happy86
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Finally..am divorcing from my virgo husband
I am sorry to hear that you are going through this. A break up is hard and even harder when a young child is involved. I left my daughter's father when she was still an infant so it wasn't so hard on her and thankfully he is a consistent figure in her life so she has adjusted well.
I am...well I WAS until yesterday dating a Virgo who ironically just got divorced. I have noticed that he is very selfish and always seems to put his needs and desires before any else's and well I've just had enough!! The funny thing is I miss him so much and wonder if I'm doing the right thing. I to have decided no matter what I will not date another Virgo, its just too painful.
I am...well I WAS until yesterday dating a Virgo who ironically just got divorced. I have noticed that he is very selfish and always seems to put his needs and desires before any else's and well I've just had enough!! The funny thing is I miss him so much and wonder if I'm doing the right thing. I to have decided no matter what I will not date another Virgo, its just too painful.
Hello Snowball,
Thanks for the message. My daughter is still an infant and I guess it wont be hard on her for now. And am not wicked, he can have access to her and all. The marriage isn't working out. We are always fighting and he argues a lot unecessary. This is the first time I'm seeing a man so unemotional and yet he calls himself my husband. Well I told him enough is enough..I will break the jinx and I have decided. And once I have decided about something, I am ready for the consequences and take full responsibility for actions. And for me to feel this way..I had already gotten over him. I told him I wouldn't want him to tbe the father of my children with his silly and uncaring attitude.
he is a cameleon..awalys changing his behaviour with different people and at different times and you will never know his true self. I told him he might be more caring outside or seems more loving..but at home, I do not know who he is.
It's truly over with us...in a few days time...I'll back my words with action. I have never met this kind of man in my life and he definitely cannot make me miserable..no way..I'd rather make him miserable.
Thanks for the message. My daughter is still an infant and I guess it wont be hard on her for now. And am not wicked, he can have access to her and all. The marriage isn't working out. We are always fighting and he argues a lot unecessary. This is the first time I'm seeing a man so unemotional and yet he calls himself my husband. Well I told him enough is enough..I will break the jinx and I have decided. And once I have decided about something, I am ready for the consequences and take full responsibility for actions. And for me to feel this way..I had already gotten over him. I told him I wouldn't want him to tbe the father of my children with his silly and uncaring attitude.
he is a cameleon..awalys changing his behaviour with different people and at different times and you will never know his true self. I told him he might be more caring outside or seems more loving..but at home, I do not know who he is.
It's truly over with us...in a few days time...I'll back my words with action. I have never met this kind of man in my life and he definitely cannot make me miserable..no way..I'd rather make him miserable.
As a Leo woman I have dated two Virgos and was sought out by one other, but I never dated him, though it appears that we are always initially attracted to them. A couple of VirGuys on here will attest to that fact. Seems that a lot of VirGuys are drawn to us. Probably due to our confidence and overt sexuality. But it seems that we never quite work out for the long term. It does however make for a good time between the sheets!
I must say that I havent found them to be selfish men. Actually it was quite the opposite. However they do have their quirks... but don't we all? LOL! They just like to be in control of situations and their emotions, so a Leo it takes a lot of work to even out the battle of wills. The last VirGuy I dated had Leo moon and Leo Venus.... same as me, however I have Aqua Ascendant and he has Scorpio Ascendant... not a good match for rising signs. I find Scorp too emotional for Aqua. So you have take into consideration other aspects of the chart other than just Sun signs.
I would definitely date another Virgo though. I find them to be incredibly stable (earth sign) in life and very ambitious, however not so much in relationships. They are extremely critical of who they take as a partner and have very high standards. They also have a difficult time opening up in their younger years, however I find that maturity does seem to compliment them.
I may not be the best testimonial though because I was with a Taurus for 16 years! Talk about battle of wills and learning to compromise! WHEW!! So, I am probably a bit more of the flexible Leo variety!
Anyhow, divorce can be painful no matter what the signs or circumstances, but you deserve to be happy! Good luck and congratulations with finally making the first steps toward renewed happiness!!!
I must say that I havent found them to be selfish men. Actually it was quite the opposite. However they do have their quirks... but don't we all? LOL! They just like to be in control of situations and their emotions, so a Leo it takes a lot of work to even out the battle of wills. The last VirGuy I dated had Leo moon and Leo Venus.... same as me, however I have Aqua Ascendant and he has Scorpio Ascendant... not a good match for rising signs. I find Scorp too emotional for Aqua. So you have take into consideration other aspects of the chart other than just Sun signs.
I would definitely date another Virgo though. I find them to be incredibly stable (earth sign) in life and very ambitious, however not so much in relationships. They are extremely critical of who they take as a partner and have very high standards. They also have a difficult time opening up in their younger years, however I find that maturity does seem to compliment them.
I may not be the best testimonial though because I was with a Taurus for 16 years! Talk about battle of wills and learning to compromise! WHEW!! So, I am probably a bit more of the flexible Leo variety!
Anyhow, divorce can be painful no matter what the signs or circumstances, but you deserve to be happy! Good luck and congratulations with finally making the first steps toward renewed happiness!!!
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And once I have decided about something, I am ready for the consequences and take full responsibility for actions. And for me to feel this way..I had already gotten over him.
It's truly over with us...in a few days time...I'll back my words with action.
Yep, sounds like a true Leo to me!! LOL!
I also think he's mercenary. The moment I stopped supporting him cos of his silly attitude towards me, I noticed he became a bit cold. When I support him monetarily his behaviour changes.
Yea, Virgo Male + Leo Female from my experience is either really ON or really off. Not much for in between. Regardless of the astrological crap, I'm sorry you're going through the divorce ordeal.
I had an 8.5 year relationship with a Leo woman and it was brilliant. I generally love Leo women, both in terms of their appearance and personality, and got on incredibly well with my partner for all of the time what we were together. It only ended when the chemistry stopped working for her. I would have spent the rest of my life with her. We are still in touch and she still gets very upset sometimes that she can't turn the chemistry back on, because everything else worked so well - we were the very best of friends.
I think the OP's Virguy has issues beyond and incompatibility arising out of the Leo+Virgo combination.
I think the OP's Virguy has issues beyond and incompatibility arising out of the Leo+Virgo combination.
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww im so sorry to hear that it i feel bad seems dat everybody nowadays is anti Virgo lol even i cant stand some Virgos myself it just makes it seem Virgos are terrible at relationships and meant to be bachelors forever lmao.
i guess im lucky dat my mercury and Venus is in tha sign of relationships Libra 🙂
anyway i hope u feel better.
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