Head or Heart... (Page 2)

You can criticise someone for his bad actions, but you cannot make fun and insult when the topic is irrelevant for that.

This kind of behaviour is uncivilised and lacks dignity.

The right to insult others is an unspoken one, but there nonetheless. It's a judgement call. Let your conscience be your guide.

I have the right to say anything I want to you, but my moral foundation governs my words and actions. I do not expect to be forgiven, accepted or understood, but I do have the free will to speak my mind. What you do with it is entirely up to you. Not to mention that the right NOT to speak is just as important.

This is BS IMHO. Here in Turkey you can say anything you want UNLESS it's insulting someone on personal level.

And as far as I see from your reply, you mean that person can insult anyone even on personal level and that person has no legal right to defend himself. This is kinda BS.

Of course you have the right to defend yourself. Most children act this way...

"You called me an idiot!"
"No I didn't!"
"Yes you did, and I'm gonna get you back!"
"I just said you weren't a smart person."
"Well that's the same thing! So there!"

And on and on and on.

More mature individuals would discuss the original intent, read between the lines, step in the other person's shoes, etc. Most personal insults are only defended against if believed.

If you believe that what has been said about you on this board is true, you have the right to defend yourself, of course. Or you can stoop to the level of the insulter.

Ladydane:

Insulting person for no reason is also some sort of immaturity in my eyes. You see, when you insult a person and then receive back all the flame you've deserved is nothing unreasonale. Also, in the end of flame if you are claiming that "I will ignore all your posts because this and/or that" doesn't really hurt or work on someone with positive effects except isolating yourself.

Also, I do read his posts and find them as useless as his insulting behaviours.

Yes, maybe laws of your country give you the right to speak in any form/way you wish with a particular person in front of you. My country doesn't, but I still respect that fact of yours and move on silently.

Also, as you have mentioned earlier, it is our moral standarts that allow you speak with a person on a particular "standart" level of speech which means no insulting/trespassing on personal level etc. My personal "standart" level is using objective words without curses or insults to person in front of me. That is my normal level. But I can change it according to the agressor. I don't like to change it either, but I don't want to stand silent when I can do something and I take my revenge.

But, if we start to insult here with non stop curses, then what kind of place this board will become? I can't see any other way of making any civilised comments, advises when certain "standart" level of behaviour isn't acheived. And if we want to use this place as a discussion board, then being in forum with full of agression and insult isn't the way of acheiving that goal. If the person doesn't want to obide to certain rules of speech then I call this behaviour uncivilsed and lack of dignity. Such people don't have any positive value for me because they are already immature in their ways. How can they show you when they don't have their own?

Ladydane:

Save your breath lady...Pouring your energy into a bottomless pit is a useless EXERCISE.!!

Word of wisdom for who ever encounter this kind of crap?!!

"Why waste more time on a leopard that is not going to change its? spots."

It is very simple to calculate..! The BOY's lacks of "self respect" pull him more into his misery, its not my job or anyone with "any kind" of senses to make him understand? "he does not even read the post correctly".. let alone understand it.

He use this board for his "stupid English" course as a trainer?!!

Save your breath and ignore the retard??!... NOT WORTH IT AT ALL? "I chose to ignore the retard?. Even he insults me at extreme?!".

Piss off you stupid dumbfuck!

People here are discussing and not like you "judging before all done". If you don't like the way it works, then go away and dont come back. You had that chance and didn't used it.

And if I tried to use my English training on this post, then you could realise that what I have written is not really what I do when I write with full correction.

Yup?? do I need more proof..??

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Go on retarded fishboy?!... no more answer to your stupidity?it is the last time?.LOL..

Go back to your silent mode. Nobody cares what you say anyway.

What proof? You come and drop offencive post and want to see it as proof? What a MINDGAME!!!

Ladydane:

I don't think we had anything "useless" in conversation. What QBone tries to do is definetly to sabotage the normal conversation. I know that Qbone hates me, and he uses everything in his hand to sabotage the normal conversation. I know he fears. Fears alot of things. He fears that I will understand and show people how he dealing with people. Once he said "Oh they learn and return the favour". This sentense is definetly the way he shows his fear.

