virgo's w/ a smart mouth means—??.....

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by libra_lis on Friday, January 12, 2007 and has 7 replies.

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@libra_lis
19 YearsLibra

ok this is the same booty call guy lol....when me and him talk we're totally smart mouthed w/eachother w/ a hint of flirtn...not nasty more like if ur talkn to ur younger simbling that gets on ur nerves or like when ur mean to the person u like in grade school....im so easy going and and nice towards other people even ones im dating BUT HIM nooo we just try to out do the others coolness i think and we end up just ...i don't know it's funny to me but its startn to make me wonder what it all means?? is this another "it doesnt really matter" matter or what the hell? is he into me , do i intrigue him, or does that get on ur nerves, do u all prefer the nice girl approach ...i can do that too, maybe haahaa......i love this site =)

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@love4ever
19 Years

Oh, libra lis, don't worry. We all have been there...

"does that get on ur nerves?"

Hell, yes. Mine starts tapping his fingers on the desk as soon as I take a seat next to him or stand very close and start talking to. He has the same effect on me, I do not know where to put my hands! (Well, I know exactly where, but....!!!!!)

I love the site too! LOL

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Actually, this might not be a bad way to start, if you think about it.

Look at all the times you've been in the beginning stages of getting to know someone and both people are always so cautious about what they say, what they do because they're so worried that the other might see a quality that's not so endearing.

Well, if you two can enjoy the sides of each other that might be a tad irritating . . then, you've already conquered the part that fears most away from each other.

Does that make sense?

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@libra_lis
19 YearsLibra

lol yes it really does...so now i have the hidden nice side to look forward to! keep u all posted this truly will be a 'to be continued episode'.......i called him fri. at 1am since he does that to me sometimes...he answered but then said i'll call u in a minute...never did...then sat. he called me at noon but i didnt answer so i figured i wouldnt hear from him for a couple days...i was shocked when he called me again the next day at 6pm to ask what i was up to that he was w/ a friend and they were goin to a bar somewhere...AND i felt like saying haha...it wasnt exactly a direct invitation....i told him i had some friends over then he said call u later....didn't call....he exasperates me to no end but it definitely keeps me on my toes unlike some people that just crowd my space...but u know, he's one i wouldnt mind crowding my space...Y IS IT ALWAYS THE ONES U WANT THAT DO THIS LOL

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@Virgo_Innamorato
19 YearsVirgo

Maybe your feelings for him are stronger than they would normally be because he is , so to speak "inaccessable and keeps you on your toes". Like maybe, you want him more because you can't have him the way you want him right now.

Before I met my boyfriend, the guys that I spent all my time on were the ones who werent there all the time, the ones who didn't call when they said they would, the ones who sometimes just didn't show when they said they would . . . as soon as one of these guys actually were around a lot or called every time they said they would . .I got bored with them and the interest just wasn't there anymore.

I'm glad I changed my ways . . . because it was like torturing myself for guys who were just not worth the time.

Props however on not answering your phone when he calls or being busy when he wants to meet up . . . I never would have had the will power to do that . . .

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@libra_lis
19 YearsLibra

ya its hard but sometimes if i look at the phone and don't immediately feel the automatic response to answer i dont because that means a possibly awkward converstion....anyways, after a good nite w/ a virgo male im under the impression its a good idea to let them be for a while until they're ready to call u again am i correct? incredibly enough the booty call guy was such a cutey last nite....no sex we just watched a movie while he did laundry and we ate popcorn....he was super affectionate and fun....that'll last me a good week lol then i'll start lookn at my phone like UMMM R U CALLN ME SOON— ha