I definitely did explain to him that it was nothing to do with him but more like my experience after working there for a month had made me feel like I have to focus on my career (which is mostly true & i am in the midst of working on it)
Broke up with a Virgo & Want Him Back
Posted by blink666Doesn't sound like you ever really loved him. You just liked the attention he gave you. Now that he's gone your missing having someone up your butt giving you that attention.
I know it doesn't excuse me from making out with someone I work with.
I decided I would end it in person without hurting him and I would not tell him. It didn't help that he was missing me a lot and i was communicating much less during that time (didn't even have time to check my phone during the day unless it was for work)
He did express that he was upset with our communication tho he was also trying to be understanding about my work situation. The whole thing kind of killed my feelings for him for some reason and I fell out of love with him.
So right after the Olympic, I flew to see him and tried to end it without telling him about how i cheated on him.
That was 2 months ago, and I know I don't deserve it but I am starting to miss him.
Why not tell him you cheated and leave the decision in his court. If you truly cared about him you'd want to start again with honesty between you too.
Posted by yupvirgooThe bigger question here is how she knows she made out with someone IF she blacked out.Posted by blink666I used to do a lot of stupid shyte back when I was still an alcoholic. And I used to have blackouts too but thankfully, it never led to me cheating. I'm basically bipolar when I'm drunk. One moment laughing my head off then trying to pick a fight the next.Posted by magmabelieve when when i say i could not even explain that myself. I was in the presence of my boss & people of higher authority than my boss. Even if I was single, this was something I would have never done, even if I was interested in someone. Being capricorn, being reserved is literally my superpower. 😢
If this happened to me, the question that would continually go around in my head would be how she could make out, drunk or not, with a stranger considering how advanced our relationship had become. Whether or not I could take her back would depend on what I settled on for an answer.
...is that the only time you've ever blacked out?click to expand
If she truly blacked out she wouldn't recall the events that happened...which makes me wonder, what else went down...?
Posted by LadyNeptunei went to work next day and people were giving me funny looks, so I asked someone eventually...Posted by yupvirgooThe bigger question here is how she knows she made out with someone IF she blacked out.Posted by blink666I used to do a lot of stupid shyte back when I was still an alcoholic. And I used to have blackouts too but thankfully, it never led to me cheating. I'm basically bipolar when I'm drunk. One moment laughing my head off then trying to pick a fight the next.Posted by magmabelieve when when i say i could not even explain that myself. I was in the presence of my boss & people of higher authority than my boss. Even if I was single, this was something I would have never done, even if I was interested in someone. Being capricorn, being reserved is literally my superpower. 😢
If this happened to me, the question that would continually go around in my head would be how she could make out, drunk or not, with a stranger considering how advanced our relationship had become. Whether or not I could take her back would depend on what I settled on for an answer.
...is that the only time you've ever blacked out?
If she truly blacked out she wouldn't recall the events that happened...which makes me wonder, what else went down...?
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Posted by blink666Did you wake up in your own bed?Posted by LadyNeptunei went to work next day and people were giving me funny looks, so I asked someone eventually...Posted by yupvirgooThe bigger question here is how she knows she made out with someone IF she blacked out.Posted by blink666I used to do a lot of stupid shyte back when I was still an alcoholic. And I used to have blackouts too but thankfully, it never led to me cheating. I'm basically bipolar when I'm drunk. One moment laughing my head off then trying to pick a fight the next.Posted by magmabelieve when when i say i could not even explain that myself. I was in the presence of my boss & people of higher authority than my boss. Even if I was single, this was something I would have never done, even if I was interested in someone. Being capricorn, being reserved is literally my superpower. 😢
If this happened to me, the question that would continually go around in my head would be how she could make out, drunk or not, with a stranger considering how advanced our relationship had become. Whether or not I could take her back would depend on what I settled on for an answer.
...is that the only time you've ever blacked out?
If she truly blacked out she wouldn't recall the events that happened...which makes me wonder, what else went down...?
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Posted by yupvirgooPeople make mistakes and if you've become that wasted to the point of blackout you're not wholly responsible for your actions, especially without the consciousness to resist others.Posted by LadyNeptuneI've had blackouts before and only have flashes of memories (college days). Someone tried to stick her tongue in my ear and that kinda woke me up.. when it gets physical, you become more conscious. But whether she did or did not blackout, she should still have some form of consciousness (enough to makeout). Also, she did place herself in that situation.Posted by yupvirgooThe bigger question here is how she knows she made out with someone IF she blacked out.Posted by blink666I used to do a lot of stupid shyte back when I was still an alcoholic. And I used to have blackouts too but thankfully, it never led to me cheating. I'm basically bipolar when I'm drunk. One moment laughing my head off then trying to pick a fight the next.Posted by magmabelieve when when i say i could not even explain that myself. I was in the presence of my boss & people of higher authority than my boss. Even if I was single, this was something I would have never done, even if I was interested in someone. Being capricorn, being reserved is literally my superpower. 😢
If this happened to me, the question that would continually go around in my head would be how she could make out, drunk or not, with a stranger considering how advanced our relationship had become. Whether or not I could take her back would depend on what I settled on for an answer.
...is that the only time you've ever blacked out?
If she truly blacked out she wouldn't recall the events that happened...which makes me wonder, what else went down...?
