Anyone know what this means?

Hi Guys
Came across this site by pure chance. Noticed an awful lot of rants about virgo boyfirends LOL and thought i would ask for some advice. Currently dating a Virgo guy, have been for the last 10 months, first few months it was great. Then a few cracks, you know, what you'd expect sometimes in a relationship; a few disagreements but nothing major but for some reason my Virgo guy has changed more over the last few weeks. Saying he's fine but his actions are WAY off the mark! Rarely calls, texts, meet up etc, but then when we do speak/see each other he's ok and nothing is wrong, but yet he isnt as emotionally attached to me as before, kindda very hot and cold and rather stubborn, as far as he's concerned hes right about everything all of a sudden, very little compromise, could even say become that little bit controlling. All very confusing, when i ask him if he's ok he gets a bit aggitated with me when i want to talk about the relationship and even said last night that he would have no problem whatsoever telling me if he didnt wanna be together, realises he's being cautious but doesnt know why and then to top it off saya if it works it works if it doesnt it doesnt!?? Go figure! Anyho i did one of those natal charts and wondered if all this kinda stuff would, i duuno, well kindda help me understand a bit more, worth a go:-

Me Virgoguy Me Virgoguy
Rising sign Gemini Scorpio Mars Cancer Libra
Sun Aquarius Virgo Jupiter Gemini Pisces
Moon Virgo Leo Saturn Leo Cancer
Mercury Capricorn Libra Uranus Scorpio Libra
Venus Aquarius Virgo Neptune Sagittarius Sagittarius
Pluto Libra Libra

Me
rising sun: gemini
sun: aquarius
moon: virgo
mercury: capricorn
venus: aquarius
mars: cancer
jupiter: gemini
saturn: leo
Uranus: scorpio
neptunr: sagittarius
pluto: libra

virgoguy
rising sun: scorpio
sun: virgo
moon: lep
mercury: libra
venus: virgo
mars: libra
jupiter: pisces
saturn: cancer
uranus: libra
neptune: sagittarius
pluto: libra

He's either going through hard times, or something you're doing is annoying him.

Are you insecure at times?

well not really, well i wasnt in the beginning but the way he's being now is kindda making me feel insecure because i feel its a total turn around....before i only had to look at him and i knew how he felt, there was a very strong emotionally connection. however now its kindda gone and admittadly i do ask him more than not if he's ok and he keeps telling me to 'chill out'and i tell him i could if he just gave a little bit of that affection he did in the beginning so i suppose my attitude might come across as being insecure, but really its confusion as if someone tells you they love you but doesnt physcially show you anymore whereas only a few months back they were forever telling you they love you blah blah blah, where's its gone!?