DomesticLawnmower
@DomesticLawnmower
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Posted by SpottieOttieDopaliciousYes I am,why?
Are you a Scorpio rising?
Posted by SpottieOttieDopaliciousHuh? Wait I don't understandPosted by DomesticLawnmowerWell, it's pretty self explanatory, isn't it?Posted by SpottieOttieDopaliciousYes I am,why?
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Posted by PristineShes usually quite reserved, but there are a lot of times which she is only aloof towards me.Posted by DomesticLawnmowerIs she aloof only towards you or others as well?
Okay this is quite long, but I hope you will read it to the end.
I'm a bisexual Gemini woman.I've known this Virgo woman for three years and liked her for two years now.She did not give me any hints or whatsoever last year.I tried to forget about since maybe she's not into the same gender.I stopped talking and distance myself from her so that I would move on from her.Even though , I still have feelings for her and wanted to talk to her badly.Few months before , she looks very sad and was very quiet.I was worried for her.However on my birthday (June) she wished happy birthday with a genuinely happy voice and I was surprised till I dont know how to react.The next day, she reverted back to her cold demeanor.When I'm around, she acts very awkward and aloof and ignores my presence.In August, there was a group project.Me and her were in the same group.Me and my friends(that was in the group ) went to her house for discussion.We both started talking very naturally and she laughed a lot at my jokes.There was one time where she was lying on her sofa and made eye contact with me( I broke the contact first because I was shy)The next day , we had discussion at another group member's house.She reverted back to her cold demeanor again.During our break, one of my friends said that I have a piercing gaze which intimidated her.My crush also agreed to my other friends statement.After that we kinda joked around and continued the discussion.
At school, she reverted back to her cold demeanor again.She was even more awkward around me.I can't bear it that day and messaged her after school.She said that she dont know what to talk around me and said that she thinks I hate her.I then realised my actions before (not talking to her, serious face when she's around),caused this. I cleared up the misunderstandings and we chatted for 2 hours .The next day, she was not as cold as before but we didn't chat yet.Before the presentation for our group project, we were memorizing the lines and she suddenly said she was very nervous and her hands were freezing cold.I grabbed her hand once because I was curious.Then I grabbed her hand again to confirm it.She lets me do it thus I did it very nonchalantly.
Sometimes I catch her looking or glancing at me.There is one time where I was under the weather,sitting at my desk to rest, I sense her watching me.I turned around and saw her turned away and biting her lips nervously.I acted nonchalant and she exited the class with her friends.She laughs alot at my jokes even it's stupid and compliments me a lot , saying that I'm very funny , different , intelligent ,creative etc but always degrade herself in the process by saying she's stupid.Once ,she looks very sad and distressed and I was worried.After school ends, I waited for the moment where we were both alone so I can inquire her about it.She kept giggling and smiling while denying that she was okay and giggled more when I told her I was worried for her.I chatted a lot with her on fb and I was trying to understand her.She was impressed that I can tell what she was thinking without her telling me and she opened up to me. Once, she asked me how do I think of her as a person, and I replied that I like her a lot (as a friend).I gained some of her trust that day when we chatted for 3 hours.My crush also helps me to do little tasks without me asking her to.She also cares about my health since I'm not a very healthy person =/
We've only touched a few times(hands) , mostly she initiated it or gave me her consent.
However, there were times when she did not even make eye contact and ignoring my presence the whole day.Even though she stills laughs at my jokes but she always appeared to be detached and distant when I'm around .It confuses me so much.Since there was a lot of guys in my school likes her, I teased her that she also likes those guys.She denies and says she has a certain type and looks at me in the eye challengingly.I lost the staring contest of course since I would blush if I continue to stare back any longer.
Recently, I asked her if she would like to know more about me and she said yes.I asked her if she was curious of she intended to stay in my life.She replied that she would stay in my life, if she could.
Whew that was long, I'm sorry to write so much because I needed to confirm her feelings .There is still much I didn't write just to spare you some concentration 🙂
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Posted by PristineThank you .I was very confused. I can finally move on nowPosted by DomesticLawnmowerIt may boil down to just her being aloof as her personality in general...maybe the reason why she's kind of distant towards you at times is cuz she doesn't want to make you feel that there's something "more" that she can offer should she try to be more affectionate towards you, you might misinterpret it as a sign that she "might" like you, when it's not what it seems to be for her...the behavior is specifically directed towards you because maybe (if you didn't confess to her that you like her) she can sense that you like her more than friends and she's not up for it...maybe she's just waiting for you to confront her about it (her being hot and cold, and the reason behind her behavior) as well as to ease the confusion on your partPosted by PristineShes usually quite reserved, but there are a lot of times which she is only aloof towards me.Posted by DomesticLawnmowerIs she aloof only towards you or others as well?
