Got to admit to VIRGOS/ VIRGO MEN

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OKAY, U GOT ME, VIRGO MEN , I LIKES. I THINK THE AUGUST ONES SUIT ME BETTER THOUGH. BUT THE POINT IS, I LIKES THE ROMANTIC BASTARDS... ALL OF 'EM' THEY ARE MORAL IN RELATIONSHIPS AND HAVE THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS. THEY ARE IN TOUCH WITH THEIR FEMININE SIDE. MY QUESTION IS, VIRGOS ARE VERY SERIOUS ABOUT LOVE...? BUT HOW SERIOUS? I NOTICE THEY DON'T CARRY MUCH BAGGAGE AND DO NOT TEND TO COMMUNICATE OR LINGER ON TO EX'S AFTER IT'S ALL FINISH AND OVER WITH. GOOD !


WHAT'S UP WITH THE V'S
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"I NOTICE THEY DON'T CARRY MUCH BAGGAGE AND DO NOT TEND TO COMMUNICATE OR LINGER ON TO EX'S AFTER IT'S ALL FINISH AND OVER WITH. GOOD !"

So true. Once I break up with a guy, it's usually completely over. I'm not into the whole going out/ breaking up thing. Not really my style . It also depends on how bad the break up was. If it was a terrible ending then I am more likely not to really talk to my ex for a while....
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fieryearth, dang, who is that in your picture? u say that it's your twinceleb? what's that mean? anyway as far as Q, HE'S JUST BITTER, TRIPPING OVER PETTY THINGS. THAT'S WHY IT'S UNSAFE TO SEEK PITY, OR SYMPATHY ON DXP, OR TELL YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS, WHY? BECAUSE MOST PEOPLE ARE ON HERE TO VENT SOME DEEP PAIN... THEY WILL LASH OUT ON YA!

YEP VIRGOS DON'T LINGER ON THE PAST, THEY JUST LET GO.... THAT'S GOOD. HOW DO THEY DO THIS? AND WHY ?
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Hey chi, you already know about ME.....we've had our fights on here, and I'll tell ya somethin' else....I'd 'fight' with you ANY DAY 😉 It's what I like about ya...

I for one take relationships/romance QUITE seriously, but then, I know what it feels like to suffer....You're right though chi; I don't care emo baggage, but I try to remain FRIENDS with exes, that doesn't mean I'm checking them out or ANYTHING, if I have no real regrets that I broke up with you (which is probably why I did it in the first place), than I don't waste my time looking back...I give 100 percent in a relationship, and push it...and Yea, I'm in touch with my feminine side, but I'm not comfortable with 'softer feelings'....I believe if I'm with you than you can weather some of the storms I can whip up....I don't like 'soft' AT ALL!!!! I need to be able to give EVERYTHING and if I can't, then I'll break it off.....
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chi:YEP VIRGOS DON'T LINGER ON THE PAST, THEY JUST LET GO.... THAT'S GOOD. HOW DO THEY DO THIS? AND WHY ?

easy....self esteem....we have love for ourselves, and NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS we never lose that for ourselves, and as a result, won't take anyone's crap if they disrespect us then they can the bricks: we know without a sound mind we can move ahead in life, and we'll just stay stuck in a funk....we just don't tolerate anyone who thinks that they're good enough to try to destroy us....

We do it Chi, because we have the mind to know what really matters in life, and it's NOT fighting with YOU.....it's living our lives to the fullest....and while we're doing that, who is it we have time for that BS?....
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hey flygyrl,

That's Adrianna Lima, she's a model... we kind of favor each other that's why I said she's my celeb twin 😛. We both have dark hair, green eyes, tanned complexions...

Now back to the question,

"Usually" if I'm with someone and for some reason it just doesn't work out and we end things, at first I'm always bummed. But soon after I'm just as optimistic and believe everything happens for a reason. ((Most of my break-ups have been really intense)) So naturally I just feel some animosity and whatever feelings I had usually fad away.

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I DON'T THINK BEING FRIENDS WITH ANY EX IS GOOD. IT'S CALLED MOVING ON, FOR A REASON... UNLESS OF COURSE YOU WERE MEANT TO BE FRIENDS IN THE FIRST PLACE. I DON'T PLAY THAT, A BOYFRIEND IS A BOYFRIEND AND A FRIEND IS A FRIEND. THE TWO DON'T MIX WELL. JUST MOVE FORWARD AND BEYOND. WHEN A SCORP SAYS IT'S OVER , SHE OR HE WILL DIVORCE A MARRIAGE OF TWENTY YEARS. YEP, REGENERATION AND REBIRTH IS WHAT WE STAND BY.

THAT'S WHY I USED THE ANALOGY WITH VIRGO, WHY? BECAUSE THEY UNDERSTAND LETTING GO FONDLY. I HAVE NEVER MET ONE THAT LINGERS ON THE PAST. THEY ARE USUALLY IN THE PRESENT MOMENT AND IF THEY ARE HANGING ON , IT'S MOST LIKELY BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT DONE YET. LOL
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VIRGOEXALTED AS FOR YOU ,I DON'T FIGHT WITH KIDS, I KNOW WHO I AM AND I KNOW WHAT I STAND BY, I HAVE NOTHING TO PROVE ABOUT ME NOR MY SIGN, IT IS WHAT IT IS, BUT HMMMM, I LIKE YOUR COMMENTS, BUT I HOPE YOU WEREN'T DEDICATING THE COMMENT ABOUT , "THEY UNDERSTAND WHAT MATTERS IN LIFE AND THAT ISN'T FIGHTING WITH YOU" TO ME. BECAUSE THAT'S NOT WHAT I'M DOING. I'M LOVING THIS. PLUS, BOO, OOOH , I'M SO WORTH THE FIGHT, I DO MATTER.

