Are Virgo men loose?

just askin'. Got a Virgo friend who can't keep to himself all that much.

All men are loose Jaya...after the first three pints!!!:-)

I have one virgo male friend and he is going with a virgo female friend of mine also...I know that he's 3-timing her at the moment....I was in his apartment one saturday nite a few weeks ago....he had 3 mobile phones on the go...one was switched off on his girlfriend and the other two had calls coming in from different girls wanting to meet up with him...he had a smirk the size of a cheshire cat, chatting with each girl and trying to decide which one to meet.....he actually asked me to text a few messages to some of them as his english isn't great....I was surprised and disappointed with his behaviour, not from any great moral standpoint - just disappointed that he hadn't the guts to break if off with the girlfriend and live the single life to its fullest but be upfront about it......a few nites later, I am in his apartment again and his girlfriend arrives.....you could cut the tension between them with a knife.....she went to the toilet and I followed her into the bedroom.....she said she couldn't understand the differnce in him towards her etc., said she felt there were other girls but every time she challenged him, he said he loved her and had to work late etc. etc. She looked at me and asked me did I know anything.....my heart was aching for her.....but all I could say was it's best she talk things over with him! With that he knocked at the bedroom door - I think he thought I might be spilling the beans. It wasn't for me to say anything to her or him - I am both their friends - I have to accept them unconditionally....deep down in their heart, everyone knows what's really going on.....it's only a matter of time before the truth comes out.

Poor girl...😢

I have never known of a loose Virgo of either sex - But, I do know that people seriously underestimate their sexuality. Virgos are sensual and highly interested in sex; they're just usually quiet or shy about that fact (which, I think, definitely adds to their sexiness quotient). I have heard stories about Virgos (only male, that I've heard about) being unfaithful, and am hoping I just happen to hear about the rare cases...and that it's not a Virgo Epidemic. 😛 I seriously doubt that it is, and I'm always more inclined to believe that the slutty thing and/or the cheating thing has more to do with the pigishness of a person than their zodiac sign - and, these guys may have afflicted planets in their chart. For example...and I realize I'm about to generalize and sterotype and I apologize in advance, but I'm being as general as possible on purpose - Man "A" has a Virgo Sun, his Moon in Taurus and his Venus in Capricorn. Man "B" has a Virgo Sun, Moon in Libra and his Venus in Sagittarius. It would seem to me that IF either of these guys had to be pegged as "more likely to be a womanizer", and IF astrology was 100% accurate 100% of the time (and it isn't), Man "B" would certainly be More Likely than Man "A" to be "loose".

But...my thing is...a Pig is a Pig. I've personally always felt (for the most part) very safe and secure with Virgo men, and not worried that they're going to f---- around. I don't know why, either...I suppose it's due to the strenth of connection I've felt with them. However, it's not as though I've had "tons" of experience with them, either. Yet. 🙂

I'm feeling naughty AND Libra-like tonight...what an odd combination 😛

Your right PR about virgos having hidden depths re. their sexuality....boy talk about erupting libido:-)

But back to poor virgo girl...she asked me to lunch yesterday and for two and a half hours solid she talked about nothing else than cheating Mr. Virgo (of course she doesn't know he's actually cheating!!)...she is completely obsessed and besotted with him and loves him dearly....she can't get in touch with him and when she does he is distant and non-commital...last time she went round to his flat he fell fast asleep in front of her (we all know why!!). She hounds him day and nite with phonecalls etc. etc. - even asked me to ring him for her yesterday at lunch so that if he saw me ringing he would answer is mobile and then she would grab it and speak to him....I had to decline her that request as diplomatically as possible....eventually after the two hours of heart-rending stuff, I just looked at her and asked her - "supposing the scenario is that he has another girl, how do you think he might feel?" She said she would be heart-broken but at least she would know. She asked me to ask my Mr. Virgo who is one of his best pals to get him to ring her....I did this last nite and he promised to make Mr. Virgo ring her and tell her the whole truth....the whole things a dam mess - (I know if I was in her shoes, I would like to be told - but she is so young and vulnerable - to be honest I don't think she's ready for it yet - if I tell her I break a heart, if I don't she soldiers on till he tells her, if I tell her I will also lose the friendship of "cheating" Mr. Virgo - I know he is a cheat but he has so many good points about him too - we are all weak in certain areas...especially the sexual zone...I have been in his shoes so I can't cast the first stone.....keep you posted.
Alana x

Loose? Sh** no, they are more like milk-toast in the bedroom. Some of the women can be prudes.

