes back around but don't ask him again. Don't force it. Taurus Bulls always need to be sure that they are making the right decision.

I'm a Cappy Lady I'm locked with a Taurus Hull for 4 1/2 years now. I can relate. 😉

Yea so option after 3 years means move on if u want the exclusive stuff.. u guys don't want the same thing . U are wasting your time.. sorry hunnie

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Posted by VenusGrl
Long story short, after 3 years, I said, "You and me, me and you, nobody else! If it's not enough, maybe we should cut ties"? He quickly replied, "Ya lets do that". Wtf? Can anyone enlighten me? The closest I got was 'he thinks so', and he's been thinking about it a lot. Now he's not talking to me, and told me he's seeing someone else. Is he lying? Stalling?

His response says everything. Sometimes men are absolutely honest and we refuse to hear it. He's neither confused, lying, or stalling. You were in a 3 year fwb arrangement. You demanded more, so he cut you loose and replaced you. That's the breaks.

What is your sign? She said "you, me and no one else" and then she says "if that's not enough maybe we should cut ties?" Giving him that option was an easy way out and he took it!

He may not be seeing someone else hit just testing her to see how she reacts, her responses and also to see if she really likes him they way she may have said before. He could possibly be looking for more in her actions rather than words. Taurus men are slooooowwww lovers when it comes to love. Maybe he has thought about it but you have him an easy option to take. I suggest laying low for a bit, give him his space and let him come back to you & explain what that was all about. Maybe you scared him and he ran. They do run -a lot but if this is the guy you want, 3 years is long but you've got to be more patient. In the meantime, have fun and enjoy yourself. You'll know how he feels when he comes back around but don't ask him again. Don't force it. Taurus Bulls always need to be sure that they are making the right decision.

I'm a Cappy Lady I'm locked with a Taurus Hull for 4 1/2 years now. I can relate. 😉

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Do you two live together?

Posted by VenusGrl
No, not living together. He was married, his wife passed away. He did not love her, but the loss hit him hard. Now 1.5 years later, he's in better spirits. Lots of new changes happening around home/work/finances. Works very hard. Big achiever. I'm still an option. He told me he still has a couple big things to take care of (legal and work). Getting little time with him, but when we do its great, except words not matching actions. I felt I was being used, so said no more FWB. I wanted exclusivity and a relationship.

You were the ego boost he needed to get himself out there and start dating again after his wife died. He's doing and saying just enough to keep you on the back burner. But best believe when he meets a female he's really into he'll go hard to win her and you'll be left on the outs. Don't waste anymore time on this dude. He's not the one.

Pro Tip: if you want exclusivity and a relationship NEVER agree to fwb.

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Posted by PVJamz

Posted by VenusGrl
Long story short, after 3 years, I said, "You and me, me and you, nobody else! If it's not enough, maybe we should cut ties"? He quickly replied, "Ya lets do that". Wtf? Can anyone enlighten me? The closest I got was 'he thinks so', and he's been thinking about it a lot. Now he's not talking to me, and told me he's seeing someone else. Is he lying? Stalling?

His response says everything. Sometimes men are absolutely honest and we refuse to hear it. He's neither confused, lying, or stalling. You were in a 3 year fwb arrangement. You demanded more, so he cut you loose and replaced you. That's the breaks.

What is your sign? She said "you, me and no one else" and then she says "if that's not enough maybe we should cut ties?" Giving him that option was an easy way out and he took it!

He may not be seeing someone else hit just testing her to see how she reacts, her responses and also to see if she really likes him they way she may have said before. He could possibly be looking for more in her actions rather than words. Taurus men are slooooowwww lovers when it comes to love. Maybe he has thought about it but you have him an easy option to take. I suggest laying low for a bit, give him his space and let him come back to you & explain what that was all about. Maybe you scared him and he ran. They do run -a lot but if this is the guy you want, 3 years is long but you've got to be more patient. In the meantime, have fun and enjoy yourself. You'll know how he feels when he comes back around but don't ask him again. Don't force it. Taurus Bulls always need to be sure that they are making the right decision.

