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Female Archetypes, the Nurturer,
ӢFamily Ties:
Family relationships. Another common trend is that they have very close family ties. They’re close to their parents, aunts, uncles, and such. For instance, it’s not uncommon to look through their facebook profiles and notice them proudly displaying photos of themselves with nieces and/or nephews.
During you conversations, you’ll hear common trends,
“I was just talking to my aunt last weekend, she is so awesome, anyway she was telling me that……….”
Again, whether their nurturing personality is a predisposition or cause of a close family upbringing remains to be examined. I certainly believe it does make a difference. Human beings who feel they’ve been loved are far more likely to return that love to others. ( My observations.)
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ӢSocial Conscientiousness :
This archetype tends to exhibit a conscientious pattern regarding social issues. You’ll also come to realize this in your interactions. Whether it’s social, political, or environmental, they’ll show concern for their surrounding world.
I’ll give you an example. A few months ago, I was walking out of a supermarket where a girl approached me to ask if I wanted to donate money to her organization. I came to find out she was representing “Amnesty International” and was very passionate in discussing human rights violations in various parts of the world. She even talked me into giving her a $ 20 donation for the cause. (No, it wasn’t because I was hitting on her, for the smart-asses out there.)
Now, you have to realize the sort of dedication it takes to stand outside a supermarket and solicit money for a cause. You’re essentially cold-approaching strangers for hours a day for very little pay. It takes a certain animal to do that…. You have to be really motivated and passionate about the cause that you believe in to volunteer or work for low pay to solicit strangers for money for your organization.
Chances are you may have come across people like this at some point. Whether it was in high school, college or a cocktail party, you have interacted with such persons in your life. Think about the tendencies of that individual.
Are these the perfect people? No, not at all. While this type of woman makes for a good girlfriend, sometimes you may run into a few bumps in the road. For example, you may find that they react more emotionally to things that are not “That big of a deal” to you. They may want you to care about their social/political concerns and sometimes they may sport a bit of a “Hippy” vibe in that they don’t get dolled up and dress to impress.
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2011/03/20/female-archetype-nurturers-givers/#sthash.PHCIZXz8.dpuf
Family relationships. Another common trend is that they have very close family ties. They’re close to their parents, aunts, uncles, and such. For instance, it’s not uncommon to look through their facebook profiles and notice them proudly displaying photos of themselves with nieces and/or nephews.
During you conversations, you’ll hear common trends,
“I was just talking to my aunt last weekend, she is so awesome, anyway she was telling me that……….”
Again, whether their nurturing personality is a predisposition or cause of a close family upbringing remains to be examined. I certainly believe it does make a difference. Human beings who feel they’ve been loved are far more likely to return that love to others. ( My observations.)
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ӢSocial Conscientiousness :
This archetype tends to exhibit a conscientious pattern regarding social issues. You’ll also come to realize this in your interactions. Whether it’s social, political, or environmental, they’ll show concern for their surrounding world.
I’ll give you an example. A few months ago, I was walking out of a supermarket where a girl approached me to ask if I wanted to donate money to her organization. I came to find out she was representing “Amnesty International” and was very passionate in discussing human rights violations in various parts of the world. She even talked me into giving her a $ 20 donation for the cause. (No, it wasn’t because I was hitting on her, for the smart-asses out there.)
Now, you have to realize the sort of dedication it takes to stand outside a supermarket and solicit money for a cause. You’re essentially cold-approaching strangers for hours a day for very little pay. It takes a certain animal to do that…. You have to be really motivated and passionate about the cause that you believe in to volunteer or work for low pay to solicit strangers for money for your organization.
Chances are you may have come across people like this at some point. Whether it was in high school, college or a cocktail party, you have interacted with such persons in your life. Think about the tendencies of that individual.
Are these the perfect people? No, not at all. While this type of woman makes for a good girlfriend, sometimes you may run into a few bumps in the road. For example, you may find that they react more emotionally to things that are not “That big of a deal” to you. They may want you to care about their social/political concerns and sometimes they may sport a bit of a “Hippy” vibe in that they don’t get dolled up and dress to impress.
