This is my first time on this forum and I have been reading so many terrible things about the Virgo man and experiences with them. Well I just had an encounter with one. It was a terrible experience. Emotionally I am drained. But I'm happy that I've finally called it quits with him. I did soo much for this man material wise...what did I not do for him. The last straw that broke the camel's back was when he asked for money and I refused to give him. I refused to give him because I found out he's been cheating on me. He visited me and mistakenly left his mail open and I decided to use the opportunity to know who he really is since he doesn't talk much about his world. It was then I found out he's been cheating on me. I confronted him and he lied ..luckily I copied the email where the lady wrote they had s..x and all. He begged and begged and I forgave him. We got back together again and he asked for this money. When I refused to give him the money he asked for, he went bunkers and I called it quits. Months later he called me begging me to be his friend. I told him he was a fool.. that how can a liar and a flirt be my friend. He called several times and all begging me..and I was confused...he said from friendship we could get back together. I was confused....and all..he started sounding nice to me and all..
I actually thought of becoming his friend and I investigated him further and found out he has a girlfriend. That was when I blew up and knew he was playing games with me having read some of the experiences in this forum. Anyways..I am glad it's finally over. I have never been in a complicated relationship in my life.
Well to whoever is dating a virgo male..well am sure there might be good ones..but this one I enountered was a bad bad one. I am happy that I am out his poisonus web!
No..it's a virgo thing..after reading the experiences in this forum. It's a virgo thing sorrry. 90% of what people say here can't be wrong. Anyways I am happy I am out of his poisnous web. I read tuf2luv experience and various others. And those were exactly my experience with this man. I actually did think that anybody can do it. But I went searching about virgo's way of life and came across this site and am glad that it's not just me having this experience..so many other people. Well I can't say how happy I am. Just like what someone posted here: 'IT WILL BE A COLD DAY IN HELL WHEN A VIRGO MAN DECIDES WHAT HE WANTS'. And I know the other women in his life is going thru the same thing. I had dated before but I have never been in such a complicated relationship in my life. I'm glad talking about it so that other people can learn just as I have learned. Coming across this site and reading people's experience was what made me make up my mind to finally cut him off completely even though he's begging me to be his friend...but I can never be. So I am happy with this forum.
Leogirl75, You know, I'm not going to speak in defense of the natives of a zodiac sign that's good in my book, but I will say that it's a shame that you had to go thru that experience with that guy. All I can say is that the general public isn't always right, but in your case, I guess it was inevitable to call it quits. I'm actually quite sorry that you haven't been able to see Virgoans at their best. Dreamy-Eyez, out.
Forget about Virgo males. I've read alot of stories about Virgo male using Leo female as a tool...Get something more "male" rather than a Virgin. They aren't worth the time.
Thank you haffo and cancerbuddy. I feel so much better talking about it. It gives me great relief and happiness. I thought I was being hard on him and wicked when he begged me several times that we should be friends and maybe we could get back together🙂🙂 But now I know better. Infact what was posted on this forum is exactly his nature. He doesn't normally call..rarely..It was when I cut off ties with him that he almost killed me with calls and I still refused. He said I was a terrible person..I told him thank you..that is not compulsory I should be his friend. Seriously I feel better that am out of it. I am sorry for his next conquest...laughs
You believe what you wanted to believe and no body can change it?. If you mean all men are jerks then you meet jerks, Virgo or not... be glad that you've met someone "abusing you economically", worst is "emotionally"? and it will KILL you in long run? trust me on that...
As I've said it above... people are different... Virgo or not..!
Can anyone REALLY talk about VIRGO and the "VIRGO" causes..??
Qbone, Did you read my story very well. Well for your information I didn't give full details of what happened. So don't say he only abused me economically. Emotionally I was drained not only did he abuse me economically..he lied, cheated..all sorts. He begged me to forgive him and still cheating on me...He doesn't know what love is ..that is why he plays games. Read about virgos..unemotional..boring ..unromantic. I am glad I dated him because I have learned. I have learned him like a course. And I told him he will never find true love and happiness. It's my promise to him.
Qbone you can write whatever you feel..but I took it upon myself to know about his star sign. I believe in horoscope to study people's behaviour. When I came across this site..and read the message boards..I concluded it was a virgo thing. Exactly what other people had gone true. And when I studied his star sign very well. i could predict his behaviour and he was shocked at me knowing how he acts. At a point he said I was a witch..I laughed...
