A terrible encounter with a virgo man (Page 2)

Glee was your post last statement directed at me?

seizeTheDay:

"I was calling a "Virgin".. to imply you were being innocent- or na?ve in your comments."

i'm intrigued now! what comments were na?ve— i'm not trying to be a pain, just find the idea of me being innocent and na?ve quite... erm... cute.

i know that's not the topic here, sorry! but i'm really curious now...

@glee

21 Years

No little Pisces - I wanted to direct it to VirgoPrincess. I thought it was kind of an terrible thing to say about ALL Pisces and she perceived that where. I just think people need to realize that one bad apple should not be blamed for an entire group of people because of their sign. I find that a lot on these boards. Sometimes you just have to realize - that person maynot be the person for you. And don't blame it on a certain sign.

I honestly don't remember all that was said, lizard.. sorry.

k, i didn't expect you to remember really! would've been nice though... thanks anyway!

Hello Glee,

I agree with you on the sign bashing issue. I'm an aries, and as you can see on the aries forum (like many of the others), they are full of bashing. At the same time, to balance out the bashing- I like to post positive behavior attributed to my sign (as I know others do).

You are very right... no one person represents the total of all people in any sign- and our bad experiences with one, cannot dictate the experiences we will have with others... however- if posting their grievances leads to open and positive discussion, then I cannot say all posts that we perceive to be bashing are all entirely wrong.

Furthermore, I believe there are some people who just post for the sole purpose of instigating negative attention. Responding to these types of post only feeds the ego of the poster- and leads to fruitless, back-and-forth ranting. Sometimes the best answer is to ignore it.

wow sTD, you could publish your last post as an essay about behaviourism! 😉

@glee

21 Years

Sometimes the best answer is to ignore it.

I am somewhat true to my sign (Scorpio) and we are ultra sensitive I guess. It's just so unfair of people to bash a person because of an astrological sign. That's stupid. But I think you are right - I'll just ignore it.

Oh..you and me both. I get sensitive about a lot generalizations made on a particular sign (especially my own)... and the "ignoring" is always easier said than done...

yeah, ignore stupid comments, but at the same time support the people you agree with, i.e. don't pay attention to the stupid posts but comment on the once that have a point or are simply nice!!! or, alternatively, simply change the topic within the thread, for example if i met a friend there i'd go "hey ..., you haven't been around lately. how's it going?" mostly people get the hint!!! just remember, no matter how many dikcheads there are around, you always have friends you can turn to, too!
AMEN!

@truthseeker

21 Years500+ PostsCancer

Hi all...I've just read your posts, and I'm sorry, L75, that you went through this. But I must say that you can't hold this against ALL virgo's. I'm a leo girl, also, and I dated a Virgo for 2 years. It was, by far, the best relationship I had ever been in. He was a great guy and we still talk, as friends, occassionally. You just ran into an a-hole...not a typical virgo.