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2011/03/20/female-archetype-nurturers-givers/#sthash.PHCIZXz8.dpuf
oops forgot to post the rest:
Recap of Nurturing Women Archetypes
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So let’s do a recap of what I just went over:
ӢEmotionally giving/ Nurturer Archetype
ӢVery Likely Artistic in nature
”¢Usually have some sort of artistic/creative outlet (music, drawing, etc…)
ӢMore sensitive than your average woman
ӢCome across as genuinely happy persons often
ӢUsually exhibit a warm pleasant demeanor when meeting them,
”¢They’re close to family
”¢In routine conversations, They’ll often bring up family, Aunts/Uncles, nieces/nephews, etc.
”¢Don’t respond well to over-the-top cocky macho approaches by men. (It doesn’t mean they don’t like masculine men.)
ӢWhen approaching this type, be masculine, just the cut the machismo and bravado down a bit.
ӢOften can be overly sensitive in dating/relationship situations. (Reference Christmas card story above)
ӢThis over sensitivity could result in some drama in the relationship at time
ӢUsually socially/politically Conscientiousness on some level.
”¢If you asked them their dreams, there is always something in there to want to improve the world (even if it is saving hamsters….)
ӢMaking a difference is important to them.
”¢More difficult to find in loud nightclubs/bars. They don’t frequent such places often.
ӢUsually have a good circle of friends around them, (in my experience.)
ӢLow drama factor usually (Barring the over sensitivity)
ӢMore sentimental
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2011/03/20/female-archetype-nurturers-givers/#sthash.PHCIZXz8.dpuf
Recap of Nurturing Women Archetypes
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So let’s do a recap of what I just went over:
ӢEmotionally giving/ Nurturer Archetype
ӢVery Likely Artistic in nature
”¢Usually have some sort of artistic/creative outlet (music, drawing, etc…)
ӢMore sensitive than your average woman
ӢCome across as genuinely happy persons often
ӢUsually exhibit a warm pleasant demeanor when meeting them,
”¢They’re close to family
”¢In routine conversations, They’ll often bring up family, Aunts/Uncles, nieces/nephews, etc.
”¢Don’t respond well to over-the-top cocky macho approaches by men. (It doesn’t mean they don’t like masculine men.)
ӢWhen approaching this type, be masculine, just the cut the machismo and bravado down a bit.
ӢOften can be overly sensitive in dating/relationship situations. (Reference Christmas card story above)
ӢThis over sensitivity could result in some drama in the relationship at time
ӢUsually socially/politically Conscientiousness on some level.
”¢If you asked them their dreams, there is always something in there to want to improve the world (even if it is saving hamsters….)
ӢMaking a difference is important to them.
”¢More difficult to find in loud nightclubs/bars. They don’t frequent such places often.
ӢUsually have a good circle of friends around them, (in my experience.)
ӢLow drama factor usually (Barring the over sensitivity)
ӢMore sentimental
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2011/03/20/female-archetype-nurturers-givers/#sthash.PHCIZXz8.dpuf
oooooo i just read the Female Arhetype The ALPHA female
here you go, gentlemen!!! attract the alpha women.
http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/02/24/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1/
How Archetypes Affect Your Dating Success, Part 1 [Alpha Females]
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One of my most important moments of realization in dating dawned on me when I started to gain an understanding of archetypes of women. It is seemingly so simplistic in nature that it ought to be common sense. Perhaps somewhere deep inside, we’ve always been somewhat aware but never gave it much thought. Either way, people giving dating-advice don’t seem to teach it and they definitely do not talk about the specifics of it. I had to learn it on my own and I am going to share some of that with you.
You too will have a moment of epiphany as well as relief the second you not only realize, but come to terms with the fact that your personality type will complement certain other personality types, and similarly, you’re not going to mesh well with certain other men/women.
In my last blog post, I talked about the cocky/funny concepts and how it just may be killing your chances with women. If you haven’t read it, then take a few minutes to do that, and come back to this article in about 10 minutes. (You might want to do that now…)
If you have read it, then let’s tie in some of the concepts I’ve been discussing together to sort of crystallize the information so that you have a working visual model that you can imagine applying to your life. One of my favorite concepts in this entire field is the issue of personality Archetypes. So, let’s talk about the issue of cocky/funny and how it relates to the issue of personality types.