Lady... you can believe what ever you want .. I cant change your view point.. and I wont even attempt to do it.! It is your life anyway..!!
I am not even defending the personalities of different people that caused these troubles.
It is your OWN problem? not a VIRGO stuff?Don?t try to blame the whole race (Virgo's in this case) for your bad experiences?!
I had a lot of bad experiences too? shall I stay as a MUNK and avoid everybody, just because I had a bad experience.. or worse?. Tell everyone else that to avoid those particular star signs, because I had a trouble with??... you judging people now..??... then who the hell you think you are..??
You can blame it on everyone and everything else.. sure you had your problem and pains.. I am not denying this.. but you also need to stop being "stereotyped" and see this things personally between "you and him"? not you and the whole damn (star sign race).
If I had a problem with say?. Cancerians. Do I need to go on board and babble about those..?? something not working between us and that?s it.. (it is between us).. same goes for other star sign stuff?. !
Isn?t that childish behaviour to blame the whole race to justify our actions..??
You had a bad experience with someone? Virgo in this case..
Close the case and move along, and try to learn something out of this to avoid future problems and difficulties? Virgo's today will be some other star signs tomorrow..!
I can assure that YOU don?t know what love and romance is neither? so don?t be so sure of yours (or what you've believe about love)? you kidding me..?
What do you want is not what is suppose to be in reality.. other people has their own wish and will powers too..!
You play stupid, you get stupid stuff in return too..!!
Hail! Hail! Hail! Qbone the Guardian of Virgo Board! :-) What Qbone said is the fact and what Leogirl said is information. Both are interesting and helpful.
I've read the 90% of negative posts too BUT it's still not a virgo thing,only meet one of six virgos who do that stuff.It's jerk who needs a swift kick to the ass who just happens to be a virgo thing not ALL virgos thing.The reason noone posts good stuff about virgos on those posts is because it's not a virgo thing and choose to not even defend the virgo in question.Or if they do read it and say things as an attempt to make the poster feel better,some of those posts are by virgo lovers.All of the starsigns boards are filled with 90% of angry people who are looking for answers to things that can only be answered by themselves and venting purposes.You also contradicted yourself BTW,"sure there may be good virgos" then "no..it's a virgo thing".Keep in mind it's the one you've experianced,the five decent(sure this one may be lazy,this one may be a little stuck up,etc.Everyone has flaws,your a lier if you say you don't) ones I know are usually in the same situation you are when thier in love.Also the reason some things sound so similar to your own posts is because people in general suck and you will find all of those same problems on every other starsigns negative posts too,it's the reality that goes way beyond the time frame in which someone is born.Just consider him(not virgos) a sack of lying,milking it,cheating bag of trash and be done with him.If you need proof of it not being just virgos,check out the aquarius board right now they have alot of bashers right now too.
Do you wonder why people who brake up with Virgo's always end up hating them? Do you see that difference from other forums? Dont you think this is already a reason?
I didn't see anyone who has good memories about Virgos after brake up, at least something like that "Oh I had met a Virgo but he wasn't good for me" etc. I always read "I was with Virgo but he ended up abusing, draining, hating, etc". Why do they never leave good memories in people? Isn't that a Virgo thing?
I wanted to write a long response here, but after much thought, I think I'll just keep my post simple since I don't have much time here anyway.
In justification (for a better unbiased word) of the Virgo race, I think why so many people get so frustrated at Virgos after a relationship are really because they have not understand Virgos or why they are the way they are. Most of these people failed to see the problems from within and just viewed it from their own perspectives. I have known a lot of Virgos. They are very righteous people. They are very good at discerning what is right and what is wrong. Virgos have superior minds that few can challenge. Their analytical skills are so ahead of themselves that sometimes they find it hard for themselves to understand them. Sometimes these Virgos get tired or confused by their minds that they started to do the opposites instead and usually it becomes self-destructive (some Virgos might prefer this way of life too when they lose hope or lack motivation, plainly because they can ignore their complicated minds then). When you meet those Virgos who are not as perfect-Virgos as they should, this is what actually happened to them. You will realize they are still quite conscious of what they are doing, and they even know it's a bad thing to do. But it's during these confused stage that they chose to ignore it. When a Virgo cheats, I shall say, it's not because he enjoys cheating or playing other people's feelings. There must be something in him that makes him do such a thing. Understand him and giving him lotads of support will make him a better person.
And before I end this, I shall say, read the above statement at your own discretion. >.
Oh yeah... and I do agree, Virgos might have a tendency to cheat because of that...
