hello again, virgo ex has come back :S

Hi,
i posted here a while ago but here's a quick recap.

virgo boy and i have knows each other for 8-9 years now. we met in college, first classmates, then friends, then something more.
spoke almost everyday even after he moved half way across the world.
excellent conversations. i earned the title of best friend/closest person.

last year we fell into a weird pattern:
he brings up trip plans, we discuss, then he disappears. i get angry, he shuts down, things remain unresolved but i let it go.
the topic of our wedding came up. we discussed it, things seemed to move forward. then he disappears. i get angry, he shuts down, things remain unresolved but i let it go.

this happened over the course of 7 months till i finally ended things. he has a big project at work and lets me go easily. (there's always a big project at work)
no contact for two months.

now, he wants me back, he says he misses me, we have a history and his life is less without me.
am i crazy to consider going back?


i'm a scorpio sun cancer moon libra venus.
he's a virgo sun aqua moon cancer venus.

i met a wonderful leo guy (friend) who showed me how nice it is to have your feelings acknowledged and respected which was something that the virgo never did. i'm wondering if he'll ever understand.

Does he know exactly why you ended it
And do you believe anything will change?

He does. He said tat he knows he made big promises in the past and that he hurt me. He says he has become more responsible now.
But, this doesn't address some deeper issues, like our communication problems. And i still see it, the more i try to express how i'm feeling, the more he shuts down.

This pill is gonna be hard to swollow

1-virgos are workaholics
2-virgos are secretive and liers
3-virgos see ppl we like as a challenge
4-virgos only disappear when we dnt care
5-virgos usually have a girlfriends rarely single
6-virgos dnt trust long distance relationships
7-virgos cant let ppl we use to like or love go

Data gathered from 5 virgo guys im friends with and myself

Let him go tell him to not stress you, remain on friend tip
go out with the Leo guy start a new chapter, you loose direction
walking fowrd looking backwards.

I dnt care what zodiac or stars in the constellation gathered together
on a certain time and date of birth it dose not excuse somebody disappearing
for months leavin you on edge putting your life on pause or coming
in and out. Sound like 4play lol get it cuming in and out..meaning your
get brain emotionally fucked. Sorry but atleast this pill dosnt come
with side effects you see on a prim time commercial.

Posted by ninaP
Hi,
i posted here a while ago but here's a quick recap.

virgo boy and i have knows each other for 8-9 years now. we met in college, first classmates, then friends, then something more.
spoke almost everyday even after he moved half way across the world.
excellent conversations. i earned the title of best friend/closest person.

last year we fell into a weird pattern:
he brings up trip plans, we discuss, then he disappears. i get angry, he shuts down, things remain unresolved but i let it go.
the topic of our wedding came up. we discussed it, things seemed to move forward. then he disappears. i get angry, he shuts down, things remain unresolved but i let it go.

this happened over the course of 7 months till i finally ended things. he has a big project at work and lets me go easily. (there's always a big project at work)
no contact for two months.

now, he wants me back, he says he misses me, we have a history and his life is less without me.
am i crazy to consider going back?


i'm a scorpio sun cancer moon libra venus.
he's a virgo sun aqua moon cancer venus.

i met a wonderful leo guy (friend) who showed me how nice it is to have your feelings acknowledged and respected which was something that the virgo never did. i'm wondering if he'll ever understand.

Regardless of the sign, you have to determine if this behavior is something you're willing to deal with long term. Things don't magically get better after relationships/marriage unless that person is working to change their bad behavior. If he won't even acknowledge the issue, how likely is he to work on changing it in the future?

Sometimes as much as we like or love someone, it doesn't mean they are good for us or to us.

@virgo1 and @thisismylife2015 you're both right, it's hard for me to let go, maybe that's why i'm hoping that by some miracle that things will get better.

but yes, i see that this was really bad behavior, you don't hurt people you love like this. If it were happening to a friends i'd ask her to run unless he really worked hard to *show* that he has changed. That is certainly not happening. It's hard but i have to let go.

Thanks 🙂

Woah! I wish my virgo comes back to his senses like this. But not so late.

My advice ! Go to the leo man! You ll thank me for this advice at some point in life! Virgo is not going to give what you demand even if this time it works out ! But leo guy will keep you like a princess! Word!

haha, thank you for the advice. Leos are amazing, it's true, but i'm a scorpio 😢
I'm a little scared of the leo guy, he's so sensitive but so adorable, I think if we got into a real relationship, we'll go mental trying to um, possess each other 😛
But that's a totally different thread.

Virgo guy however is consistent (with his moods) and stable. We connect intellectually and there's just so much history but yeah, that doesn't excuse the way he's been treating me.

Ugh, boy problems 😢

Well being sensitive is good, you can be so worried about offending people that you fail to assert yourself when being taken advantage of. I am not sure in what context you are using the word so i cant say more but being married to a virgo man i can tell its not easy! I m a leo myself and i know why i chose virgo over a leo guy i thought he was more stable but it turned out opposite! Virgo people need space, a lot of pampering and time alone to analyze things, If you can bear with his constant mood swings and his self absorbed self centered attitude then give it a go! Atleast givin in is much better than giving up!
Btw leo & scorpios make awesome friends which is very important in a relationship, I have seen leo/scorpio couples always high on each other. Dont risk your life ! Be wise!

keep them both for a while and see yourself how it goes! sooner or later you ll know who is your mister right 😉