Why can I not get over this Taurus man?

Ok everybody, why are Taurus men so wonderful? I had a little flirting session with one last year that lasted a few months. Because I totally embarrassed myself I have avoided him since December. But I still can't get him out of my mind! I am constantly reminded of him through everyday actions. His work is on my way home and when I drive by I see him leaning up against the building looking good. I meet other Taurus men, and I like them, but they are nothing compared to the one I want. I think I crossed a line with him by being a weirdo, but I can't escape him! It makes me think that he cast a spell on me, voodoo or something because no other person has had me so obsessed.

Posted by rockstar
Ok everybody, why are Taurus men so wonderful? I had a little flirting session with one last year that lasted a few months. Because I totally embarrassed myself I have avoided him since December. But I still can't get him out of my mind! I am constantly reminded of him through everyday actions. His work is on my way home and when I drive by I see him leaning up against the building looking good. I meet other Taurus men, and I like them, but they are nothing compared to the one I want. I think I crossed a line with him by being a weirdo, but I can't escape him! It makes me think that he cast a spell on me, voodoo or something because no other person has had me so obsessed.

How did you embarrass yourself? And has he tried to get into contact with you since?

I embarrassed myself by accidentally messaging him on fb. I pressed "enter" to start a new paragraph, with no intention to send, and found that pressing enter does NOT start a new paragraph. Him and his ex gf got back together shortly before this, which I didn't know about. But he has not tried to contact me since then. And he actually marked my last message as "unread", even though I saw that he did read it.

Posted by rockstar
I embarrassed myself by accidentally messaging him on fb. I pressed "enter" to start a new paragraph, with no intention to send, and found that pressing enter does NOT start a new paragraph. Him and his ex gf got back together shortly before this, which I didn't know about. But he has not tried to contact me since then. And he actually marked my last message as "unread", even though I saw that he did read it.

What did you say in the message? How you felt about him? Taurus men can some times be indecisive. I am a Taurus and dated one on and off for 6 years. Oddly enough we are really good friends now. I noticed with Taurus men they dwell on the past a lot, and if his old relationship did not end for good he is probably most likely still seeing his ex girlfriend. Even if it's just for a casual hook up, that's how they are. I would give him his space, and let him decide what he wants. In the meantime don't dwell on what you could be with him, enjoy your solitude and explore the dating pool! 🙂

It was a cheesy message. I just told him that he is the best and he made a joke and then it was over. I am trying not to dwell on him, but something always comes up to remind me of him 😢

It was a cheesy message. I just told him that he is the best and he made a joke and then it was over. I am trying not to dwell on him, but something always comes up to remind me of him 😢

Posted by rockstar
It was a cheesy message. I just told him that he is the best and he made a joke and then it was over. I am trying not to dwell on him, but something always comes up to remind me of him 😢

Well if you really can't get him off your mind, maybe send him a casual text and ask him how he's doing? And then take it from there, but I would try not to be clingy or overly anxious when talking him like don't reply immediately as he texts you back. Taurus men are observant and do not like clingy women. Or if you don't feel comfortable texting him I would just let it go and let time and God take care of it. If it's meant to be then it will be 🙂

Hide or block him on FB, that should help.

Take a new route home.

Give new men a chance.

Get out and go date a few hot guys just for fun and for mental stimulation.

Remind yourself there are AVAILABLE men out there.

You can get over it if you really really want to.

But if you don't want to you'll be stuck all by yourself which can feel miserable.

If he's back with his ex, I would hang it up on trying to date him. I haven't known a Taurus to cheat unless they felt abandoned or if they don't truly trust the person they are with; and in that case the relationship is doomed anyway, otherwise loyalty is at the top of the list with them. The give it and they demand it in return. They may flirt, but it's literally harmless and rare when they are committed so if I were you I??d let that part go.
Honestly if he's with someone I disagree that you should let him know how you feel. What's the point of letting him know you??re all in your feelings over him if he has a girlfriend, it just doesn't look good on your part. Stop being a creep though, when you see him you can speak??_lol. You can say hi, and hold a general conversation without going all into the emotional crap and stroking his ego. If he got a girl it's not your job to let him know how wonderful he is, let his girl ride his d*ck. That's my opinion.
And lastly, your comment in his inbox was not embarrassing; you only think that because right now you obviously have deeper feelings towards the situation. He joked back, because it was nothing to him. Plus like I said, most Taurus are loyal in relationships, so him marking your message as unread was probably because he knew the flirting would probably get out of hand and he wants to keep things light out of respect for his girl.

Thanks all! I know that if I wanted to get over him then I could. It's just that no one else is interesting to me right now. I'm with you though pink libra, I'm not going to contact him because he is back with his ex. The thing that upsets me though, and maybe may be why I am so obsessed, is that he had a gf and didn't tell me. He showed obvious signs of interest in me, I put myself out there and he had more than enough chances to even mention his gf in conversation, and he didn't.
A few months ago I was out and I ran into him. He didn't see me but his friends saw me and were talking about me. I heard their conversation and they were saying how crazy I am to be trying to break him and his gf up. I didn't even know he had a girl. We live in the same area and I see "his people" around and they still talk about me as the "wanna be home wrecker".

See there. Oh hell naw. Keep it moving princess he's not worth it. His friends can kick rocks, if you didn't know then you didn't know; I know way too many instances where guys flirt their pants off and then have a sudden epiphany like —Oh yeah! I have a girlfriend.?? Smh. That's why I ask upfront what the status is, so they can never say I didn't ask. I don't know if you asked up front, but if not next time ask don't ever assume because men will never just offer information especially if they are out for self.

I think taureans are more outgoing and flirty with female friends but shy as hell around the girl they want. Its cute af

You guys are all so right. I am feeling like a nutcase!