Ferghus Clydelover
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Cap girl again, aarrgg................
Ferghus: "Is it just me or have any other of you V-dudes felt this way about a Cap gal before?"
Buddy, you're my DXP Twin, but this one is YOU. Cappy Gals get on my last f'ing nerve -- we butt heads like two rams! Maybe my Prussian DNA?? Yeah, they can be physically attractive -- the Cappy Pilot I had to work with during Desert Storm was smokin' hot! -- but their personalities are abrasive to me, like sand in my jock strap!
I remember the Cappy Gal you were involved with, and I say: Nip it in the bud! Don't let her drag you along for her crazy ride...
You gotta be crazy to assume the CAP people seriously...!
They are here (but not here).. and they are there (but not there)..! swinging all the time.
Wish I knew how the hell they manage it.
They are here (but not here).. and they are there (but not there)..! swinging all the time.
Wish I knew how the hell they manage it.
But I like them actually.. You've gotta be insane somehow (as I am) to like those people born under the cap sign.
Love to kick their ass time to time ..!
Love to kick their ass time to time ..!
DyarStra?e:
>I remember the Cappy Gal you were involved with, and I say: Nip it in the bud! Don't let her drag you along for her crazy ride...
She's not exactly HOT... more plain Jane... but petite. But whatta kisser, :swoon: But you're right Dy. I was foolish to keep her in my contacts list. I should have, and just did, delete her address and blocked her.
I'm just feeling a little, don't know how to put it... the V-Gal I've been writing on MySpace, she's... she has some issues. Her profile says "divorced" then I find out she is actually married, but separated for over 7 years. She never divorced because her ex told her, in a threating way, that he didn't want to ever pay child support.
Her four adult children and her 3 year old granddaughter all live with her... I like kids, but well, you know. At least your new family is all yours. I suppose I could adjust to living with all of them if it comes down to that... but it's just something that was a bit of a surprise as I started to get to know her better.
She's not very much into email communication. Seems it's hard for her to chat this way. Yet, the couple of times we've chatted on the phone, she spent half of the hour or so that we talked, interacting with her grand-daughter or other children.... sigh, I dunno.
She's a knockout, IMO, yet she only has 5 pictures posted to her profile, and when I very nicely asked her to please send me some more, or post some more, she said her daughter took some, but she didn't like them. I told her it doesn't matter if she likes them, I like her already, I just want to see MORE of her. (frankly, I think the more you see of someone, picture wise, the more assured you are that they are a REAL person and not a construct. NOt someone who is using someone else's pictures.) I guess she was pissed that I wanted to see more pictures of her and she didn't answer my emails for over 7 days.
When she first wrote ME, and asked to be added to my friends list, I looked at her profile, then her pictures and my jaw dropped. Now it's like, she isn't writing me at all. Normally I'd drop it. I'm not a pursuer. I give up very easy, because I figure if a gal is not interested, NO means NO. And that's that. Yet in THIS case, I feel I should keep in touch somehow, so keep sending little emails describing what I've been up to, and leaving Comments on her profile page.
We are SO much alike, but... I'm confused.
>I remember the Cappy Gal you were involved with, and I say: Nip it in the bud! Don't let her drag you along for her crazy ride...
She's not exactly HOT... more plain Jane... but petite. But whatta kisser, :swoon: But you're right Dy. I was foolish to keep her in my contacts list. I should have, and just did, delete her address and blocked her.
I'm just feeling a little, don't know how to put it... the V-Gal I've been writing on MySpace, she's... she has some issues. Her profile says "divorced" then I find out she is actually married, but separated for over 7 years. She never divorced because her ex told her, in a threating way, that he didn't want to ever pay child support.
Her four adult children and her 3 year old granddaughter all live with her... I like kids, but well, you know. At least your new family is all yours. I suppose I could adjust to living with all of them if it comes down to that... but it's just something that was a bit of a surprise as I started to get to know her better.
She's not very much into email communication. Seems it's hard for her to chat this way. Yet, the couple of times we've chatted on the phone, she spent half of the hour or so that we talked, interacting with her grand-daughter or other children.... sigh, I dunno.
She's a knockout, IMO, yet she only has 5 pictures posted to her profile, and when I very nicely asked her to please send me some more, or post some more, she said her daughter took some, but she didn't like them. I told her it doesn't matter if she likes them, I like her already, I just want to see MORE of her. (frankly, I think the more you see of someone, picture wise, the more assured you are that they are a REAL person and not a construct. NOt someone who is using someone else's pictures.) I guess she was pissed that I wanted to see more pictures of her and she didn't answer my emails for over 7 days.
When she first wrote ME, and asked to be added to my friends list, I looked at her profile, then her pictures and my jaw dropped. Now it's like, she isn't writing me at all. Normally I'd drop it. I'm not a pursuer. I give up very easy, because I figure if a gal is not interested, NO means NO. And that's that. Yet in THIS case, I feel I should keep in touch somehow, so keep sending little emails describing what I've been up to, and leaving Comments on her profile page.
We are SO much alike, but... I'm confused.
