What are you Virguys thinking when...

I just want to know what goes on in you Virguys' minds while your in your "retreat". You know what I'm talking about.. The time when you guys dissapear with out a trace and kinda make us want to make sure you haven't been abducted by aliens. Do you miss us? Do you fight urges to call us? Do you go around hoping to "accidentally" run in to us? PLEASE TELL ME CUZ I WANNA KNOW.

I can tell you what my Virgo thinks about while on retreats .. duties, with an occasional sports thougth thrown in.

The grass needs cut, how much is my paycheck going to be this week, the cabinet is squeaking and needs oiling, it's time to do a system back-up, wonder when the last time it was I checked the air in the tires, Verizon said they could give me a better rate so I can't forget to inquire about that, hope Joe Gibbs can get the Skins to actually get thier shit together this year, Angel said the fridge is making a funny noise, the dogs are due for shots, I'm gonna keep an eye out so those pesky kids can't pull the pin out of my 5th wheel again and cause me to drop the trailer, a tile is loose on the dinner room floor ..

Well P sounds like you live with your virguy. What about us who don't?

Oh, don't know .. probably duties, or figuring out how to save money in some way.
They are sticklers with their money, it seems.

"Do you miss us? Do you fight urges to call us? Do you go around hoping to "accidentally" run in to us?"

I wouldn't get my hopes up about this, if I were you.

I want a VIRGO'S response guys sorry

Sorry notso only a virgo man can truly answer this one. If any of us had the answer we probubly wouldnt be here 🙂

PLEASE TELL ME CUZ I WANNA KNOW.

Put it this way, perhaps he want to test your self-confidence?!! Or at least teaching you this skill, where I am sure you don't have any.

All you want is playing a game, so stop whining and play the game?!

If I am really on to you and spot the weakness I'll let you know (once), if you still chocking on it I'll let you know twice, in very special cases I'll do it trice..

If you still chocking on it I leave the case alone and let the time to resolve it, time to time I'll check up on you to see the progress too?

Unless your appearance is scary as hell or you are a self important psycho I don't see any reason for retreat crap you guys are whining about in this corner

Most Virgos won't give you even a second chance.. I am one of a kind?

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HappyCrab, fyi .. guys don't think about girlie stuff and emotions.

You make an excellent point, archer .. my Virgo doesn't retreat. He needs his space to contemplate and fussy over things that wiegh heavy on his mind - as we all do - but, he doesn't disappear.

Qbone: My appearance is far from scary. And everyone on here knows that Virgo men like to go off into hiding for a while. I'm not really choking on it I just like to analyze things maybe too much but maybe that comes from my Virgo ascendant. I've known a few virgos male and female and they all seem to have there bouts of retreat. They always end up coming back around and seem to become closer to me than before. I'm not sweating the issue at this point I just wanna know.

P-Angel: you would be surprised.

Surprised?

Dead, even .. if a male Virgo thought about missy, kissy, giggly things like a girl, lol

This hiding/retreating stuff is kind of childish explanations of what I call the ?hermit mode?.

Every once in awhile people need to clear their thoughts and refresh their psyche be it Virgo or not, its human thing to do..!

Do you really know what the meaning of detachment is?

retreat is for sanity. Beleive it or not family, friends, and lover all seem to come to picky azz Virgo when they have problems that need solving. Need help moving, borrow money, emotional probs etc... I retreat when I need to recoupe and regroup, and deal with MY issues. So (someone's gonna get me on this...) the virgo retreat is rooted in unselfishness. We don't bring others in on our problems. We will openly help others, but prefer to deal with our own "STUFF" personally. Yes I would think about calling you, and hope to bump into you. I would likek to just catch your eye passing in traffic, so I know I'm on your mind. 😛

Gee thanks for the "BORING" remark Archer 😢

Now some Virgos are gentleman enough to let their partner know?(NOT NOW)?!! Exactly like you ladies when the time of the month is near?.

Lmao?!!

That BORING things was a sarcasm remark?.! A clear message to?.!!

Let it be surprise?.

pffftt

Archer is too intelligent and too playful to get her hands dirty in to this mud..!!

"I retreat when I need to recoupe and regroup, and deal with MY issues. So (someone's gonna get me on this...) the virgo retreat is rooted in unselfishness. We don't bring others in on our problems"

JW .. isn't that a contridiction?

A retreat is about the self (MY issues) .. yet, it is, "rooted in unselfishness"?

?JW .. isn't that a contridiction?

A retreat is about the self (MY issues) .. yet, it is, "rooted in unselfishness"??

of course it is NOT.. my problem is my problem to solve, not to share or whine about and I think it is one of the rarest and most noble quality in every Virgo people?

what is wrong with it..??

thank you Jwalker

I guess it would depend on the definition of "selfishness" here. To me it is not a selfish act to deal with my own issues. I feel as if I am "dumping" on someone if I lean on them..but that's ME. I have a need to "feel" independant even if I am not. (No-one is totally).

So I guess it could be considered selfish to take time out for ME but it is necessary, or else I would be no good to anyone . I would definitely suffer burn-out. So yes, in this case it is based on "I" so I can contunue as an "US and WE".

Yes Q-bone I know Archer...intellegent and sarcastic sense of humor (LUV YOU ARCHER!) 🙂

I guess I just want to know if he misses me during this time. Thats all. No need to complicate things people.

I feel as if I am "dumping" on someone if I lean on them..but that's ME. I have a need to "feel" independant even if I am not. (No-one is totally).

Same as here lady. All the way, everyday in 46 years..! If I'd charge people for every issue I solved or them? so far, I would be 2x richer than Bill Gate.

