chemistry... another question!

Can one person imagine chemistry? I ask coz I feel intense connnection with virguy but it is all unspoken. I have no validation apart from what I feel when we are together. I have been attracted to other men but not like this. is it possible it is all in my head and he is playing me? I am not a needy person btw, so I doubt I would kid myself just coz I want a relationship (I have been pretty much single for 4 years through choice. ie not met anyone I'd like to give up singledom for).

I personally don't think you can imagine it, as it is energy that vibrates between two people, it is a very unique feeling. i guess the question is will either of us act on it?!!

I just doubt myself sometimes - even though I am very instinctive, I am also quite naive as previously mentioned... I like to think the best of people and am shocked at how cruel some people are. I can't relate to that.

Like one of those Chinese dogs?

A Shar-pei, or however it's spelled .. who knows what happened to that face of thiers, but, they're so ugly that their adorable.
Or a Chinese Crescent .. hairless, scrawny and utterly ugly with all those spots .. so cute, though.

Hate to mention this, but .. ummmm ..

.. there's kind of a resemblence with someone's avatar and this here lovely dog.

Look at the eyes, the tongue sticking out, the hair poking up on the head.

He's so cute .. is he yours, or just a pic you found?

A couple extra points also goes to the fact that you have teeth and don't have to gum your food.

I'd say that is EXTREMELY powerful. Scopiogoat, you moved from a known to an unknown, knowing it was unknown, and knowing the known was safe. So you moved to a dangerous place (emotionally speaking) because your heart compelled you to. I think with that much power behind the emotions, there is not another choice to be made. Steeping out and taking the chance had to be done. Because to forever live without the final closier on this would drive you mad!

How could we put such a feeling under wraps and be happy? There would always be a void waiting to be filled.

As for this chemistry being imagined? I think it's possible. I actually did have good chemistry with someone who wasn't "all that" in the looks department. I think though, you can fantasize yourself into "feeling" a chemistry around someone you fancy. They may not even notice you! LOL

That's sad for him....and you dear

Aloha.
I would say that CHEMISTRY does exist. It's an attraction that is undoubtedly real. its hard to describe or imagine. I have that connection right now with a Virgo of all people....it amazes me how similar she is to me & different at the same time. I am an Aries & she is a Virgo. They are very intuitive people & aries are very readable people. I think she knows I like her. I know she thinks their is CHEMISTRY. her friend let it slip out. But I have been playing it slow. I know I need to make a move sooner or later, but its just so hard to do. When we are around each other, its an obvious feeling but its like we just both play it off by giving some attention, or flirting, very subtly.

Virgos are into details & romance. Aries are into romance & small things.

She notices all little stuff like me. its hard to communicate for her. not for me except for now with her. Not sure but I almost feel she is communicating to me thru her songs on myspace. she has really good taste in music. especially the messages. sounds bad. I know but for some strange reason I think I am on to something here. Almost TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE....really. wouldn't want to mess things up by being an impatient & aggressive aries. just making her feel really good when I am around. little stuff. sweetness overdose. she reacts so well..... simply amazing.

but they say that you make your life what it is. Its what you believe it to be. Will it to fruition if you feel it so powerfully. laws of attraction & CHEMISTRY.

I believe in it all.....love to be in love.....can't wait to live it again.

aloha.