virgo

what are your weaknesses?

females, money, my kids.

"What are your weaknesses?"

Loving more than one man at the same time (not physically, just in my mind)

Lack of realism

Craving for relationship

Other than that, I'm pretty nice!

You're a Scorpio, dear.

You have weaknesses...??

You sure you Virgo...!!?

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HAHAHAHAHA

Playing the Martyr

What is that..?? Care to explain..??

I mean.. its great that you do ?playing the martyr ?even I don't know what the hell you mean by that?..

I am not confused, just asking you for a simple explanation..! it is not a Virgo thing.. but personal stuff..!

In plain words...

Do you mean all Virgos are like you and what they do is so simple and explainable by your wisdom!

God?! You guys all are newage ?racists??!

I beg you next time when you wanted to put your comments here for what ever reason ?as my personal and intimate stuff?

It is not Virgo thing in general at all?

Thanks..!

I forgot to add...

"books"

Can't stop buying them, reading them, acquiring knowledge on just about anything under the sun.

Attribute this to abundance of air signs in my chart, and Virg moon.

gentlemen who have class, eloquence, etiquette, intelligence, a quirky sense of humor with a bit of naughtiness to them. (but doesn't every female drool over these types? lol)

but seriously, children. i swear they're made to be cute so we don't hurt them every time they throw a tantrum!

Martyr: A person who willingly suffers greatly as an act of desiring to be a victim for the sake of principal.

And it is suppose to be is Virgo..??

Fat chance... only fools suffers.. Lol

Next?

Its not a damn Virgo things..

Martyr: A person who willingly suffers greatly as an act of desiring to be a victim for the sake of principal.

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I don't think that virgos are that naive on emotional fronts. It's all about me, me and me when it comes to emotions for virgos. i.e. Most virgos are incapable of showing/giving love until taught. I do not know where do "pricipals" come in picture!

They are materialistic people, often their involvement geneally has to do with,
sex,money,status, intellect and NOT love.

May be martyr means sacrificing love/emotions to achieve every thing else but intimacy in a personal relationship!

No clue .. I was just giving the definition of martyr.

Ya- I know.. I bet we will see "virgo" defenders ....

Told you?

Only fools suffer... Be it Virgos or something else

Actually, I can think of things that my husband does that would fall under this category, such as .. he will go all day without eating, eventhough he's starving hungry and I would ask him .. why? He would say because he has to work to earn a living. And I would ask, what does that have to do with denying yourself food if you're hungry. He would say, "Because I can't spare a single second, I can wait. I'm ok", eventhough his stomach is grumbling in protest.
I just shake my head and walk away.

Or, when we down to see our new granddaughter, he spent all his time working, fixing this, fixing that, eventhough there is a maintainence man at the complex who had been contacted and the work was scheduled .. my Virgo tirelessly did a duty that he wasn't asked to do .. then on the way home, he moaned about how he couldn't spend time with the baby because he HAD to work.
I just kept driving, silently and let him suffer within his own self-inflicted torment.

Fools suffers?

Told you..

Message posted by: Eaglegirl on 3/31/2007 6:54:22 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.225
I forgot to add...

Still, two days later .. again, you're a Scorpio

Qbone,

Why are you so dead set against Virgos being martyrs? Most of the ones I know love to serve people, and verge on martyrdom.

the word martyr has many definitions 😛. and i'm pretty sure this is how dyrstr8z meant it:

One who makes a great show of suffering in order to arouse sympathy.

(in the sense of a "martyr complex")

"Have you been sacrificing yourself on the altar of someone else's desire? Do you carry others' burdens? Take an irrational pleasure in magnifying every act for loved ones in the hope that they will heap appreciation upon you?

Do you go about with a pained expression that says: "Look at me! I am killing myself to bring others happiness"?"

get it? and yes, if you read descriptions of the "dark side" of the virgoan personality, it is a common trait mentioned.

Eaglegirl

I am Virgo too.. you know..!

Doing other people's favour doesn't mean that I have to sacrifice my pleasure..!

I am doing it with free will and without any expectations constantly almost every day, that's why I was questioning the ?martyrdom?!

you feel being martyred when you are not appreciated..!!

Or else I don't know the meaning of it, and please do not try to explain the damn thing because it destroying the free will!

Hints from me?! And you are welcome

wheelhomies

How can you feel martyred When you are not expecting anything in return..??

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-771488600376041822

Perhaps he explains better George Carlin is always accurate..

Bingo?. Its Vir?dy? version?not Virguy, thanks for the clarifications..!