Do Yall Thrive on Drama?

Some virgos I know seem to thrive on drama. Either created by other people or created by themselves, doesn't matter. Just curious about yall's view on this.

I personally despise drama all around. Can't stand it & won't be around any part of it. But I must admit, as much as I'd love to unmask the fraudulence behind individuals; whether it's their annoying character or lying actions, I simply don't. In fact, I hold myself back. I ANALYZE the situation & foresee the outcome.
Drama you say? No thank you.

I can agree on mostly what Moody said,

But life is kind if like a giant soap opera show, so no matter what their is always drama even if we try to avoid it. I'll admit, there been times Ive been caught up in it, even caused quite a bit of drama myself ( unintentially of course ) One things for sure is I DON'T thrive on drama, it's hard for me to stay focus on my work, kr school because my mind is to busy analyzing the drama.

I have one good friend that is like yall and avoids it. But about 2-3 virgos I know are so into having to be in the know and so critical that they tend to either create it or keep it going. I think one of them is so bored, they have to liven their life up. lol!

Glad to hear its not necessarily a virgo trait.

No. I find myself constantly being forced into arguments and I never set out to create any. We Virgos are too understanding for our own good. Even if I don't agree with someones point of view, or think its completely irrational, I can still understand crazy. People tend to take my understanding as if I am agreeing with them. When they realize that I am not on board with their argument, they get offended. Often I hear "...but you just agreed with what I said!". People are eagerly looking for someone to say "you're right!" and they mistake "I understand you." for something that its not.

I know why its difficult for them. After a lengthy discussion, they can see that I fully get their point of view.But the moment I offer my personal thoughts, they get offended and feel as if I betrayed them. That sends me back to square one- Reassuring them that I understand their fawked up mindset. If it goes on too long, I will laugh and be done with the discussion. "This isn't going anywhere. Are we done?".
I know I need a better closing because they mistake this as me being an ashole when ,really, that is the final step to avoid saying something hurtful.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
What was that about drama again, Mr. D?

Bahahaha

I avoid it as much as possible...not saying that I've never created it or been in it...cause at some point we all have. But I tend to run the other direction when it comes to it.

It depends on different aspects in a Virgo's chart, myself for example with a Mars in Sag tend to externalize my anger when pushed- you will Know!
My Cappy is convinced I am an irrational and dramatic person... because we approach conflict differently. His Mars in Virgo tends towards a cooler and more logical internal anger.

Now having said that, I do not in any circumstances become involved in other people's drama.
Work, acquaintances, neighbors, colleagues - No Drama!

But, if you are an extremely close or inner circle member ie. family or SO I am more than capable of speaking my mind. Whether that in itself is 'drama' per se or just plain communication is a matter of perspective...

we are the most patient sign of the zodiac. we hardly if ever create or participate in drama - one reason could be our being preoccupied with ourselves hahaha. but seriously, we are so self contained that there is never any need to create drama for anything. and in anyone else's drama we could only act as the calm in the storm haha. the only rare occasion when you might catch a virgo involved in a drama is if the water has gone over the head and there is no other way to make our point, or stand our stand. a virgo is very controlled, it will take only something of very very serious nature to aggravate a virgo, and then there is no listening to anyone. my way is the only right way then. other than that we are a sober, hard working, sincere lot. many a times i think that virgo's would probably make good psychiatrists, out of all the signs in the zodiac.

Posted by greengemini
YES??_most of them love drama and will never admit to it.

i could be interested in someone else's drama, mainly due to my curious nature. i want to know everything about everyone. for myself, i am not very demanding or dependent on anyone, so i can survive without causing any drama.

Sometimes, my big spiritedness takes me to to some weird places and I end up in some pretty bizarre situations, most of them funny as hell, some others I feel a bit embarrassed about afterwards (like if someone else unintentionally is affected by it) I dont reject, nor call drama upon me, I accept the situation as it comes and try to make the most out of it. Like I said, Im very enthusiastic about life in general so this way you attract all kinds of "big events" some good, some bad, it is what it is.

But its what makes life worth it, experiencing. Playing safe all the time is boring and in the end you're just deluding yourself cause you simply cant control everything in your life even if you like to tell yourself you can.