There are roughly about 10 various archetypes of women that a man is going to come across on a consistent basis, in my estimation. What are these 10 archetypes and what are their tendencies? Well, that deserves an entire body of work on its own as. However, to illustrate the how this concept manifests itself in real life, I am going to discuss a couple of them.
Out of these 10 various archetypes, there are 2 particular archetypes of women that respond well to the over-the-top cocky funny commentary. The onus is on you to be able to distinguish the specific type of woman you’re interacting with. This generally referred to as Calibration in the seduction community. In layman’s terms, it simply means being able to read and gauge people and circumstances.
Let’s take judgment out of this equation and just talk about the behavior and values of the two archetypes that respond to this form of behavior.
Ӣ First Archetype to discuss: The Alpha-Female
What and who is the Alpha Female? You’ll rarely encounter this archetype because, well, there simply aren’t that many of them around. Don’t let the categorization fool ya. Alpha-female is not meant to designate a female Rambo. Also, while it’s
here you go, gentlemen!!! attract the alpha women.
http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/02/24/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1/
How Archetypes Affect Your Dating Success, Part 1 [Alpha Females]
.
One of my most important moments of realization in dating dawned on me when I started to gain an understanding of archetypes of women. It is seemingly so simplistic in nature that it ought to be common sense. Perhaps somewhere deep inside, we’ve always been somewhat aware but never gave it much thought. Either way, people giving dating-advice don’t seem to teach it and they definitely do not talk about the specifics of it. I had to learn it on my own and I am going to share some of that with you.
You too will have a moment of epiphany as well as relief the second you not only realize, but come to terms with the fact that your personality type will complement certain other personality types, and similarly, you’re not going to mesh well with certain other men/women.
In my last blog post, I talked about the cocky/funny concepts and how it just may be killing your chances with women. If you haven’t read it, then take a few minutes to do that, and come back to this article in about 10 minutes. (You might want to do that now…)
If you have read it, then let’s tie in some of the concepts I’ve been discussing together to sort of crystallize the information so that you have a working visual model that you can imagine applying to your life. One of my favorite concepts in this entire field is the issue of personality Archetypes. So, let’s talk about the issue of cocky/funny and how it relates to the issue of personality types.
There are roughly about 10 various archetypes of women that a man is going to come across on a consistent basis, in my estimation. What are these 10 archetypes and what are their tendencies? Well, that deserves an entire body of work on its own as. However, to illustrate the how this concept manifests itself in real life, I am going to discuss a couple of them.
Out of these 10 various archetypes, there are 2 particular archetypes of women that respond well to the over-the-top cocky funny commentary. The onus is on you to be able to distinguish the specific type of woman you’re interacting with. This generally referred to as Calibration in the seduction community. In layman’s terms, it simply means being able to read and gauge people and circumstances.
Let’s take judgment out of this equation and just talk about the behavior and values of the two archetypes that respond to this form of behavior.
Ӣ First Archetype to discuss: The Alpha-Female
What and who is the Alpha Female? You’ll rarely encounter this archetype because, well, there simply aren’t that many of them around. Don’t let the categorization fool ya. Alpha-female is not meant to designate a female Rambo. Also, while it’s
They’re normally very independent and furthermore, they’re very proud of their independence. Personal accomplishment is important to them. They tend to have a decent amount of male friends. (Note that there is also the perpetual lush/drunk bar chick archetype that seems to have a plethora of male friends and has slept with probably half of them, but that’s an entirely different archetype of woman, NOT to be mistaken for the alpha female. Again, we’ll focus on deconstructing that archetype’s values/behavior on another day.)
Back to Alpha Females: They’re usually physical, have good physiques and enjoy what’d normally be considered “Guy activities,” be it hitting the gym hard, riding motorcycles, hiking, and etc… This does not however mean that they’re not feminine. Quite contrary, despite their rough exterior, they can be very feminine and enjoy “Girly Girl” things as well. Unfortunately, this is the mistake most men make: They don’t understand that these are actually women who are also proud of being very feminine and still look to the man to lead. They’re not lesbians nor are they bull-dykes. (Is there a more politically correct way of explaining a bull-dyke?)