Qbone:
>But I like them actually.. You've gotta be insane somehow (as I am) to like those people born under the cap sign.
Yeah. It's odd indeed. Despite all the hassles, I felt this DEEP connection with her. My Cappy Brother, despite the bad times we've had... I really like him. We are still pretty good friends. My buddy Fritz.... never any troubles with him... we're good friends, even tho I find his Cappy ways odd as hell sometimes LOL. I still like the dude.
Whatta trip.
>But I like them actually.. You've gotta be insane somehow (as I am) to like those people born under the cap sign.
Yeah. It's odd indeed. Despite all the hassles, I felt this DEEP connection with her. My Cappy Brother, despite the bad times we've had... I really like him. We are still pretty good friends. My buddy Fritz.... never any troubles with him... we're good friends, even tho I find his Cappy ways odd as hell sometimes LOL. I still like the dude.
Whatta trip.
Yeah..
The Caps are the only people that Virgos can come up with dialogue ?even it is hard to start with.?
The rest of the zodiac are bulshits and wasting time.
The Caps are the only people that Virgos can come up with dialogue ?even it is hard to start with.?
The rest of the zodiac are bulshits and wasting time.
:: shakes head ::
Virg, Scorp, Cap .. descriptions of how these women moved you appear to be ego-based = looks, sexual performance. Even with the Cap girl, now back to zing intensity, her memory comes from her ability to kiss.
Funny, how Virgo's claim that the other sun signs are a waste of time and full of bullshit/deception, not real ..
.. yet, it's the Virgo who will be so shallow to only embrace a person's heart if their pretty/sexy enough.
Virg, Scorp, Cap .. descriptions of how these women moved you appear to be ego-based = looks, sexual performance. Even with the Cap girl, now back to zing intensity, her memory comes from her ability to kiss.
Funny, how Virgo's claim that the other sun signs are a waste of time and full of bullshit/deception, not real ..
.. yet, it's the Virgo who will be so shallow to only embrace a person's heart if their pretty/sexy enough.
Funny, how Virgo's claim that the other sun signs are a waste of time and full of bullbutter/deception, not real ..
.. yet, it's the Virgo who will be so shallow to only embrace a person's heart if their pretty/sexy enough.
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FULLY AGREE with PA. !!
Besides, one virgo ASKs the other virgo about if he should go back to the ex-cap.
Based on opinions of others, the virgo decides to block the IM.
WE CAP DO *******NOT********** ASK OTHERS FOR THE MATTERS OF OUR HEARTS BUT WE ASK OUR HEART AND FOLLOW IT. That's the fundamental difference between Cap and Virgo!
.. yet, it's the Virgo who will be so shallow to only embrace a person's heart if their pretty/sexy enough.
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FULLY AGREE with PA. !!
Besides, one virgo ASKs the other virgo about if he should go back to the ex-cap.
Based on opinions of others, the virgo decides to block the IM.
WE CAP DO *******NOT********** ASK OTHERS FOR THE MATTERS OF OUR HEARTS BUT WE ASK OUR HEART AND FOLLOW IT. That's the fundamental difference between Cap and Virgo!
Funny, how Virgo's claim that the other sun signs are a waste of time and full of bullshit/deception, not real ..
In this case FISHES are.. you are a living prove of the statement above..
In this case FISHES are.. you are a living prove of the statement above..
Challenge me if it is not correct..lol
You are full of shit and you know it
You are full of shit and you know it
lol .. I don't require validation for self-worth of opinions, Q
You may carry on securing it, though, if you need to 🙂🙂
You may carry on securing it, though, if you need to 🙂🙂
Of course you are entitled to your opinion...I am not denying it...but like I said.. you are full of shit?!
Water creatures.. you know?!! Their diplomacies and?.? fuck it!
Water creatures.. you know?!! Their diplomacies and?.? fuck it!
Ferghus,
The Virgo Lady sounds like a mess! Sh1t! Your luck is worse than my brother's!
If it wouldn't wreck the anonymity thing, I'd try to hook you up with one of my cousins in Chicagoland -- one's a GEM, but I don't hold that against her... she's up in Crown Point - not too far from you in Lowell...
Roxi:
>what kind of scorpio woman is crap in the sack?
::shrug:: Dunno Roxi. I know Dy's Scorp woman is super hot, and I don't doubt him. But the Scorp I dated was just... well, you saw what I wrote about her... VERY nice gal, just a dudd in the sack (IMO), LOL... Unless it was something about me that brought it on— Who knows. We are still friendly... she's the one who contacted me about Hondo... I'm not sure if I mentioned Hondo here or if it was only on MySpace...?
>"i would rather do a mare—?" would the mare notice though ferghus? LOLOLOLOLOL!!!
LOL, that's the problem Roxi... I've never done it with a mare, but I imagine that it would be kinda like a mouse doing an elephant, LOL... I'd be able to get it in, but probably wouldn't be able to feel anything : )))
>what kind of scorpio woman is crap in the sack?
