Virgos are my best-est friends evah!

Yeah, they annoy me pretty bad..... but most of my best buds are virgos.... I just dont like virgos being sensitive to fault when they themselves are so blind to it...it's not being hypocritical you know, but i must admit, im atrracted to them.... and wove them!mwah!



Oh yeah, HI, Im Your New Piscean Friend! BIG HUG! i like pie, and berries too... i like people who have suicidal tendencies... not really, only those who prefer death as an option for human stupidity...and again, not really....i lied...^_^




BTW, I'm a virgo Ascendant, does that mean i'm attracted to myself? Oh-ehm-geeeee!!!!!

*i ment being hypocritical.....

"....when they themselves are so blind to it"

- when i said this, i ment blind to their own faults....
anyways, just to clear this out....

From the Virgo's I know .. they want friendship, moreso than giving it.
Whereas, Gem's seem to give friendship, moreso than wanting it.

Wonder what that means?

I guess one would have to define friendship .. to be a friend, does that mean a person has to give more than what is within them, for the sake of another who needs it? Or, is friendship about not asking for anything, and just accepting what the other gives unconditionally?

Every friend I have comes in different forms .. not one is the same. For every Virgo friend I have, there are just as many variations as there are similarities .. and being sensitive isn't really present in any of them.

Most of my friends are... well i have a multitude... i have a taurus friend, three virgos, two capricorns, and an aquarius... and im a pisces. but virgos are good friends for the most part. crazy asses!

I guess one would have to define "sensitive" .. I have a friend who will break down and cry if he's feelings are hurt, he will also purposely try to run over an animal while crossing the road. My Virgo husband will show sensitivity if woman is crying, but, shows no expression at all when a person is overflowing with excitment.

Damn .. I've been in psycho-analysis mood lately .. need to find something to do that takes my mind off.

Hey Lil, you said you write .. are you published?

"i like people who have suicidal tendencies... not really, only those who prefer death as an option for human stupidity...and again, not really....i lied...^_^"


That's not lying in Fish reality ..

My favorite trait of the Virgo, among many, is thier ability to remain calm and composed in 99% of the situations .. whether it's an emergency, or someone crying or bitching .. though, this is usually percieved as being non-emotional and maybe it is, but, it also serves as a solid rock to stand on.

So, pp .. how did he get the Pacalolo past security?

Talking about beans .. today is my fantasy lovers birthday.

Yay .. HB, SB

"PA please don't let me tell you where he hid it at lol"


Oh .. use my imagination?

So, I take it the weed was of the brown kind, lol

"Unfortunately P, that holds true for when you are giving them the best sex that life has ever delivered unto them"


Yeah .. I know that all too well .. that's why I cut my man off a long time ago.

Ok .. either I'm not getting "it", or I am and just missed this pic we're talking about.

What lovely pic?

LOL, true.

They get angry and even more rude...

"They get angry and even more rude..."


lol, mine just gets sexually nasty.

Well she must have something if her fiance is sticking around....


I totally believe you DC😉

Hell no .. the last thing I want is for him to be drunk ..

< practices abstinence

At least, on the physical level .. I love to talk about it though 😛

wth for P-Angel...?

"PA you remember that pic DC posted "sex for sale" lol"


No .. why do I keep missing out on these pics?

Just practice absintence and all your relationships will be for real .. if they love you, they'll stay.

Hahahahahahahaha .. I should have been a nun. You think a nun is allowed to say the word, "fuck"?

Oh, shit .. wait .. then I'd have to believe in .. damn.

Do you remember when you were a kid .. you and all your friends would hide in the bushes, smoking cigs and saying all the curse words you could think of ..

Wasn't that fun? You'd all start laughing, cause you said the word, "shit".

Lol .. those were the days.

Does having a Virgo Ascendant attract you to many pisceans including you being a piscean yourself?


uhhhh...uhhhh.... 24?

'And I think that is why relationships between Virgo and Pisces are difficult. You start to feel like you are living with your mother!'

