Another Scorp gal asking about virgo:)

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Hey guys.. so I'm in a situation.. I've read so many threads on dxp about virgo guys still have a question..

So i like this virgo guy.. we met about 3 months ago and have been chatting for past 2 months now.. at first we worked in the same building but now I got a new project so m working at a new location.. same city though..

Any way previously we used to run into each other from time to time but that was it.. we'd talk alot in the bus when going back home.. he used to be the chatty one telling me about him n asking me questions.. so i kinda started liking him.. but i went with slow n steady just the way virgos prefer.. just talks..

After i started my new proj.. he texted me asking how things were going.. both of us equally initiated chats so I assumed that there are chances of him liking me too..

Any way i decided to push it just a little bit.. I casually asked if he wants to meet for coffee.. he said he'd like that so I asked about this coming weekend... He said that he won't make a solid plan as sometimes he gets called in on weekends as well.. which i know happens alot.. but he said someday sure we'll meet.. "someday"..? So he's not ready or not interested? I feel embarrassed.. since then we haven't talked.. it's been 3 days.. but this is not new to me he sometimes goes missing for days so.. but now m wondering if he'll ever text me again as it's obvious i like him.. advice plz!
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@HeavyEntertainmentShow i guess.. i only decided to ask him out because of what happened a week ago.. I'd had a particularly bad day and so i just lost it and texted him that it bothers me when he disappears for days.. he instantly texted back saying n I quote "plz plz plz don't take my late replies personally.. i get so tired after work.. plz don't mind it.." i felt really bad for my outburst.. but after that he texted everyday without disappearing.. man! So nice of him..
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@HeavyEntertainmentShow i guess.. i only decided to ask him out because of what happened a week ago.. I'd had a particularly bad day and so i just lost it and texted him that it bothers me when he disappears for days.. he instantly texted back saying n I quote "plz plz plz don't take my late replies personally.. i get so tired after work.. plz don't mind it.." i felt really bad for my outburst.. but after that he texted everyday without disappearing.. man! So nice of him..
Maybe you should feel bad about your outburst, because it's not all about you. You have to consider his needs as well and if it means letting him be for a few days or a week or two, then that's what you'd need to do.
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He'll get back to you when he's ready. Virgos "go missing" for extended periods because it's how they recharge their batteries & process thoughts/emotions, away from people.
Agreed.

And Virgos think more than feel.

And they think alot!

Maybe he thought, it was too fast and honestly surprise scares them.

If he likes you too, he will come back and he will be prepared, you will know.

Or else he will tell you..
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Hmm i guess.. thanks for responding! ?
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Look at his chart . But virgo m are very different from virgo w especially if they have more air signs 😆. In the way that they are pretty damn logical , don't want to be rushed and I feel they miss a lot of things when it comes to what a girl want .
Yes! So logical! My brother is a virgo.. but he is September born and he's so different than this guy! The only common behavior is nitpicking.. God! They fuss over every thing! I'm used to this thanks to my brother.. the passive aggressiveness though... How do you get used to that eh..?
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@HeavyEntertainmentShow i guess.. i only decided to ask him out because of what happened a week ago.. I'd had a particularly bad day and so i just lost it and texted him that it bothers me when he disappears for days.. he instantly texted back saying n I quote "plz plz plz don't take my late replies personally.. i get so tired after work.. plz don't mind it.." i felt really bad for my outburst.. but after that he texted everyday without disappearing.. man! So nice of him..
Maybe you should feel bad about your outburst, because it's not all about you. You have to consider his needs as well and if it means letting him be for a few days or a week or two, then that's what you'd need to do.
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Oh please.. He's passive and I'm blunt.. i think we're even.. besides you guys prefer honesty don't you.. and all i did was send a simple text that it bothers me when he disappears.. what's so bad about that..
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Hey guys.. so I'm in a situation.. I've read so many threads on dxp about virgo guys still have a question..

So i like this virgo guy.. we met about 3 months ago and have been chatting for past 2 months now.. at first we worked in the same building but now I got a new project so m working at a new location.. same city though..

Any way previously we used to run into each other from time to time but that was it.. we'd talk alot in the bus when going back home.. he used to be the chatty one telling me about him n asking me questions.. so i kinda started liking him.. but i went with slow n steady just the way virgos prefer.. just talks..

After i started my new proj.. he texted me asking how things were going.. both of us equally initiated chats so I assumed that there are chances of him liking me too..

