Are all virgo men cheaters—?!!!

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Scorpchick
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I am real sorry your going through this lissanth

I think i remember you when you posted on seductioncentral...or something like that. Do you remember me?

the virgo guy i have feelings for has done this. He has made it feel like we have "something" going on, even got jealous when i talked about other guys, admits he does like me, mirrios everthing i say and do, basically making it feel like we could be together at any moment....and then he goes and flirts it up with another girl INFRONT of me,several times, tells one of my close friends to not tell me and expects me not to react but when i did got real nasty and went and told people that i'm "not his type" after he told me he doesn't really have a type and then goes all sad because i'm not remotely speaking to him....much less looking at him....so i think to myself "if he sees me as a friend..then he should be able to tell me when he finds another girl attractive...but he won't" yet he tells everyone else.

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"In all honesty we were not in a committed relationship"

" .. with him always having the excuse that we are not committed or that i'm not his girlfriend."




lol



In reality, you were out of your mind to confront him about his fidelity, since it's none of your business ... as you should have made him clear that his questioning of you is none of his business.


next time, don't be so stupid
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In reality, you were out of your mind to confront him about his fidelity, since it's none of your business ... as you should have made him clear that his questioning of you is none of his business.


next time, don't be so stupid


lets keep the IGNORANT flamin' at a minimal pleeeeease. 🙂

@Lissanth: This really sucks that you had to put up with this. Honestly, I don't think you can classify all Virgos to be the same, as every individual is different and life experiences also mold the person, not just the stars. It seems that this Virgo is quite immature and might as well just enjoyed your attention. I notice that in this one Virgo that I know right now. Uses people as conversation pieces, enjoys the attention, but doesn't reciprocate. Seems to me that he just USED you as his own life wasn't that interesting/good enough.
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People are just way too funny ... truth is never ignorant.


She was and still is being stupid .... she is thinking he owes her loyalty, while admitting that he doesn't even have this responsibility to her.

You call that smart? You think her not finding out about her stupid move is going to prevent it in the future?


Oh, here honey .... poor you .... it wasn't your fault.


What do you think that is going to do to her? It may sound nice in the present, but, later .. guess what, she's going to do the same goddam thing because people like you are too afraid of the truth if it's harsh.



::: shakes head :::



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Sometimes we hope for things to be more than they are. Although he didnt technically cheat on you it would still feel bad for her.

The only alternative in the future is to ensure you are in a committed relationship before giving into having sex with a man.

Bottom line, if you're not in a committed relationship, you are both free to do as you please as awful as that might feel and sound. You are free to have sex with whomever - just be safe 🙂

I personally dont like the way that is but thats how it is....
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I am in the same situation.
Only difference is , in this case he is trying to get back to me.

Very interesting is this fact- Last time he was the one who strated seeing this girl. I sensed it - he admitted and then I moved on. He dated this girl for 9 months by now and might have been physically active with her.

He does not seem to have completely broken off with her and at the same he has told me he wants to see me again.
He told me he has no one on line. So I gave a hint to that girl. That girl seems to have picked up the hint. She is now doubly aggressive with him to make him commit to her.

We are about to start a new phase and I am not sure if I should do that.
1. Should i think of that other girl or think for myself?
2. Although I gave her a hint, she is not contacting me directly but pushing him more.
3. Why would he come back? First time we were half way thru the road and she had appeared. We were upto the point of getting physical but had not done so. So I can say we have a long way to explore each other.
4. May be, just may be, he is testing his relationship with the other girl to make sure she is the one?

Help me, about the course of action i should take.