Anyhow, to ensure no one misconstrues what I am describing here, Rosie O’Donnell is NOT an alpha female. On the other hand, Gina Carano very likely is. (She is a female MMA Fighter who has gained some fame as of the past few years. Featured below are two photographs of her.)
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Notice the dichotomy between the photos! The polarity of the “Masculine” activity (and it doens’t get much more masculine than cage-fighting) versus the very classical very sexy feminine look on the right. You will observe that quite often with this type, as I described earlier.
They do respond to guy-humor which means they get “Harsh” humor and making fun of your buddies with over the top sarcasm. This is not to advocate that you go up and blatantly insult them. It’s that they appreciate what is referred to as, “Guy Humor.” You can get away with jokes you wouldn’t otherwise pull off with other women. To give you a concrete example: This is the type of woman who’d watch Adam Sandler’s “I now pronounce you Chuck and Larry” flick and laugh outloud with you. (A movie which a lot of women don’t seem to generally like very much.)
The downside is that they can also be stubborn, a bit hardheaded and need a little bit of “their own space.” They ARE affectionate, but they’re not clingy. If you’re easily intimidated, you’re probably not going to get along well with this type. Also, if you expect a woman to follow your every wish and command, you’re probably not going to get along well with this type. If you expect a woman who is going to look to you for every decision in her life, you and this type will NOT get along. Again, they do have that pride element and being independent is important to them.
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Back to Alpha Females: They’re usually physical, have good physiques and enjoy what’d normally be considered “Guy activities,” be it hitting the gym hard, riding motorcycles, hiking, and etc… This does not however mean that they’re not feminine. Quite contrary, despite their rough exterior, they can be very feminine and enjoy “Girly Girl” things as well. Unfortunately, this is the mistake most men make: They don’t understand that these are actually women who are also proud of being very feminine and still look to the man to lead. They’re not lesbians nor are they bull-dykes. (Is there a more politically correct way of explaining a bull-dyke?)
Anyhow, to ensure no one misconstrues what I am describing here, Rosie O’Donnell is NOT an alpha female. On the other hand, Gina Carano very likely is. (She is a female MMA Fighter who has gained some fame as of the past few years. Featured below are two photographs of her.)
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Notice the dichotomy between the photos! The polarity of the “Masculine” activity (and it doens’t get much more masculine than cage-fighting) versus the very classical very sexy feminine look on the right. You will observe that quite often with this type, as I described earlier.
They do respond to guy-humor which means they get “Harsh” humor and making fun of your buddies with over the top sarcasm. This is not to advocate that you go up and blatantly insult them. It’s that they appreciate what is referred to as, “Guy Humor.” You can get away with jokes you wouldn’t otherwise pull off with other women. To give you a concrete example: This is the type of woman who’d watch Adam Sandler’s “I now pronounce you Chuck and Larry” flick and laugh outloud with you. (A movie which a lot of women don’t seem to generally like very much.)
The downside is that they can also be stubborn, a bit hardheaded and need a little bit of “their own space.” They ARE affectionate, but they’re not clingy. If you’re easily intimidated, you’re probably not going to get along well with this type. Also, if you expect a woman to follow your every wish and command, you’re probably not going to get along well with this type. If you expect a woman who is going to look to you for every decision in her life, you and this type will NOT get along. Again, they do have that pride element and being independent is important to them.
- S
So a quick recap of Alpha-Females:
ӢStrong, Independent, Not seen in large female groups normally.
”¢Tend to be more physical, enjoy “Guy” activities and humor, good in bed.
ӢAlso somewhat stubborn and very proud. Care about their own accomplishment.
ӢLike masculine men, turned off by feminine men.
ӢNormally, they have had fantastic relationships with their fathers growing up.
ӢTend to appreciate a direct-approach, mixed in with a touch of humor.