Okay this is quite long, but I hope you will read it to the end.
I'm a bisexual Gemini woman.I've known this Virgo woman for three years and liked her for two years now.She did not give me any hints or whatsoever last year.I tried to forget about since maybe she's not into the same gender.I stopped talking and distance myself from her so that I would move on from her.Even though , I still have feelings for her and wanted to talk to her badly.Few months before , she looks very sad and was very quiet.I was worried for her.However on my birthday (June) she wished happy birthday with a genuinely happy voice and I was surprised till I dont know how to react.The next day, she reverted back to her cold demeanor.When I'm around, she acts very awkward and aloof and ignores my presence.In August, there was a group project.Me and her were in the same group.Me and my friends(that was in the group ) went to her house for discussion.We both started talking very naturally and she laughed a lot at my jokes.There was one time where she was lying on her sofa and made eye contact with me( I broke the contact first because I was shy)The next day , we had discussion at another group member's house.She reverted back to her cold demeanor again.During our break, one of my friends said that I have a piercing gaze which intimidated her.My crush also agreed to my other friends statement.After that we kinda joked around and continued the discussion.
At school, she reverted back to her cold demeanor again.She was even more awkward around me.I can't bear it that day and messaged her after school.She said that she dont know what to talk around me and said that she thinks I hate her.I then realised my actions before (not talking to her, serious face when she's around),caused this. I cleared up the misunderstandings and we chatted for 2 hours .The next day, she was not as cold as before but we didn't chat yet.Before the presentation for our group project, we were memorizing the lines and she suddenly said she was very nervous and her hands were freezing cold.I grabbed her hand once because I was curious.Then I grabbed her hand again to confirm it.She lets me do it thus I did it very nonchalantly.
Sometimes I catch her looking or glancing at me.There is one time where I was under the weather,sitting at my desk to rest, I sense her watching me.I turned around and saw her turned away and biting her lips nervously.I acted nonchalant and she exited the class with her friends.She laughs alot at my jokes even it's stupid and compliments me a lot , saying that I'm very funny , different , intelligent ,creative etc but always degrade herself in the process by saying she's stupid.Once ,she looks very sad and distressed and I was worried.After school ends, I waited for the moment where we were both alone so I can inquire her about it.She kept giggling and smiling while denying that she was okay and giggled more when I told her I was worried for her.I chatted a lot with her on fb and I was trying to understand her.She was impressed that I can tell what she was thinking without her telling me and she opened up to me. Once, she asked me how do I think of her as a person, and I replied that I like her a lot (as a friend).I gained some of her trust that day when we chatted for 3 hours.My crush also helps me to do little tasks without me asking her to.She also cares about my health since I'm not a very healthy person =/
We've only touched a few times(hands) , mostly she initiated it or gave me her consent.
However, there were times when she did not even make eye contact and ignoring my presence the whole day.Even though she stills laughs at my jokes but she always appeared to be detached and distant when I'm around .It confuses me so much.Since there was a lot of guys in my school likes her, I teased her that she also likes those guys.She denies and says she has a certain type and looks at me in the eye challengingly.I lost the staring contest of course since I would blush if I continue to stare back any longer.
Recently, I asked her if she would like to know more about me and she said yes.I asked her if she was curious of she intended to stay in my life.She replied that she would stay in my life, if she could.
Whew that was long, I'm sorry to write so much because I needed to confirm her feelings .There is still much I didn't write just to spare you some concentration 🙂
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Posted by PristineI can't.My country isn't as open minded as you think.And plus I fear for rejection.
*confess to her that you like her MORE than friends


Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Nope.
Have you been on here before?
Posted by PristineI live in Malaysia, it's in southeast Asia.I won't ask her, I dont want to make her uncomfortable.Posted by DomesticLawnmowerWell, now I see where your confusion is coming from...the communication lines are hindered plus your fear of rejection...if both of these aspects can't be remedied, then you wouldn't really have a clear answer to your dilemma unless you try to be straightforward towards her cuz only she holds the answers to ease your confusion whether you're going to like her answer or not...as per your country, what country do you live in?Posted by PristineI can't.My country isn't as open minded as you think.And plus I fear for rejection.