Any way i decided to push it just a little bit.. I casually asked if he wants to meet for coffee.. he said he'd like that so I asked about this coming weekend... He said that he won't make a solid plan as sometimes he gets called in on weekends as well.. which i know happens alot.. but he said someday sure we'll meet.. "someday"..? So he's not ready or not interested? I feel embarrassed.. since then we haven't talked.. it's been 3 days.. but this is not new to me he sometimes goes missing for days so.. but now m wondering if he'll ever text me again as it's obvious i like him.. advice plz!
Patience 🙂 if he sticks by his word you can trust him, if he doesn't you can't. He'll show you in due time where his priorities lie. Someday is saying "look love, I'm coming, be patient 🙂" I won't tell someone "someday" if that days not going to come, however I don't know about him or whether he'll do that....it sounds like you got something coming your way, and you just need to be patient and see what's in store for you 😉

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You made my day! :-) i tend to think of the worst case scenario.. yes i know patience is the key but sitting and doing nothing is really exhausting! If something does happen m gonna send you an e-hug! 😉
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Hey guys.. so I'm in a situation.. I've read so many threads on dxp about virgo guys still have a question..

So i like this virgo guy.. we met about 3 months ago and have been chatting for past 2 months now.. at first we worked in the same building but now I got a new project so m working at a new location.. same city though..

Any way previously we used to run into each other from time to time but that was it.. we'd talk alot in the bus when going back home.. he used to be the chatty one telling me about him n asking me questions.. so i kinda started liking him.. but i went with slow n steady just the way virgos prefer.. just talks..

After i started my new proj.. he texted me asking how things were going.. both of us equally initiated chats so I assumed that there are chances of him liking me too..

Any way i decided to push it just a little bit.. I casually asked if he wants to meet for coffee.. he said he'd like that so I asked about this coming weekend... He said that he won't make a solid plan as sometimes he gets called in on weekends as well.. which i know happens alot.. but he said someday sure we'll meet.. "someday"..? So he's not ready or not interested? I feel embarrassed.. since then we haven't talked.. it's been 3 days.. but this is not new to me he sometimes goes missing for days so.. but now m wondering if he'll ever text me again as it's obvious i like him.. advice plz!
Patience 🙂 if he sticks by his word you can trust him, if he doesn't you can't. He'll show you in due time where his priorities lie. Someday is saying "look love, I'm coming, be patient 🙂" I won't tell someone "someday" if that days not going to come, however I don't know about him or whether he'll do that....it sounds like you got something coming your way, and you just need to be patient and see what's in store for you 😉

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You made my day! :-) i tend to think of the worst case scenario.. yes i know patience is the key but sitting and doing nothing is really exhausting! If something does happen m gonna send you an e-hug! 😉
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@KaineVirgoMale so he texted me a last week.. still talks alottt... But twice now he's called me his really good friend.. ya so I've been friend zoned.. thought I should let you know.. Gosh m Jorah.. ?
Hmmmm....maybe he's trying to befriend you first then make up with you down the line?? Virgo's are said to be looking for the one, that means a friend and a partner imo. Someone who he can talk too, trust, and believe in you so that you won't go spilling his secrets etc. Try being honest with him, and telling him how you feel. Communication is key ❤️

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I told him yesterday hah... But over text.. he was really flustered he was like i had no clue! I mean how can he not know?! I felt i was so obvious at times.. anyway suddenly he was really composed n all... like he said chill gal chill... He literally said that.. who says that..? So now i have no answer as such.. If he comes back maybe I'll know... I wanted to tell him in person but busy busy we are so..
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@KaineVirgoMale so he texted me a last week.. still talks alottt... But twice now he's called me his really good friend.. ya so I've been friend zoned.. thought I should let you know.. Gosh m Jorah.. ?
Hmmmm....maybe he's trying to befriend you first then make up with you down the line?? Virgo's are said to be looking for the one, that means a friend and a partner imo. Someone who he can talk too, trust, and believe in you so that you won't go spilling his secrets etc. Try being honest with him, and telling him how you feel. Communication is key ❤️


I told him yesterday hah... But over text.. he was really flustered he was like i had no clue! I mean how can he not know?! I felt i was so obvious at times.. anyway suddenly he was really composed n all... like he said chill gal chill... He literally said that.. who says that..? So now i have no answer as such.. If he comes back maybe I'll know... I wanted to tell him in person but busy busy we are so..


Haha "who says that that..?" Lmao. Typical Scorpio, you remind me of my sister lol.

Grab him and say; look Mr! I ain't waiting for no man! Lol

If you get him in person u can get ur claws in him, it's easy for him to slide through your grasp over text but I imagine it will be quite difficult irl ☺️

That the intiative girl!! ——

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Hah ur sister must be a gem!? Oh no I'm not gonna text him at all.. I know he's not gonna talk until he's ready.. u peeps are mad! You know he sends me these random articles to read outta nowhere n when i read them n say oh its nice or wtvr.. he's like really? Ok then I'll read it too? it's like dude if you wanna talk just say hey wassup? Idk how his brain works.. i mean i like it when he texts so hee hee but it's really confusing!
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@KaineVirgoMale so he texted me a last week.. still talks alottt... But twice now he's called me his really good friend.. ya so I've been friend zoned.. thought I should let you know.. Gosh m Jorah.. ?
Hmmmm....maybe he's trying to befriend you first then make up with you down the line?? Virgo's are said to be looking for the one, that means a friend and a partner imo. Someone who he can talk too, trust, and believe in you so that you won't go spilling his secrets etc. Try being honest with him, and telling him how you feel. Communication is key ❤️


I told him yesterday hah... But over text.. he was really flustered he was like i had no clue! I mean how can he not know?! I felt i was so obvious at times.. anyway suddenly he was really composed n all... like he said chill gal chill... He literally said that.. who says that..? So now i have no answer as such.. If he comes back maybe I'll know... I wanted to tell him in person but busy busy we are so..


