Confused

Ok let's try this again....

At what point or how much time do you consider someone as your friend?

I've been hanging with Virgo sun/pisces moon for alil over a year. About 3 months ago, we considered opening a business together, as we work in the same field.

So ideas are flowing, jotting notes, basically just trying to see where this can go. She brings up her boyfriend ideas and what he thinks because he's more experienced. Which he is and his ideas wasn't bad. Who happens to be aqua sun/gem moon.

Suddenly all her ideas turned into "boyfriend thinks and so on"... Then she decides that she doesn't know what she want out of life and don't want to do the business anymore..... I completely understand, no harsh feelings whatsoever. But it never stopped me from brainstorming and sharing my ideas with her about going out on my own. Eventually starting it up just with this one step I need to take...

Fast forward 3 months later... Me and her are on break, just complaining about work, on some virgo shit lol... BOOM

She goes "Let's do this!! My boyfriend already designed the website and I already have a name for the business. The website is up and in the future we can change the name. We can offer all the services you talked about and go get certified"...................



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I feel like that was some snake shit and I'm highly offended. I feel like I can't trust her and I'm not working with her. What did she not value my ideas or she didnt wanna go 50/50. Luckily my type of work is so competitive, we can easily just be competitors and do my own thing as planned. I really just want to end the friendship...



What ya think DXP?? I need to hear other people opinions because my head is clouded with negative emotions and my aqua moon can not process them..

Sounds like it's really her and her boyfriends business.

She went behind your back and when she got stuck she wanted your push.

Apparently you’ve been showing some signs of a pushover so she is treating you as less intelligent member of the business...

Look over her website. Learn anything and everything you can about it and proceed in your own. Don’t get partners. Hire employees. If you can’t afford salaries to pay - don’t do the business. Maybe find someone who can invest money for future profit. Like inactive partner.

And don’t forget to lose her ass. Unless you can pull it off to stay in good rship just to watch her progress. Keep enemies closer. Good luck.

"At what point or how much time do you consider someone as your friend?"

Die for me.

On the subject... so you provided the gas and she provided the car... unknowing she would actually use the gas... without you knowing or getting a heads up?

i think you should tell her all that

Oh man! I’m so sorry! I think your aqua moon negative emotions are correct. I’d end the friendship too, would be difficult to trust her.

I would have been out when she started mentioning the boyfriend..not even husband but boyfriend. Fuck that noise and big ass mess later. You're doing the right thing imo.

Of course he's aqua...

she kinda sounds like a pushover for her boyfriend...

Why is he involved? Experiences or not this was supposed to be you guy's thing.

If you can't trust her what's the point of keeping her around. I'd freeze her ass.

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