Aries and Virgo? Anyone have experiences?

Anyone have any advice? This guy is so great and I'm worried that with my being an aries that I will run him off in the long run. I've read alot about the compatibility and pretty much it says were complete opposites. I don't want to lose him. No offence to all others signs, but in my book, Virgos are the best zodiac, as long as it is not a girl virgo. I will not explan myself on that point.

eh...same question here...except she is an aries girl....so....any inputs? hi jadedblood! maybe we can help each other out! lol

"I'm worried that with my being an aries that I will run him off in the long run."

Nothing lasts forever, except what's in our heart .. if you worry about the long run, then you will miss out on what your heart is telling you today.

And what your heart is telling you today is .. "This guy is so great"

If you look for compatibility reports with intentions of finding potential problems, then that will steer this union that you think is so great into the ground .. because there are always a potential for problems.

Stop looking for them and enjoy what you have now ..

Cool, I wasn't really looking for problems, just some basis on what the relationship could be. (I did the research before we got together.) Ya know it is one of those girl things. Umm kool "VirgowithalittleLibra" I'm the aries girl. Questions? I can say that I 'm not an ordinary aries though. I have changed alot of the so called basic traits of an aries. Or at least I try.

For "VirgowithalittleLibra", what I can say is be yourself. As far as I know that is why I really care about my Virgo. As for the Aries girl, be patient, for she can say some things that she doesn't mean to ,sometimes. So, be easy.

I am just curious "VirgowithalittleLibra", can I have your myspace? You can send it in a message if you like?

I've had my bad experience with an Aries gal, I think it could have gone much better... problems on both sides were the end of it, but they could have been avoided.

Hmmm..... I am quiet curious to read more postings on this one!

Well, so far the Virgo/Aries relationship is going very well. I have learned that I must curve my impluses when dealing with a Virgo. Sonetimes I feel like a complete idiot though, because sometimes I have uncontrollable "twitches" and I look really stupid, but he tells me that it's okay. I am also working hard on not blurting shit out that makes me seem mean or insincere. I really hate that trait. My Virgo is quite tolerant of me so I have a feeling that much of what I do or say will not scare him off, as he has told me many times before. I'm very happy with him though. Well, that's the update.

My ex is Aries and we lived together for more than 11 years and we are great friends.. and some of great people I know are also born in Aries sign.. stop being pushy with Virgos some times.. that is all I can say..!

Or else Virgo's are the great life companions.

thanks for all the inputs everyone...

although i did not ask the question, i like 'libertarianvirgo' and 'jadedblood' was wondering about this.

sorry to hear some of you my virgo buddies had a bad experience with aries girls...hmmm

my situation? well, i've been single for months now, which has been simply wonderful, so when i met this aries girl i wasn't looking for anything...so we are taking things sooooo slow.

basically, we went on 3 dates...very scattered dates.

and she knows i'm not looking to rush into a serious relationship anytime soon, and neither is she, which is great.

i needed some time to heal, get over the ex, and just re-focus in the type of life i think God wants me to have (long story there).

anyhow...

this aries girl is so fun, but i'm not 100 sure yet what to do next.

i like her impulsive ways, as long as she is respectful with me, lol, which she is!

i like the fact that i can have a blast w her and not worry about things so much...

but at the same time, i don't think either one of us is ready for anything too serious...so this will be a different experience for me.

the only thing we've shared this far has been innocent, sweet dates, and i think i'll leave it at that...until further down the road when things are more clear.

i see this as; 1) we will become really good friends or 2) we will have casual dates for few more months...

either way, i like aries's honesty and action-oriented approach. cool girls.

at the beginning, she seemed a bit too much of a party girl for me and didn't think she would take anything seriously...but the more she opens up, the more i see, she is just as sweet as any girl...just very honest too and a bit more impulsive but in a cute way, that's all.

vll
p.s. can't give my myspace id here, but we can send messages to each other and go from there, sounds cool?

Are you Virgo..??

Then be sure that sometimes Aries people are pushy? sometimes..!

They are truthful and straight... They say and DO what they mean... they never lie to you.. NEVER?

that's wonderful...that should be a new experience to yet live...even if just in friendship...good to know.

In a way I felt
I was doing the wooing, being that I am the masculine sign and him the feminine. It really was weird for us for awhile. At first
I think we were scared of one another. Now, we do see that incredible chemistry. Also, I know that he is not much the sexual type person, but he knows that I am, because I told him. At this point, we have been together(officailly) almost two weeks; we have know each other for a year or so. I know that is not long at all, but we have come a long ways. Like before, we would have these stand-off type things. By that I mean we would practically walk around in circles trying to figue out what we were suppose to do. It was funny, I suppose. Now, I feel like a million bucks everytime we are together. He has everything I need. I can really rely on him also. Shit, my bad you guys. I'm blabbering.

aries are fun, that's for sure...and seem honest this far...

not so sure about the rest yet...but it doesn't matter because right now it's a time to chill and relaz..

You'll get no crap from Aries people.. at least females? they are great, sexy. Lovable

Yes, most Aries are good people. But, I have seen disaster Aries, also. All their energy is negitive and turned against them, which leads to internal conflict. Anyways, that's almost it.

Yes, most Aries are good people. But, I have seen disaster Aries, also. All their energy is negitive and turned against them, which leads to internal conflict. Anyways, that's almost it.

Sorry for double post

All their energy is negitive and turned against them

I am not sure what you mean by that but judging by my ex she is doomed for (self deception) tendency it was one of our biggest arguments and unfortunately still is.

But I've said it as my own and personal experience with Aries people.. I've seen this a lot on other star signs too worst was Pisces, because they love to ARGUE the NONSENSE.!