*confess to her that you like her MORE than friends
Can't you ask her about what confuses you in private for your protection as well just in case this is indeed a sensitive subject to tackle on?click to expand
Posted by SeraphlightYeah (;_😉 , but never mind I can survive stillPosted by DomesticLawnmowerPosted by PristineI live in Malaysia, it's in southeast Asia.I won't ask her, I dont want to make her uncomfortable.Posted by DomesticLawnmowerWell, now I see where your confusion is coming from...the communication lines are hindered plus your fear of rejection...if both of these aspects can't be remedied, then you wouldn't really have a clear answer to your dilemma unless you try to be straightforward towards her cuz only she holds the answers to ease your confusion whether you're going to like her answer or not...as per your country, what country do you live in?Posted by PristineI can't.My country isn't as open minded as you think.And plus I fear for rejection.
*confess to her that you like her MORE than friends
Can't you ask her about what confuses you in private for your protection as well just in case this is indeed a sensitive subject to tackle on?
I am sorry you're in a culture that does not allow you to be free and express yourself. That sucks 😢
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Posted by Gabz2*Sighs* actually, I have the feeling that she's interested and she's not interested at the same time.Damn you indecisiveness.So does she like me or its just me over thinking and overanalyzing?Posted by DomesticLawnmower
Okay this is quite long, but I hope you will read it to the end.
I'm a bisexual Gemini woman.I've known this Virgo woman for three years and liked her for two years now.She did not give me any hints or whatsoever last year.I tried to forget about since maybe she's not into the same gender.I stopped talking and distance myself from her so that I would move on from her.Even though , I still have feelings for her and wanted to talk to her badly.Few months before , she looks very sad and was very quiet.I was worried for her.However on my birthday (June) she wished happy birthday with a genuinely happy voice and I was surprised till I dont know how to react.The next day, she reverted back to her cold demeanor.When I'm around, she acts very awkward and aloof and ignores my presence.In August, there was a group project.Me and her were in the same group.Me and my friends(that was in the group ) went to her house for discussion.We both started talking very naturally and she laughed a lot at my jokes.There was one time where she was lying on her sofa and made eye contact with me( I broke the contact first because I was shy)The next day , we had discussion at another group member's house.She reverted back to her cold demeanor again.During our break, one of my friends said that I have a piercing gaze which intimidated her.My crush also agreed to my other friends statement.After that we kinda joked around and continued the discussion.
At school, she reverted back to her cold demeanor again.She was even more awkward around me.I can't bear it that day and messaged her after school.She said that she dont know what to talk around me and said that she thinks I hate her.I then realised my actions before (not talking to her, serious face when she's around),caused this. I cleared up the misunderstandings and we chatted for 2 hours .The next day, she was not as cold as before but we didn't chat yet.Before the presentation for our group project, we were memorizing the lines and she suddenly said she was very nervous and her hands were freezing cold.I grabbed her hand once because I was curious.Then I grabbed her hand again to confirm it.She lets me do it thus I did it very nonchalantly.
Sometimes I catch her looking or glancing at me.There is one time where I was under the weather,sitting at my desk to rest, I sense her watching me.I turned around and saw her turned away and biting her lips nervously.I acted nonchalant and she exited the class with her friends.She laughs alot at my jokes even it's stupid and compliments me a lot , saying that I'm very funny , different , intelligent ,creative etc but always degrade herself in the process by saying she's stupid.Once ,she looks very sad and distressed and I was worried.After school ends, I waited for the moment where we were both alone so I can inquire her about it.She kept giggling and smiling while denying that she was okay and giggled more when I told her I was worried for her.I chatted a lot with her on fb and I was trying to understand her.She was impressed that I can tell what she was thinking without her telling me and she opened up to me. Once, she asked me how do I think of her as a person, and I replied that I like her a lot (as a friend).I gained some of her trust that day when we chatted for 3 hours.My crush also helps me to do little tasks without me asking her to.She also cares about my health since I'm not a very healthy person =/
We've only touched a few times(hands) , mostly she initiated it or gave me her consent.
However, there were times when she did not even make eye contact and ignoring my presence the whole day.Even though she stills laughs at my jokes but she always appeared to be detached and distant when I'm around .It confuses me so much.Since there was a lot of guys in my school likes her, I teased her that she also likes those guys.She denies and says she has a certain type and looks at me in the eye challengingly.I lost the staring contest of course since I would blush if I continue to stare back any longer.
Recently, I asked her if she would like to know more about me and she said yes.I asked her if she was curious of she intended to stay in my life.She replied that she would stay in my life, if she could.
Whew that was long, I'm sorry to write so much because I needed to confirm her feelings .There is still much I didn't write just to spare you some concentration 🙂
—sighs—?