ӢLow drama factor
Biggest mistake men make with this type:
”¢Thinking that she is a lesbian, or that she doesn’t have a “Girly-girl” feminine side.
ӢTrying to beat around the bush regarding their intentions for too long.
”¢Trying hard to impress using money, drugs, and parties….
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/02/24/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1/#sthash.4xbzTvoM.dpuf
ӢStrong, Independent, Not seen in large female groups normally.
”¢Tend to be more physical, enjoy “Guy” activities and humor, good in bed.
ӢAlso somewhat stubborn and very proud. Care about their own accomplishment.
ӢLike masculine men, turned off by feminine men.
ӢNormally, they have had fantastic relationships with their fathers growing up.
ӢTend to appreciate a direct-approach, mixed in with a touch of humor.
ӢLow drama factor
Biggest mistake men make with this type:
”¢Thinking that she is a lesbian, or that she doesn’t have a “Girly-girl” feminine side.
ӢTrying to beat around the bush regarding their intentions for too long.
”¢Trying hard to impress using money, drugs, and parties….
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/02/24/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1/#sthash.4xbzTvoM.dpuf
wow, they're GOOD in bed. 😄 😄 😄
Posted by Belayoure welcome.
I have life path number 6 so I am the nurturer, and my rising is cancer. Now let me read it bc its too long, I find it very interesting. Thank you
the happy with glee in life is very much me, and i have alot of creative outlets, although been busy with other stuff. but Always have creativty/artistically bent.
alot of the nurturer rings true, but ALSO the joking around with the guys.
Wow...this article describes me in a nutshell. Although I ENJOY a good party, I'm not one to stay in that atmosphere all of the time. I want to get my fun fix and then head home, especially if home is where my guy wants to be. I actually had to tell a Scorp gf of mine that we should call it a night, because her guy was OBVIOUSLY ready to call it a night. I had nothing better to do, so I could have hung, but as the 3rd and deciding party in this situation...I was like...nah, I'm good. let's call it a night.
Let me add that had MY guy been there and he would have wanted to stay out and party...OMG, that would have been perfect for me. I find that I really really really like partying with my mate. It doesn't have to necessarily be wild...I mean, it can be a little like that, but definitely fun and exciting. I'm down/game for hanging out all night with my mate...even during the week.
Let me add that had MY guy been there and he would have wanted to stay out and party...OMG, that would have been perfect for me. I find that I really really really like partying with my mate. It doesn't have to necessarily be wild...I mean, it can be a little like that, but definitely fun and exciting. I'm down/game for hanging out all night with my mate...even during the week.
Posted by lisabethur8This ALSO describes me down to the wire. Sooooo....you mean to tell me that both the Alpha femaleness and the nurturer can be seen in me by men? Hmmm....interesting. I can honestly say that I don't have any major problems attracting good men who are willing to treat me well. It's just a matter of whether or not they want to build a relationship together. It's very possible for a good guy to be very good to a woman without wanting to get serious.
So a quick recap of Alpha-Females:
ӢStrong, Independent, Not seen in large female groups normally.
”¢Tend to be more physical, enjoy “Guy” activities and humor, good in bed.
ӢAlso somewhat stubborn and very proud. Care about their own accomplishment.
ӢLike masculine men, turned off by feminine men.
ӢNormally, they have had fantastic relationships with their fathers growing up.
ӢTend to appreciate a direct-approach, mixed in with a touch of humor.
ӢLow drama factor
Biggest mistake men make with this type:
”¢Thinking that she is a lesbian, or that she doesn’t have a “Girly-girl” feminine side.
ӢTrying to beat around the bush regarding their intentions for too long.
”¢Trying hard to impress using money, drugs, and parties….
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/02/24/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1/#sthash.4xbzTvoM.dpuf
Posted by MsTeeq1974me too!!! 😄Posted by lisabethur8This ALSO describes me down to the wire. Sooooo....you mean to tell me that both the Alpha femaleness and the nurturer can be seen in me by men? Hmmm....interesting. I can honestly say that I don't have any major problems attracting good men who are willing to treat me well. It's just a matter of whether or not they want to build a relationship together. It's very possible for a good guy to be very good to a woman without wanting to get serious.