At least you can come up with reason with Aries people (not agreements) but (reason).

i had a great talk w fun aries girl last night..for the first time.

i think she's torn between me and her ex-bf...although she won't say it, i can sense it.

i appreciate her honesty so much though, in the extent she can, she knows where i am too...and that im not looking for a relationship right now either...so as long as she stays honest with me it will be okay...i told her that she should get back w her ex if she wanted to, but she seems very interested in getting to know me...so i don't know...we are single and stuff, but im keeping things at the distance and being careful.

i may see her on friday again, both of us will hang out w our friends...so is not like a date, but im sure it will be a fun night of dancing and lots of laughter.

single life is very...interesting.

vll

single life is very...interesting

in very short time as long as you are not motivated?!

In longer time it is only pain, what is a meaning of life if you can not share a moment with someone you trust/comfortable with and love..??

jadedblood,

quick questions...

Have you ever gone on dates with mutiple people? If so, when do you feel like doing that? Is that a common way for you to enter a relationship?

Just curious...

I have not went on dates with multiple people. Also, 25th deacan, I really am not the way you described an aries.

q-bone,

"single life is very...interesting

in very short time as long as you are not motivated?!

In longer time it is only pain, what is a meaning of life if you can not share a moment with someone you trust/comfortable with and love..??"

true...but after giving so much of that for years, men, being single is such a relaxing period...i had forgotten how it was...i had been in relationship on and on for these past 4 years...so i needed a break.

i honestly q-bone think some of us have the gift to stay celibate...but it isn't for everyone, maybe not even for me, i don't know. i think when it comes down to it, it a choice you make based on what are the most important things for you...

what's your story? have you been single for many years now? just share if you want.

jadedblood,

cool, yeah im sure not every aries does that...just like im sure it isn't a sign thing, i was just wondering...about the approach aries take towards relationships and love.

its always interesting to hear different perspectives other than mine. i know myself better than i used to...so i kinda know what i am about or tend to be about lol...so i was just wondering...since i never dated an aries...and so im sort of intrigued right now. not that anything serious will develop anytime soon, but it's interesting how layback she is with me right now...as opposed to other girls i met, she is kinda like the aqua girl i dated last in that approach...but now that i think about it, my last gf had a venus an aries...so go figure ha.

either way, how did you and your virgo ended up getting together in your current relationship?

vll

Well, my guy just so happens to live across the street. To start off though, he was not my first pick to be with. His really good friend also lived with him and I started dating him for awhile, til things went very sour- Leo Male Ego- Haha. Then, Leo went to jail and Virgo and I had a common intrest( which I will not say because it's illegal, haha) so I still hung out over there. See, I had been talking to virgo's cousin(which lives across the street also)about "Michael"

thanks for sharing that story jadedblood...very interesting how things turned huh.

yeah i actually told this girl that i wasn't ready for any serious relationship anytime soon, and that i needed a time for me and for focusing on other stuff that is very important for me...and she seems to be in a similar spot, that's the only reason why i even thought about giving this a try...

and im having fun while getting to know her. i don't think im ready to date other people so much, to be quiet honest. i went on a pseudo date with someone else, weeks ago, but this person wants something more serios and i can't give that to anyone right away...i can't. so i had to remain friends.

so...i don't know. she's fun and she has been taking things extremely slow with me as well...so i appreciate that a lot. we text each other almost everyday now but we have only gone on 3 dates...very innocent and good dates with nothing other than maybe holding hands involved...and i like that, so this far its been nice...

take it slow with that virgo...slow is good...but do make him blush once in a while please, haha, that keeps us smiling while gaining comfort 😉

That's great because I do ya know give him a couple of blush bringing looks(I'm quite good at that)and sometimes I catch him lokking at me all sexy looking.It's awesome.

yeah...good that's good...i know we can be a pain in the butt with our slow moves towards things, but once we are hooked, we are pretty consistent with that unless something really bad happens...and i think that consistency in care that we offer for that special person...is something we know we can give deep inside...but we can't give it just to anyone unless we feel safe and ready...that's why we take our time, but then we are ready to show more things we do...

"Myself and most virguys I know could give a sheet how good the sex was. What do you THINK about everything? Can you READ?"

lol, good points and so true...even if physical attraction draws us first, what ignites passion in us is defenitely the beautiful minds we meet 😛

Well, you guys, sorry i have not updated sooner but I have been a little busy. So, I finally reached a very intamate level with my Virgo. It is so great. We are so awesome together and he also told me that he loved me. It was odd he he said it though. Because it came out as an answer to one of my dads stupid quetions/ His question was, "Why are you with my daughter?" Virgo answered because he loved me. I was shocked, but I Know that it is true. I really do feel this Aries/Virgo combo could withstand the long-run. I'm so happy.

good for you jadedblood 🙂

enjoy the love you guys share right now, within whatever parameters you guys set.

you both seem to be very considerate with each other...that's so nice.

the aries girl im talking to and i saw each other last night to say goodbye, since she'll be gone for a week or so...

um, our combo is a different right now, since neither one of us wants a serious relationship...i feel like still emotionally unavailable for the most part and she isn't ready for a complete commitment just yet...which may seem perfect for both of us at this point in our lives...or at least we think...

i'm not so sure how long this going-on-dates thing would last...but i enjoy her company every time we hang out...and there are limits we both have set to not hurt each other....so as long as we keep it honest, im good with that.

i think part of me is afraid that i may like her more over time, but the other part of me knows that wouldn't be possible in any near future since i have to sort things out myself...so i don't know...i guess we'll have to wait and see.