This is so me, when I use to be into Geminis lol...
She feeling you, ode. You make her nervous, as all Geminis make Virgo nervous. I remember me and my first love would look at each other from across the lunch but never spoke. so word got around school that I was crushing on him and he offered to take me home.
The whole car ride was complete silence. I can feel that he was equally nervous and it was just awkward lol.. Anywho, he went down south for the summer. We spoke literally 16 hrs out the day and fell in love over the phone.. smh
Every Gemini after that was always just great sex and phone sex and phone convos... In person, not much said. That's why I don't deal with Geminis. It's too much nervous energy, maybe because my mars is in Gemini, idk.. But the sex is amazing. Jeezzuss
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Posted by Gabz2its my aqua sun that made her intrigued by me and approach me and besides im an earthy aqua so astrologically speaking we are compatible,we have this kind of communication that we dont need to talk often which i like since im more of an action type of person and i notice that she is more on action as well but its a slow process i thinkPosted by Aquarius3189hmmm ??
i have the same dilemma but with a taurus but she knows that i go both ways,its hot and cold with her and she wont approach me now if i dont go to her first
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I'm a bisexual Gemini woman.I've known this Virgo woman for three years and liked her for two years now.She did not give me any hints or whatsoever last year.I tried to forget about since maybe she's not into the same gender.I stopped talking and distance myself from her so that I would move on from her.Even though , I still have feelings for her and wanted to talk to her badly.Few months before , she looks very sad and was very quiet.I was worried for her.However on my birthday (June) she wished happy birthday with a genuinely happy voice and I was surprised till I dont know how to react.The next day, she reverted back to her cold demeanor.When I'm around, she acts very awkward and aloof and ignores my presence.In August, there was a group project.Me and her were in the same group.Me and my friends(that was in the group ) went to her house for discussion.We both started talking very naturally and she laughed a lot at my jokes.There was one time where she was lying on her sofa and made eye contact with me( I broke the contact first because I was shy)The next day , we had discussion at another group member's house.She reverted back to her cold demeanor again.During our break, one of my friends said that I have a piercing gaze which intimidated her.My crush also agreed to my other friends statement.After that we kinda joked around and continued the discussion.
At school, she reverted back to her cold demeanor again.She was even more awkward around me.I can't bear it that day and messaged her after school.She said that she dont know what to talk around me and said that she thinks I hate her.I then realised my actions before (not talking to her, serious face when she's around),caused this. I cleared up the misunderstandings and we chatted for 2 hours .The next day, she was not as cold as before but we didn't chat yet.Before the presentation for our group project, we were memorizing the lines and she suddenly said she was very nervous and her hands were freezing cold.I grabbed her hand once because I was curious.Then I grabbed her hand again to confirm it.She lets me do it thus I did it very nonchalantly.
Sometimes I catch her looking or glancing at me.There is one time where I was under the weather,sitting at my desk to rest, I sense her watching me.I turned around and saw her turned away and biting her lips nervously.I acted nonchalant and she exited the class with her friends.She laughs alot at my jokes even it's stupid and compliments me a lot , saying that I'm very funny , different , intelligent ,creative etc but always degrade herself in the process by saying she's stupid.Once ,she looks very sad and distressed and I was worried.After school ends, I waited for the moment where we were both alone so I can inquire her about it.She kept giggling and smiling while denying that she was okay and giggled more when I told her I was worried for her.I chatted a lot with her on fb and I was trying to understand her.She was impressed that I can tell what she was thinking without her telling me and she opened up to me. Once, she asked me how do I think of her as a person, and I replied that I like her a lot (as a friend).I gained some of her trust that day when we chatted for 3 hours.My crush also helps me to do little tasks without me asking her to.She also cares about my health since I'm not a very healthy person =/
We've only touched a few times(hands) , mostly she initiated it or gave me her consent.
However, there were times when she did not even make eye contact and ignoring my presence the whole day.Even though she stills laughs at my jokes but she always appeared to be detached and distant when I'm around .It confuses me so much.Since there was a lot of guys in my school likes her, I teased her that she also likes those guys.She denies and says she has a certain type and looks at me in the eye challengingly.I lost the staring contest of course since I would blush if I continue to stare back any longer.
Recently, I asked her if she would like to know more about me and she said yes.I asked her if she was curious of she intended to stay in my life.She replied that she would stay in my life, if she could.
Whew that was long, I'm sorry to write so much because I needed to confirm her feelings .There is still much I didn't write just to spare you some concentration 🙂