bringing virgoback

by the powers of virgo knowledge combined..

o dxpnet, i've been lurking for so long, reading every post and applying them as needed. but now i need to make my own post because i want my virgoback. in a nutshell: virguy&virgal fall in love. but he has to go back to his country and he tells her they can't be together anymore. it's like a tragic love-story. (virgal tells him, 'we are not casablanca.') virguy being very logical says that the more involved we get the harder it's going to be when it doesn't work out. of course, i understand and see his point. but i guess where we differ is in the optimism where i'd like to give it a try before i give up. you see, there was nothing wrong with the relationship itself (virguy admitted that if he weren't leaving we'd still be together because he still wanted me) so it's hard for me to throw something that wasn't broken away. there are a lot more details to the story but this would cease being a nutshell.

indeed, i could move on but, hey, if i wasn't that into him i wouldn't have been with him in the first place. i'll give up after i've tried and failed.

so virpeople & those who know them: do virguys come back? is there anything a girl can do to show you she's still here, that you mean a lot to her and just because you walk away she doesn't just say, 'ok, it's been nice' ?

thanks for reading! i understand posts like these get trying if you've been here a while.

"virguy being very logical says that the more involved we get the harder it's going to be when it doesn't work out."


Your answer lies within this sentence .. because his cup is already empty, the conclusion has been made that it will not work out .. "the harder it's going to be when it doesn't work out."

He wasn't even there, to bring back.

hi, p-angel. so, it's like a self-fulfilling prophecy? myself, i'm not certain about anything and i can't predict the future so to me just as there's the chance it'll fail, there's the probability of it working out. but i see what you're saying, if he thinks it won't work out, it's failed already. yet i've this annoying thing called hope and i'm all about making things happen for one's self. but i know i can't force it. hence the just-giving-it-a-try-see-what-happens.

Yes river ....they do come back but only if they want to and you don't appply any pressure whatsoever!!:-).....I've known virgoguy for 5 years....every so often he will leave and go back home to his country.....I wish him well and say I will miss you - but if you "Choose" to come back, I am here...look me up if YOU wish - I won't be the one wh is phoning or stalking you in any way:-)!!:-) (but in the meantime I will be doing my own thing big time!!!😉...nothing too clingy or sentimental or needy/desperate.....you give them the option.....of CHOICE but also clarify that you will be "choosing" to spend your time in different and varied ways while they are gone with different and varied people :-)....get my drift......—😉....remember my pal nothing is so alluring or w3ductive as somebody who "appears" not to give a dam as to whether they have your attention or not or even your good opinion.............need I say more.......use your womanly wiles.....:-)....."YOu feel great and fantastic....every time they ring.....so mucy to do...so little time.....:-)........call it playing the game....but it's the one game that has worked for me and Mr. Virgo........if I get at all vulnerable and squishy sqauashy, that's it...that's for sure....when I am in control...so to speak....I am a demi-goddess😉

Alana x

Sorry for the typos....new home PC...only getting used to new keyboard:-)

a x

PANGEL is right river, he's already telling you it won't work out, it's just a matter of time. Love has no logic...even in Virgo world. When it's real, everything/everybody else can fluff off. In an emergency I'd be telling you..."I'll be back as soon as I can". and "I'll miss you" ...by the way IS he planning to come back?

aloha,

is he legal in the USA?
might need a green card. Beware.

aloha

alana,

you are soooo funny, no wonder why this guy liked you for so long!

men that thing about you aquas that make me smile and yet shiver at the same time...haha...im able to shake it off luckily 😛 but dang...

River,

You said "i'd like to give it a try before i give up"

what is that try about? what would you suggest him for you guys to do instead?

you should carefully analyze your suggestion...and then share it with the guy.

if he is still into you and what you had then he will at least try to work something out with you...if he comes back with more reasons to say no to that and does not even ponder upon things...then most likely he has made up his mind...so you gotta be ready for that...but at least give it a try so then you don't regret not being able to share that with him.

keep us posted.

vll