Head or Heart...

In matters of love...

If you have a person you really love but are currently going through serious issues to which it is in the realm of possibility that you break up...

Your head is telling you one thing...
Your heart is telling you another...

Which one are you more likely to listen to? Feel free to give examples.

I asked this on Virgo board because they "think" the most and on Pisces board because they "feel" the most.

Cancerlady

Damn you Clady...

You know that we think with (our brains)... and not heart—..

"Intuitions and instincts are private stuff" ha?. We'll never share that stuff?!!

But if you are in deep (s**t) I could help you out?

Now I am telling you something beneficial for every one?!! LOL

Stick with the "life style " that'll BNEFITS you--—.. the rest it is illusion and total BS? trust me on that lady (what ever)

Live your life as you wanted and imagined? and don?t forget your dreams?!!

Only dreams.. comes to REALTIY..!! "have it from me"

I guess Qbone is making fun of people again.

America! The country of dreams! That's what you are trying to imply.

Haffo.. you are fish right..??

"Haffo.. you are fish right..??"

No. I'm not fish. I'm human being. But you, are idiot. Because you are 45 years old and still dont know that fishes cant type.

Branh0913. I dont have problem with you and I dont think I will. I know Qbone enought to speak with him like that. My conversation with him has a point and based on his previous behaviours. And forget about that Virgo stuff.

Sad stuff... you will never understand what I am talking about BOY... And I don't have time to explain it to idiots?!!... when you get mature enough.. you will know what I'd meant 30 years ago? so?. Ease up and shut up? BOY.. And don?t interfere with your stupid agendas,,,, especially when it comes to VIRGOS?

You are.. FISH?LOL.. stay fish and act like fish? damn clown?

I dont need to understand what you are talking about. It doesn't worth of my time. Qbone, this is not me who is nolifer. Look at board of this forum. 75% of all posts are yours. Why should I take you seriously when you are 45 years old and waste your last time with this stuff. I can say only one thing about that; you are no lifer! And since you have admitted that this is not the only forum that you are pesting in, I can guess that you do same everywhere, which mean nolifer x number of forums. LMAO!

Qbone, you are nolifer. Dont resist.

Now moderator can delete this all. I'm done with that nolifer.

Untill the next time. Continue to entertain me.

Acknowledgements B... I've been right where you are (more or less).. stay put man.. and don?t loose your integrities—LIFE IS FULL OF SURPRISES FOR THOSE WHO LOOKING FOR THE BRIGHTER FUTURE.!!

Yea and your integrity is fallen. Which means that you didn't have it even in my ages.

Thanks but not thanks. I dont get advise from person who look over the people and lacks simply understanding as "dignity".

Stupid fish.. is stupid fish? you now that I always ignored you and it'll continue be like this for ever..? that?s enough for the explanations?.. stupid is stupid?.. now? go on and flaming.

If I respond, means to prove "how stupid you are" to the others.. Not you? LMAO

Brahn0913

I must say first that your initial post was enlightening and thought provoking...I wish that you could be this non-judgemental all the time because you really do have good advice sometimes!

Second...

QBone...yes I am in DEEP doo-doo! The posts explaining my situation are all over the Cancer & Pisces board, but if you want more detail I can give you the specific places with the most info.

I was beginning to wonder where you were! Becoming a bit more incognito on these boards eh mate?

Cancerlady

LOL

Q & Haffo...You two are like OIL and WATER! You just don't mix!

LOL...he is SH** and i am nothing...

AND FOR YOU C-Lady

Talk to me if t you think that I am worthy to listen to private information?

C-lady... if you think that i can be help to your private problem.... dont hesitate...

Cancerlady: I have to agree with Qbone. What the hell are you thinking posting this in a Virgo board. Jesus! This is just too "touchy" and "heartbreaking" for a Virgo....

Anyway, Qbone said it all. There is no reason in posting something similar.

Also, I am surprised with Branh0913 attitude. Right now, he sounds so mature and right! What happened?

Honestly I did both so many times. I choose with my "head", disregarding my "heart" and vice-versa. Every single time, it ended up being the "wrong" choice. Or not? Who the hell knows.... I certainly do not!

excess

you are great man...:! stay out of those "stupids"... what was that "shemale" screan name.??

Excess:

Virgo's nature is not like Qbone. Don't take me with Qbone as an example. Take me and Branh0913 as an example. We never fight with each other. All I try to tell you is that Virgo is not my object of displeasure. But Qbone is. Because he's an ass.

Several month ago when I came here the first time, Qbone and me wasn't that bad to each other. But he was criticising over me and trying to boss over me with his comments. Sorry, but I'm not here to listen someones crap who has tendency to see himself like a God over the people. I don't buy that.

You can say ass?

WOW...

I never knew you could say ass!

When you say about Qbone, then yes you could.

you know.. I never tried saying any of the other swear words on here.

Sometimes a little anger is healthy STD.

not for me .. when I get angry- somebody gets their face broken. I have no need for swears.

I kid.. I kid.. I joke..

