Whats going on? Is he going to talk to me or not

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In_needofbalance
@In_needofbalance
8 Years

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Me and my Taurus met on a online dating site last year we didn't talk for that long though cause I really didn't get his humour and he's very blunt so sometimes I thought he was being asshole but he wasnt...fast forward to this year we ended up talking again and I don't know why but we really clicked and I get him more now than I did before. And I really like him alot.

He been through alot in his life and has been betrayed by alot of people so his trust issues are up there so I knew I would have to be patient with him and I wanted to show him I'll be there for him and of course not leave him. And yeah we've met before went on a date and everything met my mom and all that has came to my house a few times. He's also told me I'm his and that he wants for us to only talk to each other.

So the problem is he doesn't like talking on the phone he rather text but I rather call so of course I'm willing to compromise but I feel like I'm doing all the compromising and yeah he does cave in sometimes but not as much as I would want him to so we ended up getting into it yesterday cause I was frustrated with him over it so I threatened him that I would stop talking to him if he didn't call me cause I'm tired of hearing excuses like I'm not asking for to much but anyways he responds with " do what you got to do" so I go off no response since then at all no text, call nothing.

So my question is he going to get over this or not cause I'm not chasing him but at the same time I don't want to be another name on the list of people that wasn't there for him cause he thinks everyone going to leave him eventually and I think maybe that's why he hasn't responded but I don't know.
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libralifer
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8 Years

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In my experience, you can't force a Taurus to communicate more. Unless you want him to disappear, like what he's doing. If you care about him, the idea that you see him in person + his routine text messages should be enough. Otherwise you can look for a more talkative person. Also--- Tauruses usually work a lot. He might be tired. If I were you, I'd apologize and give in. You could chat with your girlfriends on the phone instead.
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jeane
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Posted by In_needofbalance
Me and my Taurus met on a online dating site last year we didn't talk for that long though cause I really didn't get his humour and he's very blunt so sometimes I thought he was being asshole but he wasnt...fast forward to this year we ended up talking again and I don't know why but we really clicked and I get him more now than I did before. And I really like him alot.

He been through alot in his life and has been betrayed by alot of people so his trust issues are up there so I knew I would have to be patient with him and I wanted to show him I'll be there for him and of course not leave him. And yeah we've met before went on a date and everything met my mom and all that has came to my house a few times. He's also told me I'm his and that he wants for us to only talk to each other.

So the problem is he doesn't like talking on the phone he rather text but I rather call so of course I'm willing to compromise but I feel like I'm doing all the compromising and yeah he does cave in sometimes but not as much as I would want him to so we ended up getting into it yesterday cause I was frustrated with him over it so I threatened him that I would stop talking to him if he didn't call me cause I'm tired of hearing excuses like I'm not asking for to much but anyways he responds with " do what you got to do" so I go off no response since then at all no text, call nothing.

So my question is he going to get over this or not cause I'm not chasing him but at the same time I don't want to be another name on the list of people that wasn't there for him cause he thinks everyone going to leave him eventually and I think maybe that's why he hasn't responded but I don't know.



Gotta love a power move. Sure fire way to fuck up your own relationship.

If you lose, you lose

If you win, you still lose.

Brilliant.