Is it accurate to say it's a good idea to let them be until they call u ?
AFTER A REALLLY GOOD TIME W/ A VIRGO...

Personally, I like to be called. However . . . I'm not a guy and I'm finding out I am not like most Virgos in regards to some things in my personality, so who knows. I'd wait until the time you would like to be called . . . and if he has yet to call . .then call him. Next time, it's on him though.

It wouldn't hurt to call him, especially since the male Virgo is very leary. If you don't call after a really good time . . he'll probably think you had a terrible time with him . . most of the ones I know pick stuff to pieces, so he'll likely think your time with him was miserable if you don't call.
But, I wouldn't bug him, just call once and like VI said, balls in his court then.
Good Luck
But, I wouldn't bug him, just call once and like VI said, balls in his court then.
Good Luck
THIS PART SUX!!! dating is so crappy....there arent any rules like 'okay u hung out last nite u guys cannot talk for two days' lol....RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR....

Honestly . . .if you want to call . .just call . . .if it turns him off the relationship just because you called to say hi . . . then you don't want to be with someone that nitpicky anyway . .so his loss.
Don't get obsessive about it of course . . . but if you have yet to talk since going out and you want to call . .. call him . . . . he could be sitting there right now waiting for you to call . . . . but not wanting to call you because you might think hes needy/clingy or whatever.
You are not a game, you are a person. So, call if you want . . . and if he thinks something bad of it . . . at least you find out what kind of person he is now rather than later.
Don't get obsessive about it of course . . . but if you have yet to talk since going out and you want to call . .. call him . . . . he could be sitting there right now waiting for you to call . . . . but not wanting to call you because you might think hes needy/clingy or whatever.
You are not a game, you are a person. So, call if you want . . . and if he thinks something bad of it . . . at least you find out what kind of person he is now rather than later.

Well, I'm still new to this virgo dating thing...lol....but from what i have learned from my guy (and read on here) so far, I agree with vtm. I would call too to let him know you had fun. I think its important to know that. And then its up to him to respond back. Just dont push him... I can only say from my own experience, but so for my dude keeps calling back. It may take him a few days, but he keeps popping back up.
ya i agree w/u guys then, i'll send him a txt sayin i enjoyed last nite...then like vtm says THATS IT lol....it does seem like he pops up more when i don't call him at all....so cool THANK U GUYS EVEN U NOTSO07 SHAKE N SIGH BACK TO U.....u know his dad played for the dallas cowboys in the early 80's! he was showing my some pics of his childhood and his parents then his dad on this poster and i was like hey i didn't know that and he said he didn't like to tell people it helped him weed out some of them...hmm...new question, is showing someone old photos a sign that they're warming up to u?
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