So a quick recap of Alpha-Females:
ӢStrong, Independent, Not seen in large female groups normally.
”¢Tend to be more physical, enjoy “Guy” activities and humor, good in bed.
ӢAlso somewhat stubborn and very proud. Care about their own accomplishment.
ӢLike masculine men, turned off by feminine men.
ӢNormally, they have had fantastic relationships with their fathers growing up.
ӢTend to appreciate a direct-approach, mixed in with a touch of humor.
ӢLow drama factor
Biggest mistake men make with this type:
”¢Thinking that she is a lesbian, or that she doesn’t have a “Girly-girl” feminine side.
ӢTrying to beat around the bush regarding their intentions for too long.
”¢Trying hard to impress using money, drugs, and parties….
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2009/02/24/how-archetypes-affect-your-dating-success-part-1/#sthash.4xbzTvoM.dpufclick to expand
both of those merge (the nurturer and the alpha female) So i guess we both have it in us lol
although i am the girly girl, very very girly, but tomboyish girly. No one would mistake me for a boy that's for sure. Maybe if i disguise myself if i cut my hair like a bob cut super short and wore really baggy clothes and a big ole' baseball cap, with the hoodie shadowing over my face, flatten my breasts with some stuff wrapped around, (which i read in Victorian novels that lots of women do in the old days so they can disguise as a boy) then that's the way to go. But why bother? lol
trying to impress the money and drugs parties isn't me AT ALL.
it does sound like my sister's and her virgo man's pad though. they invite alot of friends to their parties. Besides me and hubs don' t really like people around too much, we're homebodies and like our homebodies selves. lol
and my ex husband the pisces sun/leo moon/pisces mars/venus aries was into that!!! impressing with money, big cars, and DRUGS. he would drop thousands in one night. *smh*
definitely an alpha guy but also, went down the wrong way of life.
definitely an alpha guy but also, went down the wrong way of life.
Posted by lisabethur8I'm not impressed by money either, but guys always try it anyways. That was a part of my disappointment in my visit with my Scorp. He focused more on trying to impress me now that he's working and makes good money again, than he did just cuddling/chit chatting with me. I mean, I understood his intent. He is heart was definitely in the right place and I felt so bad, because within that short visit, he kinda spent a lot trying to impress me. I was just kinda angered that he felt the need to impress me when I'm already all in. We did end up talking and I made it very clear to him that from here on out, I want him...not his money, not for him to impress me. I'm already impressed...dammit. lol I knew that he was a money maker without him having it on him in spades the way he has it on him now. However, that was NEVER the focus of my time with him, because at the time...he didn't have it to spend...which was PERFECT and also because I already had two guys still chasing me who have money as well. If I wasn't interested in forming a union with them (one I've known for 5 years and the other for one year) why would I be impressed by a new guys' funds. Nope...never that.
and my ex husband the pisces sun/leo moon/pisces mars/venus aries was into that!!! impressing with money, big cars, and DRUGS. he would drop thousands in one night. *smh*
definitely an alpha guy but also, went down the wrong way of life.
I ran from a Cap for over a year, because every time he would see me at the club he would pull a wad of cash out of his pocket and pay for my drinks. Scared the shit out of me. I thought he was a drug dealer. Come to find out, he was one of the top managers of a civil organization and would carry around hundreds out of his paycheck in cash....my guess is that he was used to impressing women by dressing real nice and pulling out all of that money. I told him outright that he scared the hell out of me and that's why I never talked to him. He would buy my drinks and I would dance with him 1 or 2 times, politely thank him and then dip out/away from him.