And yeah, another point to add, Virgos need to be in a relationship where their partners can understand them "intuitively" because they are not very good at expressing it out themselves. I think this has to do with the inhibition thing. When they feel their being understood, they will be much more comfortable with you, they will shower you with every thing possible, and they will be more expressive, although still not in the "normal" way of expression. But a person who can understand them "intuitively" will be able to benefit these all from the Virgos. And that said, not every person is right for a Virgo, likewise for all humans on earth.
I must agree with MissBovine here on Virgos. You have to understand the mindset. In some aspects, you have to get to their level - I have been involved with a Virgo for a number of years now. And I admit - at first it was tough going. I knew about another woman he was seeing at the time we met. At first it didn't phase me... because we were not serious at that time. We were just friends at first. And I do believe that frienship is a must at first with a Virgo. You have to toss out the romantic illusions you have with them. Because nothing will go as you think it will. The only advice I can give you - you don't have to DO anything. If a Virgo is serious or curious - he'll do it himself. Oh, he may take his time deciding, but if you have a strong stomach and patience - and I mean a lot of patience with him, he will work it out himself. Sometimes I think Virgos like a puzzle - being so analytical - he likes to take himself through this mental process. Having him cheat on you and take money - maynot be a Virgo thing, but just some men in general. Emotional maturity factors in some of it too, and I don't know what his age is. Obviously, he was not ready to settle down.
This particular Virgo I have known for almost eight years.
As I've said... most of those earlier posts are faked, groundless, and baseless, some people got angry with someone (because of her/his selfish feelings) and generally start bashing?.!
They say I DID this and that?where is the proof..?? if you want to trust what they've said, be my guest? I don?t?!
I'll put myself in front.. If and when I find someone playing with my feelings and I don?t get the response I need to continue the relationship, I will kick back..! and believe me I hate players to the gut, now if someone like me kicking back to save his ass? means the whole dam race are crap..??
Same goes for others too?. Some said. Virgo in his/her life abused her him trust.. I can truly say that who ever I met abused my trust.. now, which one of us are right..??
Me or them..??
People want to believe what they wanted to believe.. no logic in this world can explain why.!
I was going to share some thoughts and then realized that I was having a difficult time expressing those thoughts...I thought I knew, but I don't. I think I know a lot but I really don't - you know how you know something but you really don't know how you know it and then you realize that we really don't know anything at all?
Heck with it all! to analize takes up too much energy - there is no way to figure someone out or understand them. You may think you understand them one day and the next day they are different - this is called "evolution" we all evolve - change and we are doing it every moment of our life. Each relationship that we experience changes us...we are never the same.
So...hmmmm, as I have evolved (learned more about me) there are behaviours in others that I will not tolerate so if these "certain" behaviours rear their heads in a relationship, I will take note. People are who they are due to many factors..I am not about changing someone but accepting them for who they are. Those that are not on the same path as myself or do not respect me as a human have no business in my world (at that time anyway). If we do not feel worthy of ourselves than we will attract those who confirm that for us.
As Mr. Q says...the best relationship is with yourself...this is a must in order to have good quality relationships with others.
Again, it is all a journey of self discovery and we each may be on different paths and this is good too...we all learn at different rates...it's ALL good!
Haffo.Why do you assume everytime a pisces asks a question or it's a pisces related issue that the pisces in question is an innocent little angel and the other person is evil?It's a judgement call based on yourself and if you would do it,nothing more.Doesn't mean that all pisceseans aren't jerks and don't deserve it.What was it you posted to dime2cute that she couldn't consider all pisces jerks because thier not all like that,what's the difference with a virgo?Nothing.And yes all those other posts are written out of hate too,like qbone says you can't love someone without it being just as easy to turn to hate,thats intense emotions how you know you do love them.They hate them because they trusted them and found out they were being used,cheated on,lied to,etc. which happens from every sign.It's not a sign issue it's a SOME PEOPLE SUCK ISSUE.
People suck yes. But some people suck more than others. The Virgo stuff here causes them to be more inclined to cheating abusing etc and so on. I never said that Pisces are the best or innocent etc. I just said that the 90% of Virgos I've met are inclined to such behaviours. I didn't mean all of them. When people discover that Virgo stuff they memorise it well because it's the most hurtfull thing that comes from them in whole relationship. I didn't hear that Pisces abuse someone as much as Virgo's does. That's the difference.
