cancer needs help with virgo

So i need major help..right now i love this guy... he is a virgo.. we have known each other a year come august. he helped me out when i needed a place to stay and we lived together for like 4 mos... during that time i fell head over heels for him... not to say that i hadn't already!!!! however when it came time for me to move out on my own things changed drastically.... i found out that he had been fucking his ex and me at the same time.. while we were never exclusive he lied to me about this.. because i asked him several times.... after a big blow up..in which me and his ex gave him hell,.... we didn't talk for a month... i was extremely hurt and felt like my world had collapsed... he then called me out of the blue and we made plans to hang out... we have been hanging out since then.. we have the understanding that we are not boyfriends but friends yet.. we have told each other that we love each other... my dilemma is that i love him a lot.. but i'm starting to fall out of love with him... (there is another guy... a leo.. who i have been hanging out with who does return my phone calls and texts) the virgo can sometimes take days to return my phone calls and texts if he ever does... .. i am starting to get annoyed with the fuck friend relationship.. and i don't know how tell him that... if i should even tell him that.. i'm afraid if i do tell him that he will run away...

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you're a guy? that's a shame if a virgo..ugh..I am not disappointed in you nor the leo nor the ex. More the virgo I'm disappointed in.

"my dilemma is that i love him a lot.. but i'm starting to fall out of love with him... (there is another guy... a leo.. who i have been hanging out with who does return my phone calls and texts) the virgo can sometimes take days to return my phone calls and texts if he ever does... .. i am starting to get annoyed with the fuck friend relationship.. and i don't know how tell him that... if i should even tell him that.. i'm afraid if i do tell him that he will run away..."

hang on...so you still love him? i thought you were falling OUT of love with him. what's going on? i'm totally confused here...

"i'm starting to fall out of love with him... (there is another guy... a leo.. who i have been hanging out with who does return my phone calls and texts) the virgo can sometimes take days to return my phone calls and texts if he ever does"


Question: The definition of being "in love" is determined by who is returning phone calls and sending texts?

So, I can see now why you are afraid to tell the Virgo, because it's like you said, what if he runs away .. and there's a possibility that you might still be in love with him in the future because he might text you more often than the Leo.

you sound a bit confused as this person has never made any commitment to you whatsoever so what are you being som emotional about? At any rate, virgos aren't good for cancers outside of friendship anyway.....go with the Leo and stop expecting things out of this gu y that he has never promised you in the first place.

well my opinion on virgo/cancer relationships is that they can work but are often boring. Both like security and tend to just stay together despite the fact that the relationship just isnt'that hot. They are best as friends. Really great friends. Cancers should stick to more affectionate and less critical signs. Virgos would be better with somoene who doesn't care of they don't provide much affection or feel the need to criticize everything about a person. Cancers generally cheat when they aren't getting what they need at home. A scorpio, pisces, or taurus would be less likely to have a problem with a cancer cheating on them.