::shrug:: Dunno Roxi. I know Dy's Scorp woman is super hot, and I don't doubt him. But the Scorp I dated was just... well, you saw what I wrote about her... VERY nice gal, just a dudd in the sack (IMO), LOL... Unless it was something about me that brought it on— Who knows. We are still friendly... she's the one who contacted me about Hondo... I'm not sure if I mentioned Hondo here or if it was only on MySpace...?
>"i would rather do a mare—?" would the mare notice though ferghus? LOLOLOLOLOL!!!
LOL, that's the problem Roxi... I've never done it with a mare, but I imagine that it would be kinda like a mouse doing an elephant, LOL... I'd be able to get it in, but probably wouldn't be able to feel anything : )))
It appears delusional, SG ... assholes can be great kissers, and nice men can be terrible kissers ....
.... to determine whether or not to pursue a relationship should be based around a persons integrity as it fits within your own values.
Squeaky said Charles Manson was a great kisser ........
.... to determine whether or not to pursue a relationship should be based around a persons integrity as it fits within your own values.
Squeaky said Charles Manson was a great kisser ........
However, SG .. I fully comprehend that the majority of people are only aware of thier ego consciousness .. and so this is the reality of life they have to try and make happy .. so, there is no right or wrong, only living within the reality a person makes for themself. 🙂
I understand ... however, also fear that people do it the other way around more often than not. Embark on this kissing, or whatever is a part of the physical attraction, and confuse lust for love of a person you really don't know in terms of character .... which leads to heart-ache rather than heart-joy.
However, I know your values well enough from over the last couple years, SagiGoat, so I wasn't meaning you specifically, rather, just this condition in human nature based off of your mention of it. So, I know your maturity level in judgement is in the right place for your standards and well-being.
However, I know your values well enough from over the last couple years, SagiGoat, so I wasn't meaning you specifically, rather, just this condition in human nature based off of your mention of it. So, I know your maturity level in judgement is in the right place for your standards and well-being.
Funny, how Virgo's claim that the other sun signs are a waste of time and full of bullshit/deception, not real ..
.. yet, it's the Virgo who will be so shallow to only embrace a person's heart if their pretty/sexy enough.
LOL!!! *giggles* LOL!!! *giggle* LOL!!!
Well said P-Angel 🙂
.. yet, it's the Virgo who will be so shallow to only embrace a person's heart if their pretty/sexy enough.
LOL!!! *giggles* LOL!!! *giggle* LOL!!!
Well said P-Angel 🙂
Buddy, you're my DXP Twin, but this one is YOU. Cappy Gals get on my last f'ing nerve -- we butt heads like two rams! Maybe my Prussian DNA?? Yeah, they can be physically attractive -- the Cappy Pilot I had to work with during Desert Storm was smokin' hot! -- but their personalities are abrasive to me, like sand in my jock strap!
Shame on you DY! Speaking about my fellow sisters in such a way.
*cappysweetie runs after DY with a sledge-hammer*
Shame on you DY! Speaking about my fellow sisters in such a way.
*cappysweetie runs after DY with a sledge-hammer*
sagigoat:
>And btw, it was not about their looks. They were not my type to be honest.
Same with this Cap gal. Looks department, plain jane, no more. Body, petite but too thin... almost anorexic. I do prefer a woman with "normal" body fat, even a few extra pounds, or the "earth mother type" even. But her kisses were mesmerizing... and the connection I felt while with her, electric.
The major flaw was forsaking all for work. Never takes vacation days, hasn't taken a vacation of any kind in over 9 years. While we were at the Northern Illinois Horse fest, on a Sunday, I asked her if she would turn her cell off so we could enjoy the day together without interruptions from work, she refused.
I had to cut her off, because I'm flawed. It was painful to be in her presence and not be able to hold her and kiss her. If I allowed myself to kiss her, it would be painful not to be able to go further with her, because of my weakness for the electricity I felt.
And need I remind you dear readers, she actually told me that she didn't realize kissing meant so much to me. Apparently for her, kissing is just "harmless fun". And when it came to sex, even after two months of dating, she said she had no idea when she'd be ready and not to push her.
>And btw, it was not about their looks. They were not my type to be honest.
Same with this Cap gal. Looks department, plain jane, no more. Body, petite but too thin... almost anorexic. I do prefer a woman with "normal" body fat, even a few extra pounds, or the "earth mother type" even. But her kisses were mesmerizing... and the connection I felt while with her, electric.
The major flaw was forsaking all for work. Never takes vacation days, hasn't taken a vacation of any kind in over 9 years. While we were at the Northern Illinois Horse fest, on a Sunday, I asked her if she would turn her cell off so we could enjoy the day together without interruptions from work, she refused.
I had to cut her off, because I'm flawed. It was painful to be in her presence and not be able to hold her and kiss her. If I allowed myself to kiss her, it would be painful not to be able to go further with her, because of my weakness for the electricity I felt.
And need I remind you dear readers, she actually told me that she didn't realize kissing meant so much to me. Apparently for her, kissing is just "harmless fun". And when it came to sex, even after two months of dating, she said she had no idea when she'd be ready and not to push her.
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