When I told about Virgos in the previous posts I was talking about one of their behaviours. Lets don't play with numbers ok? Just see the main point. It's always a dumb way to go into details and walk around the main point and end up in wrong places.
I also think that this words doesn't work for me. Look around the board now. I'm in very funny mood. Soon they will start attacking me with their negativities and make me feel to never be like that anymore (it happens like that all the time). Now where is this words work here? I make jokes, but people reply with BS. Ah?
But you are judging by numbers,numbers of the posts and your experiances.The negative people would be the posters thier the ones who are the ones with negative emotions.Leos are more likely to abuse mentally/pyshically,cheat,superficial only interested in sex in "relationships",lie about thier innocence,cheap-only concerned with what they get out of it,most likely to get arrested for very good reasons,psychos,controlling,etc.if you want to analyse statistics.Geminis cut out the pyshical stuff and you have alot of geminis.Sags.The main point was addressed to leave and forget about his ass,it's not walking around the posts main point the other main point of the post was that all virgos are the same and now thats being addressed that no it's not virgos in general.Also the one that is the bad one in my life is my aunt,she was killed in a motorcycle accident,she was resesitated but paralysed from the waist down.Her spine is made up of mostly metal.Shes one of the "miracle"cases that did walk again but she still can't feel anything even going to the bathroom she has to use a watch and time herself.Shes a crack addict,go figure noone would be to happy in her shoes.When she is clean,shes great only a little strict and compulsive clean freak the worst you have to worry about is a sharp tongue when shes mad or disagrees with something and again has good reason to be grumpy.She's never cheated,lied,abused,etc.when she was clean. People like negative stuff thats another reason for all the posts as well it gives them something to talk about to the point of stupid conspirasies about people rather than excepting the ugly truth of thier situation being just that,they want to spread it around.Gossip much coming to mind and they need other people to vent on because the person who pissed them off isn't around,but as usual someone tells them thier wrong and they dismiss it,thats ignorance.These people don't know every single virgo in the world,as well as not every single virgo knows thier a virgo therefore isn't chatting with people here or on any other astrology site.They ARE just words and means nothing to anyone but themselves,even my own means nothing because it's just MY own experiance,it's not a fact for all virgos.You don't like virgos,good for you,you don't like virgos leave others to thier own opinions that just happen to never experiance/seen that crap from a straight virgo,we disagree thats it.Doesn't mean someone is lying because they had good experiances where you haven't.It's not something to take personaly or as an attack or something to argue about.I stated my piece in the first post and was done with it,nothing more nothing less.
Haffo: Please read my response to you in Music forum. I do not want to repeat myself, BUT please STOP your pointless posts on this forum!!!! You freakin suck!!!! Get Lost!!! REALLY!
This forum WAS so much fun when Alana, STD, VirgoSquared, -even Branh used to post!. Now it's just Haffo BS every other answer. And if it's not Mr. Haffo, it's FREAKIN Cancerbuddy! This freakin SUCKS!!
Thank you Q-bone, Freebird, Tiamat and the other good natured people interested in keeping this message boards USEFUL!!!!!!
There is no point in entering to the problem soo deep. You will gain nothing by that. Save your time for yourself and for better things. I don't want to argue with you and over frigging Virgos.
Oh that's fine. I think what I do is funny. And the finger part is for fun too. I dont know what makes you think that I've got "small" mind. Anyway, I like the way I act.
speaking of virgos, do you remember saying "i smell a virgo here"(or similar) on the "how don't you fit your star sign"-thread, when me and miss leo had our lil "fight"? did you think that i was a virgo and lying about being a scorp!!! or where did "i smell a virgo here" come from—
No lizard.. I wasn't calling you an actual virgo-- I was calling a "Virgin".. to imply you were being innocent- or na?ve in your comments. The statement had nothing to do with virgos in an astrological sense-- moreso in a metaphorical one. However, since we are on an astrological forum, I thought the double meaning would be cute.
GO to the sign bashing posts. I started a thread, simply because I don't think you can compare the signs and how because a person is a sign and they hurt you or made you mad - you think all of them are the same. That's not a good thing. I've been hurt by a Virgo - but I don't think ALL Virgos go around hurting people.
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I actually thought of becoming his friend and I investigated him further and found out he has a girlfriend. That was when I blew up and knew he was playing games with me having read some of the experiences in this forum. Anyways..I am glad it's finally over. I have never been in a complicated relationship in my life.
Well to whoever is dating a virgo male..well am sure there might be good ones..but this one I enountered was a bad bad one. I am happy that I am out his poisonus web!