Cancer with Virgo Female....

There's this gal I really like, she's virgo - and comes off as really cold sometimes....how do I pique her interest? She's always all business!

I'd love to know one, they seem so peaceful and deep. I have enough sensitivity and cuddles for two, as long as she's receptive. Go straight for her!

"...virgo - and comes off as really cold sometimes....She's always all business!"

i'm a female virgo, so i admit to these traits, sorry about that. but small things add up for us, like saying hello with a smile, holding the door open for us, just some good old-fashioned courtship and acting like a well-cultured gentleman takes our breath away. a really nice and goofy sense of humor also does wonder on us.

"...i hear virgos are inhibited to flirting and initiation, so you have to do the initiatiing, do whatever you usually do with most other girls. if she still doesn't seem to get closer to you, "peace"

yes, please be the one to initiate! but it might take awhile for us to become receptive because we're over-cautious. sometimes i act uninterested in a guy to see if he's persistent, but that's just me.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! All this advice and soooo latee!!!!
I just stone-walled her last evening over dinner.........

Another one I've managed to mess up!

"I just stone-walled her last evening over dinner.........

Another one I've managed to mess up!"

oh please tell me you're kidding...because virgos will return the favor, another trait that i hate about us. but it's not too late if you manage to break the ice.

Well, I just arranged to have lunch with her (and some friends) this afternoon....GIMMIE TIPS NOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW PWEAAAAAAAAAASEEEEE

do you know what her interests are? if you can manage to showcase your intelligence all the while remaining humble and modest, you've already won her, but she may or may not show it, depends on how persistent you are. let her catch you stealing glances at her every now and then, subtle is key, overwhelming is not the best route, we could run for the hills. crack a few tasteful and witty jokes to get her smiling. if she starts asking you questions, you've got her. and please don't stone-wall the poor girl anymore. and be a gentleman.

Will try my best 🙂 - I'll let ya all know how it went today! Cheers!

Lunch went pretty well today - talked a bit, but my gawd she is soooo career obsessed!!

Virgo and Cancer tend to have long enduring marriages.

Really?!!?

"...she is soooo career obsessed!!"

yeah, we tend to come off like this, it's all about being financially stable. but aren't cancers like this too? i think this is one of the reasons why "Virgo and Cancer tend to have long enduring marriages," and our temperaments are fairly similar (meaning we can be cranky too). you guys like to be fussed over, we happen to fuss over things (you included) a lot. earth and water go nicely together, the elements are complimentary. hang in there, i'm sure she'll start returning the affections, it's hard to ignore a good-looking guy for long 😉

25th decan...

"My last Cancer claimed she needed affection from me and didn't get it at all......days after we broke up. "

elaborate on that please. did you break up with her b/c you felt you could never give her what she wanted? or was it more that she had upset you by what she said b/c you actually thought you were giving her affection?

well lunch well pretty good today! but it's hard to tell with her.....we were in a group so couldnt really make out if she was/wasnt interested...maybe she's only into friendship? How do I figure that out?

Is it about financial stability? I know it is for me, somewhere at the back of my mind, I'm always calculating how to amass money, sense of security, and to spend it on those close to me. Yeah I do like to be fussed over, I sometimes do become almost childlike..

I dunno about her....I need a way to figure out if she's just being her normal standoffish self or just not plain interested. Any ideas?

"i'm sure she'll start returning the affections, it's hard to ignore a good-looking guy for long"

I can only hope 🙂! he he I wish I was good looking 😢

it's financial stability AND its a sense of duty to ourselves, we like to be productive, so doing our job well means a lot to us. she sounds like she might have some capricorn in her, now they really like to climb the corporate ladder. as for returning affections, in which i can only speak for myself (and i'm a virgo chick by the way), its really subtle and only those who are really astute notice. like i would smile or wave hello (and goodbye), it's never a loud greeting for all to hear. we don't forget dates and since it's cancer's birthday, if she knows your birthday and is interested, she'll wish you a good one. when she's more comfortable, she'll be more direct, yet subtle at the same time, we're not that demonstrative i guess, (at least not me, unless its behind closed doors 😉)

"I can only hope ! he he I wish I was good looking "

you're out of your mind, of course you're good-looking! my computer screen did not crack when i looked at your picture on your profile, and i doubt you have broken mirrors in your home.

I do remeber her smile and wave when ever I saw her (she works in the same are as me) and she did ask my bday a couple of times casually (while friends discussed it) but me being the elusive crabby never actually told when....

" doubt you have broken mirrors in your home" ...you're prolly rite, dayum cancerian insecurity gnawing at me :/

Well she's off for a 2 week vaccation, I guess I'll have to wait and see after she gets back, and figure out what's the story....

On the subject of looks, I used to look quite different a coupla months ago (have a look at the updated profile pic) - I'm still thinking the old me....which is prolly killing my confidence...

Do you recommend I be more assertive?