Posted by MsTeeq1974Posted by lisabethur8I'm not impressed by money either, but guys always try it anyways. That was a part of my disappointment in my visit with my Scorp. He focused more on trying to impress me now that he's working and makes good money again, than he did just cuddling/chit chatting with me. I mean, I understood his intent. He is heart was definitely in the right place and I felt so bad, because within that short visit, he kinda spent a lot trying to impress me. I was just kinda angered that he felt the need to impress me when I'm already all in. We did end up talking and I made it very clear to him that from here on out, I want him...not his money, not for him to impress me. I'm already impressed...dammit. lol I knew that he was a money maker without him having it on him in spades the way he has it on him now. However, that was NEVER the focus of my time with him, because at the time...he didn't have it to spend...which was PERFECT and also because I already had two guys still chasing me who have money as well. If I wasn't interested in forming a union with them (one I've known for 5 years and the other for one year) why would I be impressed by a new guys' funds. Nope...never that.
and my ex husband the pisces sun/leo moon/pisces mars/venus aries was into that!!! impressing with money, big cars, and DRUGS. he would drop thousands in one night. *smh*
definitely an alpha guy but also, went down the wrong way of life.
I ran from a Cap for over a year, because every time he would see me at the club he would pull a wad of cash out of his pocket and pay for my drinks. Scared the shit out of me. I thought he was a drug dealer. Come to find out, he was one of the top managers of a civil organization and would carry around hundreds out of his paycheck in cash....my guess is that he was used to impressing women by dressing real nice and pulling out all of that money. I told him outright that he scared the hell out of me and that's why I never talked to him. He would buy my drinks and I would dance with him 1 or 2 times, politely thank him and then dip out/away from him.click to expand
aw that is really cool. He really likes you!! i love reading this stuff!
* i meant about those guys you mentioned trying to impress,
i do love reading the connection between you and your man.
i do love reading the connection between you and your man.
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Who the hell taught yall to flirt? Don't tell a guy you have a boyfriend (apperently that's a valid flirting technique) and get upset when he doesn't repond to further flirting. Mind games aren't cute. Don't rub your ass on a guy. Despite the fact
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do you ever realize, that you (you = general) do project? And dont realize, until later that you - general, project?
I have not dated anyone for over a year. I am honestly content being on my own. I am not really looking. I am just makin
i have a first house venus, so that just natally sucks for me, cause i know what that means. lol anyway, alot of soci
i think this can be also for men who desire ___ want ___ If you see a woman who has a good relationship with her man,
this is interesting to me, because I do notice a trend with men who are in power, many of them become corrupt and fall..
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.....and being attracted to men in relationships. Is there something in the air? Do I actually enjoy the fact that t
alright i have serious questions. why are you women so infatuated in losers? don't lie. you women throw yourselves at lo
so i've been thinking when i was reading up on celeb history and their background relationships, and also on some astro
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i think this is a good topic for women who need/want respect from men in general. this is spurred on by the women who a
http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2011/03/20/female-archetype-nurturers-givers/
How to identify Nurturing type of Women
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A number of blog readers have written asking for more articles regarding girls who are suitable for relationships. Questions regarding, “How to get a girlfriend,” and “Where to meet girls who are girlfriend-types” and knowing how to vibe with them.
In the past, I’ve written extensively on certain female archetypes. You may have read my article on “Female Archetypes – Alpha Females” and “Female Archetypes – Party Chicks.” I’ve probably written the most on “Party chicks” which is the archetype that is toughest to grasp for the average blog readers which consists of intellectual dudes. They’re also the ones most often encountered in bars, pub, and nightclubs.
This article is going to take a turn in the opposite direction as it pertains more towards nurturing/giving type of women. So let’s get to it.
>>>How do you distinguish if you’ve met this type?
This will come with a bit of experience. As you interact with a lot of women, you’ll see common behavioral patterns and common values exhibited by similar types. The nurturing/emotionally giving type usually exhibits a happier disposition.
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ӢGenuine Happiness:
You’ll normally observe that they’re genuinely happier people and they portray that glee. They’re apt to react more emotionally to situations than other female archetypes. Often times, you may observe that they seem to have some sort of a creative and artistic outlet. They might not be musicians but they may play a guitar, or write, or recite poetry.
Being more emotional people, they have that need for a creative outlet and you’ll note that in your interactions. Again, be aware that just because a woman plays a guitar, it does not mean she is this particular type. It’s more a combination of behavioral patterns that are common to this type.
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ӢFamily Ties:
- See more at: http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/2011/03/20/female-archetype-nurturers-givers/#sthash.PHCIZXz8.dpuf