Firstly, I'd like to thank you both for answering on this thread..
Alana, I really can identify with things that Mr cheating Virgo says to his girlfriend when he was confronted by his girlfriend. I've heard these things too.. and I definitely feel angered by it, and sympathize with his girlfriend.. Do the other girls know that he has a girlfriend?
I think you shouldn't be the one to confess their secrets..they should do that.. you're right.. I agree with you. Maybe you can persuade Mr Virgo to come forward with the truth, and set his girlfriend free, if he's going to behave like this.. please do keep us posted..


Pheonix, My Virgo and I have been on and off for three years.. all three times that we've separated, it has been because I needed to
quit our empty emotionless relationship. I felt like I always brought the energy, the fun, or the interest. He brought the tech support and the round the clock tech service. He fusses over lots of people and lots of things. At the drop of a hat, he would run off to a friend or family member to rescue them from whatever their terrible situation, no matter what it was.. and at the expense of us. I know that he was very sweet, and a bit heroicly romantic to be so dependable to ALL of his friends and family, but he never seemed to want time for us.

Ex. At one point, we lived apart, and I flew to meet him to spend time with him for two weeks.. I studied and worked when I was away, and when I had time off, I spent it with him. We planned romantic evenings together for one evening during the weekend,
and he followed through as we'd planned, but he refused to turn off his cell phone even though there was no real emergency lurking over our heads, and it rang all night long. Finally, he just left in the middle of our evening to run off to fix his friend's computer! Left me there, and did not return until very late with lots of "sincere", humble apologies when he got back. What the hell.. is this? pssht.. I was ripbutter. Afterall, we didn't have lots of time to spend with each other, and he ran off to his friend to fix his computer in the middle of our night. He didn't lie about fixing it, because we all knew each other long before hand, and I knew about it, but it's the damn principle of the thing. He did this stuff all the time even when we living together.
That's bullbutter!! (that's my heavy libran love jealousy coming out 🙂 )

Recently, he was in town and contacted me again to try to reactivate us again.. as he never truly let go of it.. beats me I don't get that either, because when he could have me, he didn't want to spend time with me. So I went out to meet him anyway, because I haven't seen him in a while, and I don't really hate him. He told me that he missed me very much, and that he wanted us to get back together again.. we hung out all 4 days that he was here. Then on the third day, he tells me that he took another girl that he is now seeing to his parents house, so that they could meet her, and that he really cares alot about her, and that she's a really good friend to him as well. I'm listening to what he was saying all the while, but I was thinking, "What the hell am I doing here then, and what the hell are you trying to pull withh me?" Then I asked him out right..Why am I here? Why did you contact me again? To tell me this? He answers, "I want to be with you, I want to make us work." So I said, "then you'll need to stop seeing her," and he replied, "She is a good friend to me, and you don't get rid of good friends!" What the hell is going on in his head? Is he nuts to think that I would be a apart of his love triangle? Pheonix, if you know anything about this behaviour, then please explain, because right now I think he is a thoughtless, selfish idiot. Sorry to be so brutish and frank.

Sloane, you too, I saw your post after I posted.. sorry about that✨

Oh my God... I don't mean that you're an idiot Sloane.. I just wanted to thank you for answering on the thread.. I'm an idiot too..sorry about that again..

..and I keep spelling Phoenix incorrectly..

I know a Virgo guy. I tell him so you guys have an open relationship? Because he would have a threesome with his ex and her friend. He says not necessarily but his girlfriend knows about him and his ex and their lil escapades. She's okay with it too! They plan to get married and ITS JUST ALL FRIGGIN WEIRD LOL But yeah, I do understand but I would be confused as where I stand if I was in that relationship. You see, I am queen, not her. OHOHOHO.

"With her it was just sex. But with you, it's making love." STFU!