Its funny that you mentioned this DepthCharge cause I have a Piecean co-worker (girl) friend that mentions this about her Virgo husband (I actually seem to get along with her better than he does - being a Cap though) but also with another friend of mine whom is a Cancer (whom is also married to a Virgo) and they both seem to agree on the same thing - that they seem to complain alot in the relationship and that they're apparently hard to please - (though I've never had a prob w/ Virgo's - some of my best friends are Virgos - my moon sign is even Virgo - plus being an earth sign I guess that may have something to do with it as well) but its ironic that you also seemed to mention that as well! I know that Virgos and Pieces do get along but apparently not THAT well - (she's come close to divorcing him its been that bad between them) I'll also agree that the Virgos I've known have all had some sort of edge of aggression to them - though they'll try their patience not to show it - but once they've hit that boiling point - that's all it seems to take for them - lol 😛)

Virgos? Sensitive? (I don't know about that one.) I definitely agree on the part when it was stated that they want friendship, moreso that giving it. I once had a Virgo pal who I was being a friend to, but now that I look back on it. HE WAS A F*CKING LOSER!!! He was a self destructive hypochondriac who had a terrible sense of humor. He would critically dump on my other friends for no apparent reason when they weren't around, but as soon as their present to see me, he would play nice. You all know that I'm gay, right? This f*cker, had a tendency to take up a trait of whoever he's around like a chameleon. When his room-mate started doing drugs, he picked up on it and got hooked. When he got back together with hi bi-polar ex-wife, he all of a sudden thought he was bipolar. Then eventually, when he started making a big deal on what my sexuality was, he all of a sudden started to think he was bi-sexual. He really had an identity issue. He clearly had too much emotional baggage and for some reason he has this thing where he likes to corrupt people. He tried getting me into drugs, he even tried putting an idea in my head about how one of my friends was unhappy in their marraige and that I should try to hook up with them. (NO WAY.)The guy was clearly a shitty person but at the time I thought he was my friend. He was not my friend and I regret that I ever met that guy. I've know Virgos to be cold and emotionless. Quite frankly, I just look the other way when in their presence now.

Dreamy-Eyez .. I have a theory for this in the Virgo. Don't know if it's accurate to a fault, but, it appears to me to be the reason why this happens .. such as with your supposed ex-friend.

People, for the most part, seem to be out-of-control with whatever it is they lack, right? The broke person can't manage money, the unorganized person's house is a disaster (like mine, lol), and so-on ..

Virgo's seem to be adamant at keeping emotions in control because emotions are essentially chaos of the mind and since they are such perfectionist and must maintain control of EVERYTHING .. that when something happens that is emotionally-based, they've not learned how to handle it. We only learn to cope with those things that we allow ourselves to face, right?

So, with your alledged friend, for example .. he clearly had too much emotional baggage because he never allowed himself to face the fact that he has it .. so, he never learned how to deal with it properly.

Anyway, that's my theory .. for what it's worth. 🙂

P-Angel,
That's a pretty good theory. I just don't understand why would anyone ignore their emotions? Just sort it out, find a solution, release and then you're light again. (That's how I see it.) But Matt, (that's his name.) he was a piece of work and I'm glad that I'm away from him. I feel sorry for anyone who gets close to that moron. Hey, you know, while I'm at it, I'm going to take back that generalization of Virgoes that I've made. They're probably more wonderful than I may realize. I guess I only met an extremely negative one. Besides, I cannot seem to stop crossing paths with them. As a matter of fact, I've been crossing paths with this Virgo guy whose very attractive, but it's his mentality that I find so appealing. We just click and conversate. He's into sports, while I'm not, so I don't even consider wondering what's his sexuality because I don't care. I mean he's passionate about sports, his job and talks to me about it and other things flowingly. I've even made it clear that I wasn't into sports, but I told him that I'll root for him anyway.I met him back when I was working at the BP gas station. I never brought him up before on this post, because like I said, I just didn't care for any possibilities with him. Once, I noticed him driving by the BP and when he saw me in the parking lot, he turned around and come into the store to talk to me but also bought something while he was there. One thing that I notice is that it's like he's hanging on to my words. He would make eye contact with me, listening carefully but also repeating some of the words in our conversation to himself softly. It's like he's taking a mental recording or something. (Oh Well.)

"Hey, you know, while I'm at it, I'm going to take back that generalization of Virgoes that I've made"

Don't worry about it .. we all have to vent when we're frustrated .. so long as by the end of the day, we know we're not hating, just human .. it's all good.

You know, it sounds like your Virgo friend really likes you. Since you changed jobs, do you run into him anywhere else? Being a Pisces, you'll understand when I say,
'We don't really ask for much, only to be heard and acknowledged' .. and from what you said, your friend was paying attention to your words .. that's something you would certainly notice, since it's something we crave, probably more than anything else.