Yeah RIGHT! STD



It's about to be a WHAT! GIRLFIGHT!

In defense of Qbone,

So this is on the Virgo board...so what? There are times when some clear, concise understanding is needed without the emotional confusion behind it. Since I tend to think with my heart rather than my head, there were (and are) times when his advice was (and is) badly needed.

Qbone, you have my respect and affection.

Haffo, grow up, or grow down, but grow somewhere.

Ladydane.

Qbone's actions towards people of this forum (including me) is sometimes unacceptable even if he has great deal of information. People can't bash other people just because you act on the information unknown to them. This kind of behaviour is the sign of lack in dignity and most of the time uncivilised. Personally I dont have problems with Qbone experience or knowledge, but his actions are provideing enough information for me to act with him on that level.

Whereither he is right or not, he should exercise some tolerance on people without smearing butter on their face. This is when people turn their hard guns on him and no matter he says true or not.

I would got along with Qbone well if he acted properly. I gave him chance and sent him email with question "Whats wrong with you, tell me". He didn't replied which made me right to act on the information that I've already extracted from his behaviours.

His actions toward people on this board (especially Parallax) were very offencive. I dont care what the reason was, because he did same towards me when there was no reason to do so. I have tolerated his actions several times as a sign of good intentions but this is not my nature to tolerate ALWAYS. In the end, unless Qbone will act like an asshole and look over people and throw every kind of bullshit at them, I will be there and do same to him.

Sorry if that isn't the conclusion you wanted to see.

Hi cancerlady.

I listen to my head more, because I believe in my head. It provides me with logics and reasons to make the decisions that I needed to. But there are times when I felt trapped and very confused because my heart wanted to do the things that my head would not so badly and when I could not hold it any longer, I went with my heart. I believe, there are certain things in life that you should just go with your gut instincts, without your head butting in, especially in the love aspects. The head just does not fit in here very well. 🙂

hi CL,

it's important to balance both, i think.

head's no good without heart (imagine that sexually 😉 )

but heart tends to be really dangerous without head = brilliant motivation, bad output!

balance!

it's really, really difficult, i know!

sometimes impossible for me and i have to go with my heart, though the head suggests another direction..........

This irritating BOY... is a jealous BOY..

He is right about PM, he PM'ed for sometimes ago and I didn?t answer..! mainly because of bad language he use at it, then? I thought he is not worthy of any kind of answer (bad or good) and I am not interested to call back a person that I truly believe his thoughts are full of IDIOCY?! And I don?t have time to waste on imbecile KIDS..!!

If I called you a FISH? your answer was funniest of all time?proving that I am (even more right about you)? your brain's function is like a fish and the way you see things?. Not the way you type..!! lol?

Take a look at his post and the way he see things and you'll get what I mean..! like C-lady asked a question and everyone put their insights to help her out, but this BOY?.!.... start directly (as usual) attacking me? LMAO now, please someone tell me, what is wrong with this picture..??... a show off..?? and out of nowhere suddenly pops up the political idea..!! a freak's action to turn and hijack the post?. To inject his idiot ideas and turn the post to something that originally meant for something personal..!

If I am not good with what I said? Then how come everyone agree with me ..?? and only this IDIOT is not getting anything..??

Haffo? LADYDANE is right? grow somewhere?!!

75% of posts are mine..? Yeah? it will be more too? at least I've posting some things that are useful for someone (if not everyone)?! How about you BOY..??

Things between me and particular members is strictly between the post and ideas.. me and parallax was/is gentlemen and mature enough to keep our indifferences about some point (strictly to the post), but you..!!! ha?. You are all over the place with your (stupidity), without making a single sense for what you are talking about..!

you've named Brahn as an example? Yeah perhaps he has a time to wasting on you?. Sorry mate.. I don?t have that luxury, so you'll be ignored and I will gladly do it

STOP ACTING LIKE AN ATTENTION HORE and try being useful for something, or shutting the hell up..!! in this way you may learn something..!!

Again, you are not a "watch dog" on this board, or are you ..?? be responsible for your "own" actions, if someone get hurt feeling for what I say? that someone can and will defend him/herself? there is no need for you and your stupidities to jump in and make an ass of yourself..!!

Ladydane is right?. GROW UP..!! This board (any board) need ideas in active/dynamic milieu? people like you make thing stall and halt to death..!

Thank you LadyDane for your understanding and support..!!

No. That doesn't convinced me that you are right.

"He is right about PM, he PM'ed for sometimes ago and I didn?t answer..! mainly because of bad language he use at it, then? I thought he is not worthy of any kind of answer (bad or good) and I am not interested to call back a person that I truly believe his thoughts are full of IDIOCY?! And I don?t have time to waste on imbecile KIDS..!!"

Here is message itself:

Why do you Bullshit at me in every topic? You seems to always tip your noise to places where it not belongs. Why?

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You didn't like the way my question come to you? If so, then this is contradiction to your own actions. Wasn't you the one who always said, "It's not important how message is coming. It's important what it means". What the problem? I asked this question is range, isn't that obvious?