And btw a lot of women think we're mind readers. Like sometimes we know what u want but then you don't listen, then when we don't know what you want you expect us to know what you want then get mad when we don't know what you want! Lol ?

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Read this one twice but got it?? yes sooo confusing!!
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@KaineVirgoMale so he texted me a last week.. still talks alottt... But twice now he's called me his really good friend.. ya so I've been friend zoned.. thought I should let you know.. Gosh m Jorah.. ?
Hmmmm....maybe he's trying to befriend you first then make up with you down the line?? Virgo's are said to be looking for the one, that means a friend and a partner imo. Someone who he can talk too, trust, and believe in you so that you won't go spilling his secrets etc. Try being honest with him, and telling him how you feel. Communication is key ❤️


I told him yesterday hah... But over text.. he was really flustered he was like i had no clue! I mean how can he not know?! I felt i was so obvious at times.. anyway suddenly he was really composed n all... like he said chill gal chill... He literally said that.. who says that..? So now i have no answer as such.. If he comes back maybe I'll know... I wanted to tell him in person but busy busy we are so..


Haha "who says that that..?" Lmao. Typical Scorpio, you remind me of my sister lol.

Grab him and say; look Mr! I ain't waiting for no man! Lol

If you get him in person u can get ur claws in him, it's easy for him to slide through your grasp over text but I imagine it will be quite difficult irl ☺️

That the intiative girl!! ——


Hah ur sister must be a gem!? Oh no I'm not gonna text him at all.. I know he's not gonna talk until he's ready.. u peeps are mad! You know he sends me these random articles to read outta nowhere n when i read them n say oh its nice or wtvr.. he's like really? Ok then I'll read it too? it's like dude if you wanna talk just say hey wassup? Idk how his brain works.. i mean i like it when he texts so hee hee but it's really confusing!
My sister's the same, I'll send her stuff and she'll comment on it and also ask questions about it too sometimes which's nice. I want her to take more of an interest in it sometimes as I believe what I'm sending her she is also something she can take/learn from it too that's why I'm sending it her 🙂 I like it wen she asks me questions "nicely" and starts digging a little deeper, Virgo's can hide a lot back and can surprise you. Try not to judge him though or boss him about ?.. Just a few tips, but make an effort with him! My sister rarely ever texts me, I'm always the one to text her so something to bear in mind ??

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You know my brother who's also a virgo says the same thing! That I don't call/text enough! Or when he calls i happen to be busy.. it's just wrong timing you know.. I've started making an effort though.. atleast once a day i call or text...

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@KaineVirgoMale so he texted me a last week.. still talks alottt... But twice now he's called me his really good friend.. ya so I've been friend zoned.. thought I should let you know.. Gosh m Jorah.. ?
Hmmmm....maybe he's trying to befriend you first then make up with you down the line?? Virgo's are said to be looking for the one, that means a friend and a partner imo. Someone who he can talk too, trust, and believe in you so that you won't go spilling his secrets etc. Try being honest with him, and telling him how you feel. Communication is key ❤️


I told him yesterday hah... But over text.. he was really flustered he was like i had no clue! I mean how can he not know?! I felt i was so obvious at times.. anyway suddenly he was really composed n all... like he said chill gal chill... He literally said that.. who says that..? So now i have no answer as such.. If he comes back maybe I'll know... I wanted to tell him in person but busy busy we are so..


And btw a lot of women think we're mind readers. Like sometimes we know what u want but then you don't listen, then when we don't know what you want you expect us to know what you want then get mad when we don't know what you want! Lol ?


Read this one twice but got it?? yes sooo confusing!!
Haha sorry, punctuation and grammar was all over the place! Lol, but yes nicely provoke him, show an interest in him, complement him on how smart/big he looks, how well he's doing, how clever he is etc.... these will accentuate his qualities, he needs your backing! ❤️ You got a big heart, you just need to show it more 🙂

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Are you saying i need to suck up to him even more! I mean i told him how i feel what more does he want! He should atleast let me know if we're on the same page or not.. chill gal chill.. that's just not enough.. for all i know he's just not that into me and trying to spare my feelings by staying away..
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@KaineVirgoMale hey he said he thinks of me as just a friend and that he's sorry.. also he's having a tough time at work so not really dating ryt now.. finally he set me free.. I'll be able to move on now.. ? thanks for all ur help!
It's better to know the truth right! Now you can move on in a new direction 🙂 nothing worse than staying static N not knowing what to do

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Yes so true! He still wants to stay friends though.. it's a bit weird for me but okay i guess..