anyone have a mom virgo(:

Lets talk about Mom Virgos!

Virgo moon mom. Absolutely no affection given, only criticisms my whole childhood, and she showed her love very very rarely, and through, out of all things, gold jewlery.

Also, Aqua sun...

My Mom = libra sun Virgo moon. Tough love. This is why I'm tougher as the going gets tough. Love my Virgo moon Mom!

My was was decent. Sadly my moms mom is an Aqua, so growing up she didn't get much love or affection. As a result she was particularly loving or affectionate with my sister or i. She would drink excessively and go on drunken joy rides around the city. All of which was done as he direct result of her being emotionally retarded (surprise, surprise) and raising two kids practically on her own.

My sister's rebellion and pregnancy (sister was only 16) sent her addiction into over drive. She lost her job, apartment, and car. She now lives with my gran qnd is trying to raise/ protect my nephew from his psychotic mom n dad.

I have lots of respect for her despite all the crap i saw her do. I realize is was not a function of stupidity but a function of
powerlessness and a quiet cry out for help.

These days she plots on how to get her life back together and provide a safe and stable environment for my little nephew.

Things are abit reversed now. I drive her around and give her an ear to vent to and a shoulder to cry on. Im older now and have a much better understanding of how difficult adulthood can be especially when Youre trying to raise two kids by yourself and struggling to understand your emotions. I frequently remind her that her feelings are the truest part of herself and help her better unstand them. She helps me pull my head out my ass and stop making everything about my "feelz".

I can honestly say that i couldn't have asked for a better mom. Her set backs inspire me to do better so that I can take care of her one day.

Typo queen strikes again

My mom is a Virgo and I'm a Taurus, just earth females here..lol

But damn so critical, obsessive compulsive disorder, bi polar, addicted to weed and alcohol.. will run me to the ground when she does that she brings me to the boiling point of no return.

I get defensive and she gets more angry or some shit.. like takes advantage of me..she pisses me off when she's all faded. I'm sober she is so abusive towards her children.. my brother is a Pisces. He helps calm negative feedback by ignoring her or talking level headed.. I don't ignore her criticism can't turn it off I bite back. But I don't like fighting with her , she is my mom..

.So we start arguing and then she gets more stupid and aggressive..I do not feel she is my friend when I need it. Because she is the contrast and compare and I am the abstract thinker not good combination there... can't talk to her and let myself open up...she judges too much and is a gossiper and goes to work and tells all our business. But she don't mention what she does to her kids.. comes home and tells us what the co workers think of us.

My dad is a Sagittarius and married her for 13 years maybe.. he said he stuck around for us.. instead of leaving...I told him I never seen my mom act like this aggressive and abusive ever.. she was cool on getting advice nicely and straight to the point but in a way I can understand better because she is my mom and wiser..

He said he shielded his children to that abuse, guess he took the crap and alcohol abusing..then when I moved in after my ex bff break up, it was cool, I went to college got my A.S. degree in math and science. And then shit hit the fan out of the blue..some years after I moved in..

I still have pent up feelings about her.. about my childhood with her, past and present...I can't let go.. she told me once I was cold hearted and I didn't love her. I said your wrong..

I didn't fuck cry. I didn't cry when she pinned me to the wall and I said just let me die. She did choke me until I felt ready to pass out. I never thought she would do that..I tested an alcoholic that's what I got....nope I just thought like wtf...I got to go..SHE MADE me not want to have kids, I don't want to be like her..or drink or smoke weed nothing..

Actually she choke holded me twice and lots of verbal abuse which can break a bull..lol and it's pretty bad when you can't tell her anything about your life and she fucks it up.. we don't go to restaurants because she is always high.. we get ridicule.. she always sending us to go to the store.. She always critical about me and my past guys. I can't even talk about guys..or bring them around her. She'll say some shit..like my daughter is mean and cold hearted ...

Wish I could say that I Iove my mom like??Lilly has a good relationship with her mom. Life's peachy for LiLLy...

I do not, and really don't have any feelings towards her. When she's not drunk or high yeah it's what Lilly and Dontgetme wrong described she is like sober. Is why I get along with her in that sense.

But every since she chose my dad over me when I was little, ever sense I was accustomed to her bi polar aggressive ways when under the influence, ever since she choked and verbal and emotional abused her kids pushed me away.. I don't like Virgo..she does give me advice and all cool. But the minute she starts doing that shit. Everything stops, no fun anymore.

I don't want her apology because she does is after of course. No crying crying is for weakness. Which is why I said what I said in the cancer forum with that chick crying woman...crying is weakness..

To each their own though.. lol

Thanks..

LillY-Haha that was funny, hippos crying haha..Lmao, alright if you've seen that. I might just accept some crying allowed..

Yeah I'll make sure I am stable before I have kids..lol....

I'm sagittarius female, my mom is a Virgo. Love her to death she is my best friend.. Just wish she would CHILL out lol. It pains me how much she worries about such useless things. Her stress can rub off on me then I have to get away. She's a sweety. Had an abusive dad so she's always been so sweet to my sister and I. she ends up with weird boyfriends though and will not dump them!! I'm like mom, just break up with him!? She waits for then to dump her. Ugh. Lol love my mom.