ANYWAY BACK TO YOUR OTHER COMMENTS, GOOD! LOVING AND RESPECTING YOUR SELF , ROMANTICALLY IS WHAT GIVES YOU THE COURAGE TO SAY, BUMP YOU, AND WALK THE HELL OUT ON SOMEONE NOT TREATING YOU RIGHT... I DON'T LINGER ON THE PAST, NOR DO ANY SCORPS I KNOW. WE UNDERSTAND TRUTH AND WHEN WE'RE DONE WE ARE DONE.

I CAN LET GO, BUT THEY USUALLY CAN'T STAND TO LET GO OF ME! LOL
IN FACT, THEY ACT LIKE THEY DIE WITHOUT MY APPROVAL... "TRICK LOVE THE KIDS"

ANYWAY, I LIKE THAT TRAIT ABOUT V'S, THAT'S GOOD, YOU DON'T EVER BRING SHIT FROM YOUR PAST SITUATION INTO AN NEW ONE, ESPESCAILLY WHEN THE NEW PERSON IS THE BEST THING THAT COULD EVER HAPPEN TO YA!!

LOL
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I THINK THAT WITH VIRGO'S THEY'RE JUST NO-NON SENSE, IMPATIENT AND THEY FEEL THEY CAN DO EVERYTHING BETTER. THEY ARE CRITICAL ABOUT EVERYTHING, I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED AND NOT THAT I HAVE THE EXPERIENCE, IF A VIRGO WAS DICTATING THINGS IN THE BEDROOM AND OR , CRITIQUING, AND OR CALCULATING THEIR EVERY MOVE. WAIT A MINUTE , WHAT THE HELL AM I SAYING!!!!!!!!! VIRGOS ARE FREAKS, THEY'RE TRUE COVERS ARE BLOWN IN THE SEX ARENA, THIS IS WHAT THEY HIDE FROM PEOPLE , AND THAT IS WHY THEY ARE KNOWN FOR BEING THE HOES OF THE ZODIAC... LOL

ANYWAY, BACK TO THE SUBJECT!!! I THINK VIRGOS JUST KNOW HOW THEY WANT TO BE TREATED AND THEY CAN'T STAND DISRESPECT. THEY HAVE MUCH TOO BIG NARCASSISTIC EGO'S TO TOLERATE SOMETHING THEY DISLIKE. THAT IS WHY I THINK THEY CAN WALK AWAY FROM A SITUATION THAT DOESN'T SUIT THEM.

ANYWAY , THEY DON'T HOLD ONTO BAGGAGE AND THAT IS WHAT I LIKES..

" I LIKES THAT, I LIKES THAT, TWIRK THAT BACK"
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— Whoa, um, I think you jumped the gun here, I'm not arguing with you at all....afterall, arguing with a scorp is about as logical as sticking your head in a tank of water and screaming 'till you pass out lol

It had nothing to do with YOU at all chi.....where's your objectivity—
I was talking about the 'you' as far as anyone opposite the Virgo in this situation: meaning the virgo in the situation would respond that way towards any person in general....do you follow?

I think it best we leave it at that then....Well either way, it seems you've come to a conclusion about Virgs....at the very least YOU'RE happy....

In the end chi, it's about what YOU think we are, I mean, it's your perception that bases us as 'tolerable' to you or 'intolerable'....only you know what you want, and if it's a Virg, great, if not, that's cool too.
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OOH,I UNDERSTAND VIRGOS FEMININITY VERY WELL... GLAD TO HAVE INFLUENCE YOUR FUTURE POST..

ANYWAY, I'M NOT JUMPING ANY GUN AND UHHH, I WAS JUST MAKING SURE... USING THE WORD "YOU" ISN'T THE APPROPRIATE USAGE WHILE WRITING. "OBJECTIVITY" , LOL HA HA ... I AM THE EPITOME OF THAT. AS FAR AS SAYING THAT ARGUING WITH A SCORP IS LIKE STICKING YOUR HEAD IN A TANK OF WATER, IS FUNNY, FUNNY BECAUSE WE ARE SO SMART, SO DEEP AND SO SPIRTUALLY INTUNED, IT IS ILLOGICAL BECAUSE MOST OF THE TIME, WE SEE THINGS AS THEY ARE AND NOT HOW WE THINK SHOULD BE, LIKE "VIRGOS" DO. WE AREN'T CRITICAL , JUST REAL. YOU'RE RIGHT IT IS PURPOSELESS, BECAUSE YOU WILL LOOSE AND MOST OF THE TIME WE KNOW WHAT WE KNOW AND THERES NO CHANGING OUR MINDS... OF COURSE I SEE THINGS FROM SO MANY PERSPECTIVES...

NOW, THAT DOESN'T APPLY TO YOUR SCORPIO DAD, WHOM YOU HAD THE HORRIBLE RELATIONSHIP WITH, NOR MY KNOW IT ALL, BULL HEADED VIRGO DAD. I'M SPEAKING IN GENERAL.

I JUST HAD TO MAKE SURE, I GUESSS I DON'T REALLY TRUST YOU... SORRY-

BY THE WAY , I AM HAPPY! AND THE POINT OF THIS POSTS IS, VIRGOS LETTING GO AND KNOWING HOW TO RELEASE THEIR BAGGAGE, WHICH IS SOMETHING I OOH SO LIKE AND APPRECIATE...

PEACE