Started long distance communication w/Virgo man almost two years ago. Have only seen him twice. Two weeks ago he calls and schedules a visit for this past weekend. He called Friday night while on his way to his to another location, told me he was not sure if he could make it because of family members' transportation issues and friends he was visiting asked if he could take friends back with him when he went home. I kept my cool while on the phone. My hurt and disappointment soon turned to anger. Sent sarcastic email questioning whether sincerely wanted to make the visit. I received vicious response with full explanation for all that happened followed by picture of item he was suppose to deliver when he arrived. That was to show his intent. He was angry with me for questioning his intent. Chastised me for not giving him the benefit of the doubt and when there are gray areas I always question him. I didn't find out until Friday that there could be a change in plan. He'd known since Wednesday these things were an issue. I emailed and asked if he was still coming on Wednesday. He had the perfect opportunity to share that with me then. I have always said to him, I deal with anything I can understand. Just tell me don't hold back information because when that happens, I question ones sincerity. Normally, after the explanation I cuddle and say how much I understand and say everything is going to be ok. I didn't this time. I responded by explaning why I questioned his intent. I explained that if he had relayed the "whole" plan that he planning a mini vacation with friends during the same weekend and planned to see me on his way back. I honestly have no problem with that. He works hard, he deserves time away I got that; but why didn't he share that with me in the beginning? I asked him to examine his actions without trying to justify himself and hold himself to the same standard he holds me. Oh yeah, its very high!!! He responded with more venom. He called me petty, antagonistic, and confrontational. He was very angry and said that whats the point of if don't trust his word? He said he gets it. That was it. Of course he didn't come by or call. I patiently waited for this man to give me a date to visit for a year!!! Now his willing to forgo his trip because someone ask him to give a ride to friends. If the visit was important to him, why wouldn't he tell the people that requested the favor he had plans. 2 b cont