You never know where our perfect match is hiding .. sometimes, in the least likely places. I hope you find yours 🙂

P-Angel,
You asked if I run into him anywhere else? No, not really. When I was still at the BP and I told him that my last day was dawning there, he was like, "Are you moving away? Where are you going?" I pretty much told him that I was going to be working at Papa Johns full time after I leave the BP. At Papa Johns, I deliver, so on that note, he told me where he lived and gave me his address and apartment number so that I could personally deliver it to him. At the BP? I still stop by there to get fuel, and last week I ran into him again. so, I snuck up on him and shouted, "BAM!!!" Then he turned around and was enthused to see me, then shook my hand firmly. From there, we chatted away, but unfortunately I was in the middle of a delivery. As I was leaving, I heard him say to himself, "BAM." It was like I made an unforgettalbe impression on him.

He's a really warm guy, but at a distance he appears "cool" and "aloof". Now that I think of it, I DO remember him coming thru in my earlier days at the BP. He was quiet and aloof, until I acknowledged him by remembering his birthday and not asking to see any ID. One of my co-workers asked him for his ID, then I said, "August 29th, 1983". He was like, "Wow, you remembered?" After that, everytime he showed up at the BP, he smiled when he saw me and he talked to me more and more. Sometimes, when he's outside of the BP, he would just look at me thru the window from the gas pump. Honestly, I don't think anything of it, because just for the fact that he's a guy's guy whose into sports, I automatically assume he's into girls. So, I'm not even going to go there and set myself up due to actions that are flattering. Besides, it doesn't get you anywhere. . .and I'm talking about the flattery.

"for the fact that he's a guy's guy whose into sports, I automatically assume he's into girls."

DE .. that isn't any indication. For instance, I'm real Fem .. a girly girl who wears make-up and dresses, married to a man .. and LOVES women sexually, so you can't tell by that.

"he told me where he lived and gave me his address and apartment number so that I could personally deliver it to him."

He wants you. Go buy a six pack of beer one night and pop over, just to hang out. He's giving you signs that he's attracted to you. I certainly understand about not wanting to set yourself up, but, if you go with just intentions of hanging out and drinking a couple beers with him .. then that's just being a friend.

Because he's Virgo, he's going to be "cool and aloof", that's just in his nature. Rest assured though, that IF a Virgo is into you, he'll let it be known.

In any event .. you know you. If you think it's not right for you to submit to his advances, then it probably isn't the prudent move.

I met a Pisces. And I really like this guy so I need advise on how to keep him and not fall into what seems to be the majority of Virgo/Pisces self-destruction.

So here are the facts:

We've been going strong for 6-7 month knowing I'm moving at the end of the year.
2 weeks ago we had a little drama about an old flame he never mentioned from work.. Which was only brought up because I found out via her and her friend at a bar.(girls just being catty) (I asked him about it and he didn't deny it and let me know he stopped dating her when he met me) The tiff was over in 10 minutes, but we've never had a disagreement to this point and although I still feel strange about it.. I've chosen not to re-hash it out and just move forward. Anyways that night he tells me how much he really likes me and doesn't want to lose me.. So then why out of no where has he become so distant? He doesn't return messages/texts like he used to..

At first I figured he might just needed space.. So I've backed off...Not always avalible.. Let him call me/set plans, that kind of thing.
When he does call I try not to ask about his where about and seem to pry I try to stay the same me that I know he fell for.. But I don't know if anything is going to change.

So what do I do? Is too much space for a Pisces a death sentence? Do I stick it out or cut my loses? And is he cutting his, because I'm leaving? (which is another topic we don't reallt talk about , we ust konw its going to happen. do we need to?)

any help please?

Hey thanks for the advice...

.. I'm hoping someone who introduces you as his girlfriend wouldn't just close up shop in a matter of days. I guess we'll see.

lol, what makes it even funnier is that it sounds like it could be true.

God likes to play tricks, it seems.

Yeah, JW is very sweet. Her heart is always in the right place. For a long time, I kept calling her guy .. silly me, I thought she was male.

Sounds like fun tomorrow .. doing lunch with friends is always a blessing.

Hey just wanted to say thanks. I gave him space and let whatever it was, work itself out in his head first. Although I did nonchalantly mention that I'm there to listen if he needs to talk. He seems to have figured things out for himself. Things once again are running smoothly.. 🙂 (just the way the virgo likes it)