Wow Luz...WOW... I am speechless.. I'm still laughing..that was really funny.. LOL

The men in our lives and their obsessions..

Yeah another Virgo guy I know, he's been having this massive crush on this for almost a year I assume. Or was it 2 years, anyway, the point is, it's just damn annoying now. All he does is talk about her and obsess(she doesnt return the same feelings.) Sometimes he even questions himself as to why he has such strong feelings to her(it seems as though this guy never changes.) This other girl who is a pisces had this huge crush on him also. He used to tease her by talking about the girl he really likes infront of her. Just to make himself feel 'good' that some chick likes him. She used to go through emotional stress because of his actions. But later THE PISCES CHICK AND HIM GET 'TOGETHER' actually I dont even KNOW if theyre together, I cant put my finger on it. The pisces chick knwos he really likes the other chick and she's okay with it. I say I need to smack the crap outta the virgo guy, pisces chick needs to know where this relationship is going, and the other girl just needs to get away LOL. Now if both of them took the relationship lightly and not such a big deal, then it would be different. But she really really likes him... so I dont know. And the virgo guy..needs to get smacked.

this girl*

Oh my god I just noticed this..the OTHEr virgo guy who would have a threesome...the girlfriend he's going to marry..is A PISCES ALSO. This is fishy.

sloane are you "bi" or something how would you know and care how women are in the bedroom?

WOW, I have tons to say about all of this. LOL - I'm so coming back later tonight to comment here. ICK, dhfuhdgfhgufhghf, can I just say that men are IMPOSSIBLE SOMETIMES——?/!!!!
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*Jeez*

No I don't think that Sloane's Bi..but if she was, she is entitled to her preferences.. also she's always seemed to be pretty nice on the boards.. and she is entitled to have opinions.. (I still feel really badly for accidentally bashing you verbally before by the way.. sorry again.

I never said she wasn't entitled to her preferences. And I didn't say she wasn't entitled to opinions. I only asked if she was bi. That's all.

and oh yeah i also asked how she knew and why she cared. try not to put words in peoples' mouths next time.

Please relax!

Actually, you know what.. I apologize. I re-read my response and I see that it could be interpreted in a defensive kind of way, but it was really meant to be a passive response..so sorry.

passive aggression =p

Update on Vigo girl and her cheating Virgo guy......neither are Irish - he's Albanian and she's Lithuanian:-) - she went on and on and on and on about how she was missing Mr. virgo for the past month to me nearly every day.....(as you know I know he's three-timing but can't say as he's my pal too!). So I came up with an idea and I have to say it's worked out so dam nicely that I am quite proud of it.....she's Lithuanian and I dated a Lithuanian guy about 3 years ago - he was taurus!! - anyway, it lasted about 2 months but we reamined the best of pals after - and to be honest - were shag-mates now and then!!! I asked her if she fancied meeting Mr. Taurus and I gave them their nos. to phone each other. Well, she hooked up with him last weekend (despite her whining that she was just going to go and SEE him - she still loved her Mr. Virgo!!) - well, Mr. Virgo has well and truly been forgotten!!! - the two have got on like a house on fire so far....she's besotted by mr. Taurus and he by her......she's a real happy camper this week.......and funny enough, when she stopped ringing and chasing Mr. Virgo...guess who got a phone-call from him wondering why she wasn't chasing him anymore - moi!!! he asked me what happened - I replied with a smirk on my face...oh you will have to ask S. herself that!!!!and thought to myself - serves you right Mister!!! - three-timing silly-moo....you've just lost one of the most beuatiful girls in your life!!! and now you want her back - tuff!!! So all's well for the moment:-)

I NEVER get along with most Virgo men. It sometimes saddens me. I think I'm too fiery for them.

Don't worry Luz.....you and the rest of mankind and womankind:-) - !!! God almighty himself/herself could not get along with virgos and that's on their good days!!!!....they are the strangest creatures on the planet - you keep fiering:-)

hahaha.. Alana you have the best humour ever!!
Luv you babe!

CancerBuddy, most of the virgo men I know are very lonely... it's kinda sad. They seem to always want to find true love and the 'one' but their relationships always become unsucessful.