I guess I just want to know if he misses me during this time.

then I am afraid you are in the wrong web site, what you need is a fortune teller with a crystal ball, perhaps some tarot things.. or bone casting things.. what ever..!

Happycrab, you know we can't speak for him. I only answer what I know about me. If he loves you, he's thinking about you.

So, by unselfish, you meant .. not putting the burden on another to hash over your own delimnas (if I took Q's meaning right) .. that makes sense.

I know my Virgo thinks about duties when he's in his zone .. things he needs to catch up on, or goals.

HappyCrab .. I think you've got your answer. You're apparantly looking for them to say that their mind is overflowing with thoughts about their partner .. but, this is their time, not yours .. see?

You can't control other people but yourself.. what you need is a self discipline especially in emotional department..!

I've said it earlier? judging you by your recent posts, I can smell the self confidence problem..!

Comeon notso.. stop teasing me kid..!.. I am in a good mood anyway.

Then my first ?officially? thank you.

Yes PAngel. Not putting others in thick of our probs. I am very good at working things out. I need space and quiet time to do it though. I usually emerge refreshed and clearer in thinking. Also less stressed. I can easily become stressed out. I KNOW that when that happens, I MUST restreat. Letting out my problems to others is just something I CAN'T DO! Really, the onlt time I feel comfortable with that is when I am at a rock and hard place on a decision. Even then, (I) will present both sides for discussion. I have already thought about both.

The problem is people TRY SO HARD to control others....WHY WHY WHY—?

The ancient question...

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Freedom is something that similar people have no idea about...! SLAVERY is their favourite be it emotional life, spiritual life, or political life?.

That's why I am 100% anarchist..

lol

Q-bone, I will never understand the need one human being has to "lord" it over another, and yes it is soooo ancient. I have really beat my brain on this, and for the love of me have no answer. Well...I should say, the answers I DO come up with are azzinine. Like power. Doesn't it take more power to let someone be free? It takes more strength to let someone slap you and walk away than it does to slap back... I just can't get the concept of control.

Ohh .. ohh

You owe me nothing for that service, but still some issues that should be resolved especially in DCP connections..

Pop in G time to time to get the latest?

And you are very welcome, its my pleasure..!

I am not trying to controll anybody I just WANT TO KNOW. YES OR NO. THATS IT.

Hey Happycrab...We weren't saying that...O.k.? Take it easy. Just saying no one can tell you the answer but him. We tend to get off topic sometimes.

Thanks for compliment Archer!

Yeah?

Why would you want to know that..?

Lady.. nothing is for sure love and relationship is not the mathematical equations..!!

Normal people like us, takes things as it comes.. surprises in every corner makes life delicious..

At this point (yes/no) you show your weakness lady, again?.. do you need fortune teller..??

I don't think any of us is fortune teller..!

Try tossing a coin?I m sure it helps you much better?!

Err.. flip the coin? sorry

Jada I think i'm just gonna wait till i see him again. We have the same circle of friends and hang out in the same places so i'm sure i'll be seeing him. I saw his friend yesterday who absolutly adores me and is the one who told him that he shouldn't pass me up in the first place yesterday. He mentioned his name and told me I should call him and ask him about somthing and I said oh he's mad at me. He was really shocked and asked why I just shrugged and changed subject but he had a glare that showed he was still thinking why the hell is he mad at her (hes a scorpio). I don't think he's really mad but thats the best way to I can think of to explain why he's not answering or returning my calls.

Q Its not weekness to want to know what someone is thinking. I'm just curious. Why can everyone tell me that they usually are thinking about there own issues but when I want to know if they are missing there friends and loved ones while in there retreat it's weakness that requires a crystal ball to know?

HappyCrab .. I'm gonna answer this as nicely as I can. I may fall short on diplomacy, as usual .. so be it, I'll shoot anyway ..

According to the last two posts .. you are ringing him because you believe that he shouldn't be passing you up .. yet, he does not answer or return the calls.

Got brains? Use them .. if he ain't wanting to talk to you on the phone .. he sure as hell ain't MISSING YOU, lol .. omg

Second, what the Virgo's have said in here is that they are thinking about their own issues .. this stupid question of yours has been answered REPEATEDLY .. yet, you are not listening .. what Q is telling you is that Virgo's think about their own shit, on their personal time .. if you want more, then ask him.

The weakness isn't in the question .. it's in the "asking" itself, again, after they've already answered.

Hello

I've already got my answer P. I'm just trying to explain to you guys who keep repeating to me that I'm looking for a mind reader that thats not what I'm asking. And as far as the He should not pass me up thing...That was his buddy's advice not mine. You all agree that virgo's do retreat and its nothing personal yet you contradict yourselves by saying that if he's not calling then he's not interested.

Q Its not weekness to want to know what someone is thinking. I'm just curious.

With all due respect?? YES IT IS?.

By knowing what others thinking, you are invading their privacy of their mind, hence controlling..! in this way it will be easier to controlling others (because you can not control yourself ?impossible part?)

We are all free individuals living our lives, by knowing what others thinking you are controlling their next step and actions..!

No wonder he leaves you clueless? I would do the same..

Perhaps it is water creatures ?clingy? things? give it a thought..

Really Happycrab. If he DID call you, it wouldn't equal being interested. My point is that if he doesn't call, it's not necessarily dis-interest. Sometimes if you want to get to the bottom of something like that with a Virgo, you have to come out and put your azz on the line and ASK him how he feels. This will bring your drama to a grinding halt one way or the other. Who knows...it might be the ice-melting act he needs.

Well being the virgo that you are Q bone I can understand why that would make you nervous since you guys hate when people are getting in your mind and knowing your private thoughts. I'm sure alot of other signs don't like it either however it terrifies you guys since your already so guarded.

SNIFF** SNIFF*** I Smell a comeback ....