Posted by greengemini
YES??_most of them love drama and will never admit to it.

Ha!
Coming from a Gemini? Oh the irony.

My sister.... Absolutely!

Well, yall say yall try to stay away from it and don't like it. But it appears other signs view Virgos as loving drama. How do yall feel about this perception of yall?

I'm not trying to start anything here, its like they say caps are cold and we don't think we are, so just wondering how you feel about it.

Honestly, I've always been around those virgos (except one) who are drama queens and can't funciton without gossip, so obviously, my impression has been warped.

It is nice to hear your viewpoints, so thanks for the education. And I mean that sincerely. I'm trying to explore some stereotypes.

^Its more like selective reading/perception^ I've never seen that trend myself to be honest^ although if there is, I think Virgo women are more prone to it (but then all women are more prone to loving drama anyway) Also keep in mind that lots of people act like sheep, they hear someone make a claim about something/someone, then they'll agree with it if they can remember just one personal case where said thing happened, then they make a law out of it.

My take is that Virgos are generally interested in anthropology on all levels specifically dealing with human dynamics and interactions. What I found is that they do like gossip because in their brains they're probably dissecting why or how the event could've happened. To me personally they sort of like to share their conclusion and people think that they've formed an opinion (which they might) but probably more so still neutral.

I find my virguy mates are less prone to gossiping but I guess virgals rub off as gossipy given the social setting, everyone loves gossip to some extent and it's just a form of communication sometimes.

I like that point of view! I suppose it could be the analytical aspect. Gossip isn't a bad thing because it teaches us what behavior is unacceptable in society.

^^ that was based on what Aquasnoz said.

Posted by harry99

Posted by CluelessCancer
Sometimes a Virgo drama is driven by selfishness, ill have a thread up later, about a dinner i went to with my friend. Virgo...

ahhhh the females are bat sh!t crazy and they don't even realize it.

+1

They try to act like they're Libras and are so diplomatic um no usually they're the ones that start something by saying some mean controversial thing to someone or by using someone who's in love with them that they don't love in return or by just not showing emotions at all. I remember my ex made me wonder if she would show any emotion if she accidentally killed a child.
I remember we were watching t.v. one day and they were showing something about that guy who had killed that girl who was on vacation in the Bahamas and my ex actually said in response that if she killed someone she wouldn't confess and she wouldn't care because they're dead and she's still alive and it makes no sense to give up her life for them etc.. and she was dead serious too...absolutely no emotion.....and that is what causes drama between other people and Virgos ....also they're nosiness and their judgmental attitude while they do the exact same thing. They're incapable of relaxing and they drive other people crazy when they don't have a constructive way (career) of using their over-thinking and critical minds'.

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You can't take your girlfriends personal thought and apply it to every Virgo. Though, that thought process is something that Virgos do. We think "Who would do that?"..."I can understand why someone would do that, but would I do that?". I do not see anything wrong with being honest with yourself. The problem was that she chose to share that thought in the presence of a, seemingly, narrow minded person.

Posted by truecap
Well, yall say yall try to stay away from it and don't like it. But it appears other signs view Virgos as loving drama. How do yall feel about this perception of yall?

I'm not trying to start anything here, its like they say caps are cold and we don't think we are, so just wondering how you feel about it.

Honestly, I've always been around those virgos (except one) who are drama queens and can't funciton without gossip, so obviously, my impression has been warped.

It is nice to hear your viewpoints, so thanks for the education. And I mean that sincerely. I'm trying to explore some stereotypes.

Me personally could care less what other people think...cause they are gonna think it anyway and it would be too exhausting to go around trying to please everybody! Lol

Everyone has been prone to drama in their lives...it's not a Virgo thing

Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
Can I just say that I love that you use the word "yall". It makes me think of home.

Awwww, hope I'm not making you homesick. I just can't help it. It's how I talk in real life. I have a slight Texas twang.
Where is home?

I don't like drama, but how I behave makes some people around me create it. needing space, disappearing, shut down & run away temporarily when I'm falling in love with u, shut down when u pissed me off etc