I'm a Cappy Lady I'm locked with a Taurus Hull for 4 1/2 years now. I can relate. 😉

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I don't think that you can speak for all Taurus men because the Taurus that I dated did not go slow at all in fact he asked for us to get a place together after 6 months of dating.

Four and a half years is pretty good Capricorns can have pretty long relationships. So are you two engaged married trying to buy a first house. Unless you're 18 if you guys have been together for four and a half years of course you're living together that's just a given just wondering when is the wedding date?

Taurus is notoriously patient, but also hates to be rushed. Moon sign sounds important in this case, because I wouldn't call 3 years rushing. From the overview it sounds like maybe he enjoyed playing the field, & you put your foot down demanding something more exclusive? That's when he gave you his choice. You said "only us or not us at all" basically, and he chose the not at all approach.

Taurus is nothing if not honest. Your question is lacking some detail, but when presented with an ultimatum I think Taurus just tries to give you what you want.

If you demanded some level of commitment & he feels like he can't provide that, then, given the option?.. id say a Taurus would leave, for sure.

My Taurus love interest was in a 2 year relationship & ended it for the same reason. Wasn't straight forward about the break up & basically made her come to the conclusion it might be over, then ask him. At which time he agreed & she was pissed.

Wouldn't be surprised if the same has happened to you & I apologize. 3 years is a long time

As a Taurus woman, 6 months is my bench mark and then I want you in my face and we'll be moving in and merging families. It shouldn't take that long to know. This is not "marriage" it's just a commitment so it shouldn't be that hard unless he does have someone else in the wings. Break away and if he really wants something he'll come back, if not then you are free for someone else who will take your heart more seriously and not hurt you this way.

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Posted by Iamawinelover

Posted by PVJamz

Posted by VenusGrl
Long story short, after 3 years, I said, "You and me, me and you, nobody else! If it's not enough, maybe we should cut ties"? He quickly replied, "Ya lets do that". Wtf? Can anyone enlighten me? The closest I got was 'he thinks so', and he's been thinking about it a lot. Now he's not talking to me, and told me he's seeing someone else. Is he lying? Stalling?

His response says everything. Sometimes men are absolutely honest and we refuse to hear it. He's neither confused, lying, or stalling. You were in a 3 year fwb arrangement. You demanded more, so he cut you loose and replaced you. That's the breaks.

What is your sign? She said "you, me and no one else" and then she says "if that's not enough maybe we should cut ties?" Giving him that option was an easy way out and he took it!

He may not be seeing someone else hit just testing her to see how she reacts, her responses and also to see if she really likes him they way she may have said before. He could possibly be looking for more in her actions rather than words. Taurus men are slooooowwww lovers when it comes to love. Maybe he has thought about it but you have him an easy option to take. I suggest laying low for a bit, give him his space and let him come back to you & explain what that was all about. Maybe you scared him and he ran. They do run -a lot but if this is the guy you want, 3 years is long but you've got to be more patient. In the meantime, have fun and enjoy yourself. You'll know how he feels when he comes back around but don't ask him again. Don't force it. Taurus Bulls always need to be sure that they are making the right decision.

I'm a Cappy Lady I'm locked with a Taurus Hull for 4 1/2 years now. I can relate. 😉

I don't think that you can speak for all Taurus men because the Taurus that I dated did not go slow at all in fact he asked for us to get a place together after 6 months of dating.

Four and a half years is pretty good Capricorns can have pretty long relationships. So are you two engaged married trying to buy a first house. Unless you're 18 if you guys have been together for four and a half years of course you're living together that's just a given just wondering when is the wedding date?

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Yep, my Taurus (4 May) in a KIDDING way said, "Wanna get married?" (he was joshing!) 😄 Next week he said, "I am thinking of moving north of San Antonio" (he's welcomed to do so!) 😄 #2

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: 6 months?!!! 😱