Best way to get a (virgo) man to look twice at you

I like a virgo guy, venus in cancer.

He seems so shy. What is the best way to get his attention and make him say "hmm....she might be someone I wanna get to know"

i've had some look at me. i dunno. i was just always myself. i think u should be urself too no matter what their sign is. u don't wanna give them a false impression of who u really are.

I dont know exactly HOW to get his attention.... although lately I have had the attention of a few. I think it comes with just being confident and honest. I know that is how I normally am... I dont hold back ANYTHING really And I am very comfortable in my skin wich is probably due to both being a Leo and of course my age. My advice would be, just be you. Its okay to be a little aggressive with this sign because trust me if you get their attention they will be persistent in the pursuit and YOU will know it!

Venus in Cancer Virgo men like to be roughed up under the sheets, or tied to chairs .. doesn't matter where, just so long as you realize that they want pain. Easy though, what is in fantasy isn't necessarily so easy to take.

Buy some goodies that represent your sexual dominance, and make it known you were thinking about making him hurt when you purchased them and I promise you ... you will have his full attention.

I should know ... I've been married to one for 27 years.

Or, the other way around .... they like that, also.

So long as it hurts, he won't care which side is his.

I'm a Virgo with Venus in Cancer.

If it gets to that point... Bite him.

Okay back to being remotely serious...

What's his Moon and Rising?

Virgo men are sexy

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Posted by Jason2213
Have a stain on your shirt. He'll look at you twice. Maybe more. 🙂

so far, this has been the best advice on this thread

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Ah Ha Ha Ha Ha!!! Absolutely guaranteed to work!!!

Posted by Rumi
Virgo Men LOOK at you when you are NOT looking at them.. try it..

works flawlessly.

So true! The one I am spending time with recently, is always watching me when Im not paying attention. I caught him staring at me a few times this weekend when I was just watching TV and while in the gym working out. When he saw me look his way, he sheepishly looked away and went about his business. It was kinda cute!

Posted by mike6832
If you have it in you, be a little aggressive in a "Friendship" way. If he's really shy then it's unlikely that he will ever make the first move.

HI MIKE 😄!!!

Actually, virgos look at you when are aren't looking :/ Seriously, they do. There was one that I went out with recently who watched me for a few years, and I didn't even know it. He's asked to go out with me ... and I said no (don't ask me why, its complicated). He and I spoke but I didn't know he paid attention to me when I was just doing stuff. Heck, I didn't even know the guy was around until his friend told me how much he watched me. Then later the virguy admitted it himself.

So yeah, just don't pay attention to them and see what happens.

Posted by Rumi
Virgo Men LOOK at you when you are NOT looking at them.. try it..

works flawlessly.

lol, Rumi is right lol! I just said that. hahaha see 😉

Oh ya totally. Its like this...

*Virgo man going about his routine*

"Mmmmm..Caveman work...mmm wat dat? mmm Caveman see pwetty TING! Caveman look..... Uhh, pwetty ting looking back.... Caveman look away and go back to routine"

Posted by VirgoHero
Oh ya totally. Its like this...

*Virgo man going about his routine*

"Mmmmm..Caveman work...mmm wat dat? mmm Caveman see pwetty TING! Caveman look..... Uhh, pwetty ting looking back.... Caveman look away and go back to routine"

LOL VH! You are too funny!

I have learned that they absorb a lot more than you think they are too, so make sure you only put out there what you want him to see or know. Trust me, they will surprise you with what little details they pick up on.

Example.... I was dating a Virguy last year and it was a shortlived but intense relationship where we spent a lot of time together in a short period of time. One day I was non-chalantly telling him a story about something in my childhood that I enjoyed (it was a certain food prepped a certain way) and one night while I was at his house I heard him messing about in the kitchen.... I yelled at him from the other room to ask what he was doing and whether he needed help and he responded with... No just watch your show Ill be in to join you in a bit. Well to my surprise he came into the room with a plate of that food... prepped just the way I mentioned! I was so touched and couldnt even believe he remembered such a minor detail within a conversation.

Posted by BellaBulleautiful

That's hot.

especially if there may be meat involved at some point.a nice sharing of the meat by the fire in the cave. 😛

Hahahahhah some raw, thick, bloody meat for you, Bella? hahahah

Posted by VirgoHero

Posted by BellaBulleautiful

That's hot.

especially if there may be meat involved at some point.a nice sharing of the meat by the fire in the cave. 😛

Hahahahhah some raw, thick, bloody meat for you, Bella? hahahah

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ROTFLMAO!!! Thats some good material right there!!!!

You can always wear this shirt....

😄

i'm having this dilemma too! i like a really sweet, shy virgo with venus in scorpio but he's sooo shy that i hardly ever get to talk to him, he's so in his shell. it's damn annoying as well because he is pretty as hell and such a sweetheart.

i think the ignoring thing is a good one. when i didn't really pay much attention to him he seemed more interested in talking to me and since i became more interested in talking to him he retreated more!