Libra Man Confusion/Delusion?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by misssusie on Sunday, May 1, 2016 and has 9 replies.

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@misssusie
13 Years

I am a Gemini woman whom was in an on/off relationship with a libra man for 4 years.
We had a naturally easy going relationship, a lot of romance, chemistry and what felt like a real connection.
He ended the relationship a year ago after a huge argument we had on the phone as I didn't want to be on and off, I told him I couldn't do it anymore and it was really unfair.
I felt bad and regretted it and tried to fix things but he refused, told me I had been disrespectful to another level and that he was done with me completely.
I left him alone but was really heart broken and emailed a couple of times, got no reply.
I used to write and post stuff on social media (I'm not an a frequent poster) and almost the same day/next day he would do the same.
Two weeks ago I messaged him on LinkedIn asking him why he won't reply/behaves like he doesn't care etc and I got a very cold generic response telling me to never contact him again, I read it and thought ok what more can I do, so left it.
I went on my LinkedIn account two days later and saw he had looked at my profile and now changed his photo which he has had for the last three years.
I can't help but wonder he wants me to approach him with the right words but at the same time I wonder if I'm being deluded... I want to be with him as I still love him very deeply but I don't really understand his behaviour, I mean really and truly he could just block me and stuff... Any libra's understand this behaviour?

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

It's far more likely that he is just updating LinkedIn with his new number so that business opportunities can contact him.

Don't read into it.

He knows how to get ahold of you if needed. Preserve what's left of your dignity and stop reaching out to someone who is long done with you.

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@cherishedlibra
11 Years

Libra man acting cold? Hmmm. He's already told you how he felt. Let it go.
You came back and tried to fix things he still hasn't let up, let it go.
Let it goooo.
If he was interested and felt you've learned your lesson things would have been back on like the bad never happen.

Let it go.

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@librawomen7
10 Years500+ Posts

Posted by misssusie
I am a Gemini woman whom was in an on/off relationship with a libra man for 4 years.
We had a naturally easy going relationship, a lot of romance, chemistry and what felt like a real connection.
He ended the relationship a year ago after a huge argument we had on the phone as I didn't want to be on and off, I told him I couldn't do it anymore and it was really unfair.
I felt bad and regretted it and tried to fix things but he refused, told me I had been disrespectful to another level and that he was done with me completely.
I left him alone but was really heart broken and emailed a couple of times, got no reply.
I used to write and post stuff on social media (I'm not an a frequent poster) and almost the same day/next day he would do the same.
Two weeks ago I messaged him on LinkedIn asking him why he won't reply/behaves like he doesn't care etc and I got a very cold generic response telling me to never contact him again, I read it and thought ok what more can I do, so left it.
I went on my LinkedIn account two days later and saw he had looked at my profile and now changed his photo which he has had for the last three years.
I can't help but wonder he wants me to approach him with the right words but at the same time I wonder if I'm being deluded... I want to be with him as I still love him very deeply but I don't really understand his behaviour, I mean really and truly he could just block me and stuff... Any libra's understand this behaviour?

What's new with the Libra? Usually after you leave us alone for awhile and we see that you are gone, we come back. Any new news?

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@balancedlibra
10 Years

If he ended it with you then I think it's something hr wanted, sry. We libras tend to be indecisive but we're pretty decisive when it comes to love. We also love to be in love... or lust lol. If he couldn't choose you then to me he didn't want to choose you at that time.

I think that he's just curious as to how you're doing.

I wouldn't reach out first as he may just string you along for another 3 years.

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@libralotus
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I will tell you something from another perspective. Maybe he wants you to chase after him. Sometimes people enjoy watching others suffer and yearn for them. It's a huge ego boost. He's trying to keep your attention nonchalantly by posting after you, giving you the read receipts and the cold shoulder. I know it might sounds like I'm reading too much into it but I've done this is the past. I would see an ex post online and immediately do the same so I know he would see it. If he was really done with you he would have removed you from his accounts since you've been pretty persistent.