Virgo Guys and Spontaneity

So, are Virgo Guys always Spontaneous?

I've been talking to a Virguy for a few weeks now. We actually talked months ago at one point but I became involved with someone and stopped talking to him. When my relationship ended, he hit me back up on IM. Being a Leo, if I'm really into someone, I pretty much go in full speed ahead and don't hold back! But, on the flip side, if I'm unsure, I will keep you at arm's length and not give you much to go on. Since I was coming out of a relationship, I felt I needed time to heal and just be happy with myself for a while so I have been a bit stand offish to the Virguy. He has been very sweet but persistent saying that he will wait until I am ready, but would love the chance to just meet me and see if we click. He lives about 4 hours away.

So, back to the topic.... he told me yesterday that he was going out of town for the weekend to visit family since he didnt get any other invites for the holiday weekend. He went as far as to tell me last night that he had arrived at his destination. Then today, I received an IM from him telling me that he was NOT where he said he was, that he was planning on surprising me and showing up in my town tonight but then he decided the more thought he put into it, he might better ask me first. I was a little shocked and didnt know what to say. He said he was just spontaneous like that and thought it would be a fun thing, that he really wants to see me but if this weekend wasnt good, he could come another weekend. Im flattered that he wants to see me but I do have plans tonight so it wasnt a good idea. He wants to come tomorrow and is willing to do whatever it takes just for a chance to see me.

So, just wondering... are most VirGuys spontaneous or should I be concerned!?

I certainly don't mind injecting a little spontaneity into my day, as long as it is for the benefit of someone I am interested in, and as long as it is well thought out, planned extensively, tested on reliable subjects, debugged thoroughly, and perfectly executed.

theres ur answer^ this guy doesnt sound to much like a standard Virguy

Posted by passwordnotfound
I certainly don't mind injecting a little spontaneity into my day, as long as it is for the benefit of someone I am interested in, and as long as it is well thought out, planned extensively, tested on reliable subjects, debugged thoroughly, and perfectly executed.

ROTFLMAO!!! Too funny! Well, he obviously rethought it since he totally ended up telling me about it anyway making sure it was gonna work out! Loved your answer though. Cute!

Posted by Shaks
whats there to think about all this? seriously? dont try to create a problem where there isnt one..

Theres no problem..,. just asking if Virgo Guys were normally spontaneous... thats all.

Posted by Shaks
Virgo guys are normally just virgo guys, white, black, brown , asian, etc, shy, outgoing, reserved, confident, anything really.

Thanks for clearing that up for me! LOL!

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved;... Loved your answer though. Cute!

Thanks, it was completely spontaneous.

Posted by passwordnotfound

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved;... Loved your answer though. Cute!

Thanks, it was completely spontaneous.

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He he he!!! 🙂