Qbone natural personality is to simply hate people who understands and knows what kind of player he is. If you want to go with his way, I can't stop you.

Think abot Parralax and P-Angel. They both are victims of his attacks. They don't even come to this board anymore.

Even VirgoSquared many times made him shut-up on every step (and he is not here anymore). If my knowledge in your eyes are improper, then why this person always made him shut-up with words "Shut up tactless moron".

AS EXPLAINED ABOVE.... no more further "explanations needed"...!
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You know QBone, it's no wonder why you are 45 and single. No women could stand you.

Of course NO women can stand me YOU IDIOT FISH? !what do I need women for— ONLY LADIES

and no GAYS...cough.. cough..... you know..!

now.. you try your stuff on someone else..!!... you know..!!

Yea exactly ladies. They already know "who" you are and don't let themselves in.

You can't expect ladie to go for you if women wont.

descDescriptions is "FEMALES AND LADIES"? ONLY..!! I am not expecting that you "even" understanding it?"it is for others"?.

Get a life ?!!

Since you haven't get any of your "description" I got my answer.

LOL! Perhaps you will get one on your funereal!

Get a life? You talking to me? It's you who is 45 and still single. You call that "a life"? LOL! I wouldn't take that "life" of yours.

Neither you could be an example to anyone. Your wit doesn't buy you a women don't ya?

Oh wait, I know WHY! If your pic in your avatar is your real one, LOL, not just a female or a lady nor male could close to you! LMAO!

DAMN IT! That must be genetical!!!

Hey I didn't mentioned gay's. I wonder why you did mentioned it. Past experience?

Picture in my "profile" is to show "others" how stupid you/logic and life is? pathetic and useless? (fish face and fish like)?!

MY MISSION IS DONE.. your last post had provided enough proof for what I meant in the first place?! You know what..?? for almost 30 sec I thought "I might be wrong about you"?.

But thanks for your "eternal stupidity" my doubts about you are removed.. for good
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Your actions and post were needed to prove my points.. and?. Say what..??

CONGRATULATION FOR YOUR PROMOTIONS FROM A STUPID TO AN IDIOT..!!

EAGEARLY WAITING FOR YOUR PhD ON THAT..!

My congratulations?.. honestly?!

Will that make you leave this topic alone?

Qbone, I beg you. Please, fuck off!

Okie. Since we've finished with that argue here, Ladydane, I'm looking forward for your answer.

I have none, except that you're both right and you're both wrong.

Like in the movie Dragonheart, Drago says "We can pursue this fracas to its final stupidity, or, you can listen to my alternative."

My alternative is this; find in these message boards a time when you both agreed on something; or I fear no attitudes will change here.

Thank you Ladydane. That was exactly what I was talking about.

Back when my mother and step-father were dating, the first few times there were some very heated arguments. At one time my mother said "Well you're just another GD man"; and my step-father said "Well you're just another GD woman". They laughed about this afterwards; after the silence; course they were facing each other at the time.

You are talking about "seeing another side of the medallion". I know it Ladydane. From time to time I give signals to people to make them see the other part of the medallion. Therefore, I don't think that I see the world with my single eye. But people aren't going that way. Sometimes I don't too. For Qbone there is no much chance since I know his personality and I don't have any reason to forgive him. He doesn't worth that....yet.

Hey Haffo. Just based somethign about what aperson says in balck and white ont he message board..hwo can you say that the person may not be having a partner in life..and has no love life? I am paraphrasing about your conclusion about Q's love life. I wont advertise for Q..btu let me jsut say this Q has been the first male on this dxpnet to create such a deep impression in me. The impression still lasts inspite of all his so called harshness on the board. The person is a real sweetheart. Ofcourse he deosnt mind calling a spade a spade. But you yourself are nto above gettign into mindless arguements. There is a saying "Do unto others you what you want others to do unto you". (Paraphrasing again).

excuse the typos😢

Maybe it's just best if I excuse everyone who has a habit of saying things the way they want to say them.