"If I called you a FISH? your answer was funniest of all time?proving that I am (even more right about you)? your brain's function is like a fish and the way you see things?. Not the way you type..!! lol?"

Maybe. But you like to bash people like that to fulfill your own desires don't ya? You could just say, "What you do is wrong" and the problem could be stopped. But you have choosen to bash and I reflected it. Also if you are not going to say anything, then stay quiet and don't make fun of people.

"Take a look at his post and the way he see things and you'll get what I mean..! like C-lady asked a question and everyone put their insights to help her out, but this BOY?.!.... start directly (as usual) attacking me? LMAO now, please someone tell me, what is wrong with this picture..??... a show off..?? and out of nowhere suddenly pops up the political idea..!! a freak's action to turn and hijack the post?. To inject his idiot ideas and turn the post to something that originally meant for something personal..!"

That post had very little logical basis. I'm aware of that part. But that was the likely way of asking the question. So there is nothing wrong with it. But yea, normally I wouldn't do it if my intentions weren't to make fun of you.

"If I am not good with what I said? Then how come everyone agree with me ..?? and only this IDIOT is not getting anything..??"

I don't. Enough for me. Altought, not everyone agree with you. Think about Parallax, VirgoSquared, me, P-Angel. Even 19Eleven disagree with you once when you bashed P-Angel for no reason. But I guess that doesn't counts for ya.

"75% of posts are mine..? Yeah? it will be more too? at least I've posting some things that are useful for someone (if not everyone)?! How about you BOY..??"

I haven't gave my full attention to that yet. Neither you or I cannot know what will happen in few weeks.

"Things between me and particular members is strictly between the post and ideas.. me and parallax was/is gentlemen and mature enough to keep our indifferences about some point (strictly to the post), but you..!!! ha?. You are all over the place with your (stupidity), without making a single sense for what you are talking about..!"

No it wasn't. The difference between other people and me is I speak up my disagreement while others choise to withdraw.

"you've named Brahn as an example? Yeah perhaps he has a time to wasting on you?. Sorry mate.. I don?t have that luxury, so you'll be ignored and I will gladly do it"

Maybe. Let the Branh0913 speak for himself. Why do you defend him when you say that I'm "Watchdog"? You are doing the same for him and say bad about me. Not working here dude not.

"STOP ACTING LIKE AN ATTENTION HORE and try being useful for something, or shutting the hell up..!! in this way you may learn something..!!"

I don't need your assistance to learn something. You wasn't the one who told me to come here on this forum. You wasn't the one who told me to act as really I am. And finally it wasn't you who told me to how gain knowledge. So dont blatan yourself o

Thanks for the advice everyone! I came to a conclusion in this situation that allowed me to use both my head & my heart. See the same topic posted on Pisces board...

I posted this in the two places that I did for a reason...To get BOTH sides of the coin. Logic AND Emotion. Now, you boys play nice or I'll have to spank ya!

Lizard Scorp...that was a NICE vision...He He He

Cancerlady

Be courage C-Lady... we all are in "triple D" one-way or another, and every damn seconds in our entire life time...!

"Heart thinker or Brain thinker"? it doesn?t matter really?

What is matter is to keep integrity/sanity and don?t lose it..!

Wish you best LUCK..!!

You are among the luckiest one....

See this pathetic brawler haffo with his loud and stupid heehaw?? He haven?t seen the first D and already drowned in second D?. GODS help him with the third D?!

Stay put lady?!

See this pathetic brawler haffo with his loud and stupid heehaw?? He haven?t seen the first D and already drowned in second D?. GODS help him with the third D?!


LMFAO...Classic, Classic...

Thanks Q for the advice and the laugh!

Anytime lady.... what is important is "what you've got inside you"... many will envy you..!

Keep it safe and alive?.!
🙂

Qbone,
How's life? You know something? I am a native Piscean of the Twin Fishes, but honestly, I agree with you. (Sorry Haffo.) I mean, there is absolutely no need for all those emotionally angry and messy posts. I mean, let's keep it civilized. We're just on this post to find answers or find support by using the perspective of others to help create an new outlook on problems and issues that we face. Please, just take it easy and it'll all flow breezy.

Cancerlady, keep your spirits up. Without the spirit, the head and/or the heart are dead. I got pregnant in September of 1990 after a two month fling, got married, stayed married for 12 1/2 years, was cheated on, got out, and am now with a man I may marry when the time is right.

This child WILL change your life; you have no idea how much. You may very well find the man of your dreams because of it.

Haffo...the right to free speech is simply that. No one has a right to an audience. If you demand to be listened to without rebuttal (and you do start these things) you are looking for something that doesn't exist here. Most of us realize this. If I read something demeaning to me, I have the choice of responding or ignoring, bearing in mind the consequences of either.

Qbone, is it cold where you are? It sure is hot in Arkansas.

Ladydane.

Dont mix the right for free speech with insulting speech. People has the right to speak whatever they want. But they don't have right to insult others.