Even then, you still had the option of a "no."
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However the fact that she's kept this from him, withheld the truth, speaks more of her guilt then the actual incident.
She could've easily brought it up to him the morning after. "Babe went out last night and drank too much and so and so kissed me. I don't have any memory of it but my coworkers told me. I'm so sorry, I will be more careful of how much I'm drinking".
Instead she lied about it and broke up with him under the guise of something else completely. Dude is prolly all sad and wondering what he did wrong...
Posted by blink666
i went to work next day and people were giving me funny looks, so I asked someone eventually...
So, not only are you disloyal, untrustworthy and deceitful ...... you make a spectacle out of yourself in front of all your colleagues.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYep I did. This girl that was giving me drinks non stop took me back.Posted by blink666Did you wake up in your own bed?Posted by LadyNeptunei went to work next day and people were giving me funny looks, so I asked someone eventually...Posted by yupvirgooThe bigger question here is how she knows she made out with someone IF she blacked out.Posted by blink666I used to do a lot of stupid shyte back when I was still an alcoholic. And I used to have blackouts too but thankfully, it never led to me cheating. I'm basically bipolar when I'm drunk. One moment laughing my head off then trying to pick a fight the next.Posted by magmabelieve when when i say i could not even explain that myself. I was in the presence of my boss & people of higher authority than my boss. Even if I was single, this was something I would have never done, even if I was interested in someone. Being capricorn, being reserved is literally my superpower. 😢
If this happened to me, the question that would continually go around in my head would be how she could make out, drunk or not, with a stranger considering how advanced our relationship had become. Whether or not I could take her back would depend on what I settled on for an answer.
...is that the only time you've ever blacked out?
If she truly blacked out she wouldn't recall the events that happened...which makes me wonder, what else went down...?
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Posted by ugMercuryMindI did manage to speak to him over the weekend finally. He says he isn't upset but he just mostly doesn't know what to think or do now since it has been almost 3 months...Posted by blink666Who was always there for you? Your a pawn to your boss and replacable.Posted by magmabelieve when when i say i could not even explain that myself. I was in the presence of my boss & people of higher authority than my boss. Even if I was single, this was something I would have never done, even if I was interested in someone. Being capricorn, being reserved is literally my superpower. 😢
If this happened to me, the question that would continually go around in my head would be how she could make out, drunk or not, with a stranger considering how advanced our relationship had become. Whether or not I could take her back would depend on what I settled on for an answer.
You were not that to your virgo. I hope you have got mad skills in telling the truth. Depending on how he sees you as a person, he may give you another chance.click to expand
Posted by yupvirgooI was lucky that the management did not care about what happened as some colleagues told me its common during such overseas work trips. I got some teasing for a few days and that was it.Posted by P-Angelyup a pretty risky career move for a CapPosted by blink666
i went to work next day and people were giving me funny looks, so I asked someone eventually...
So, not only are you disloyal, untrustworthy and deceitful ...... you make a spectacle out of yourself in front of all your colleagues.
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Posted by ugMercuryMindhad another long talk an hour ago and came to a mutual decision that we should just stay friends. its not that he can't let go of what happened but more like maybe all these happened because we just weren't meant to be together. Feels kinda right and peaceful i guess.Posted by blink666Al least now your on his mind... a plus!Posted by ugMercuryMindI did manage to speak to him over the weekend finally. He says he isn't upset but he just mostly doesn't know what to think or do now since it has been almost 3 months...Posted by blink666Who was always there for you? Your a pawn to your boss and replacable.Posted by magmabelieve when when i say i could not even explain that myself. I was in the presence of my boss & people of higher authority than my boss. Even if I was single, this was something I would have never done, even if I was interested in someone. Being capricorn, being reserved is literally my superpower. 😢
If this happened to me, the question that would continually go around in my head would be how she could make out, drunk or not, with a stranger considering how advanced our relationship had become. Whether or not I could take her back would depend on what I settled on for an answer.
You were not that to your virgo. I hope you have got mad skills in telling the truth. Depending on how he sees you as a person, he may give you another chance.
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Posted by blink666As long as you learn from this then it's not wasted time. Just remember guilty people hide and non guilty people aren't afraid of transparency. Next time be more accountable and stay honest within your relationship.Posted by ugMercuryMindhad another long talk an hour ago and came to a mutual decision that we should just stay friends. its not that he can't let go of what happened but more like maybe all these happened because we just weren't meant to be together. Feels kinda right and peaceful i guess.Posted by blink666Al least now your on his mind... a plus!Posted by ugMercuryMindI did manage to speak to him over the weekend finally. He says he isn't upset but he just mostly doesn't know what to think or do now since it has been almost 3 months...Posted by blink666Who was always there for you? Your a pawn to your boss and replacable.Posted by magmabelieve when when i say i could not even explain that myself. I was in the presence of my boss & people of higher authority than my boss. Even if I was single, this was something I would have never done, even if I was interested in someone. Being capricorn, being reserved is literally my superpower. 😢
If this happened to me, the question that would continually go around in my head would be how she could make out, drunk or not, with a stranger considering how advanced our relationship had become. Whether or not I could take her back would depend on what I settled on for an answer.
You were not that to your virgo. I hope you have got mad skills in telling the truth. Depending on how he sees you as a person, he may give you another chance.
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