Hello!!! Any virgo's out there. I really need some help. I put up a message about a coworker(the virgo. Today is not a really good day. I do every thing I can to avoid this man, so to not cause any problems. But, it does not work. hE WILL FIND ME. And I am so attracted to him that it drives me nuts playing this little game. I feel like I am in the 10th grade all over again.
HELP!!! Any virgo willing

Calm down lady...!! whats wrong..??

man.....seems......LOVE thing again...
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No the problem is that I do like him back but, he's married. I don't care about how unhappy he is i do not mess with married men. Now I told him that all we can be are friends, but he knows i want more. What is he doing—??
Ah...you my Lady have just become a "challenge" to Mr. Married Man.
I must commend you with high regards for not "messing" with a married man...that will only lead you down the path of a dead - end and you are much too deserving of that...NO settling for you Missy - keep your head held high and dignity in tact and you will be fine.
I think you know he wants SEX and he "thinks" he may have a chance with you...apparently he isn't getting any at home and is looking elsewhere. Gotta be firm with those breed of men...you will need to tell him that you changed your mind and you don't want more - game over.
Find yourself an available man who can give you what you deserve. I have seen way toooo many of my friends travel down this path and all they walk away with is "hurt"...if you want hurt run outside and fall on a rock, tumble over and skin your knee...then run inside and doctor yourself up with a spongebob band-aid...the hurt will then turn into laughter and you still will be fine.
Best wishes and keep us posted
I must commend you with high regards for not "messing" with a married man...that will only lead you down the path of a dead - end and you are much too deserving of that...NO settling for you Missy - keep your head held high and dignity in tact and you will be fine.
I think you know he wants SEX and he "thinks" he may have a chance with you...apparently he isn't getting any at home and is looking elsewhere. Gotta be firm with those breed of men...you will need to tell him that you changed your mind and you don't want more - game over.
Find yourself an available man who can give you what you deserve. I have seen way toooo many of my friends travel down this path and all they walk away with is "hurt"...if you want hurt run outside and fall on a rock, tumble over and skin your knee...then run inside and doctor yourself up with a spongebob band-aid...the hurt will then turn into laughter and you still will be fine.
Best wishes and keep us posted

Hi lovestruck...
As one of the GREAT mind and heart in this board "Freebird" says!
Plus?.
Messing with the married people are resulting unhappiness and disaster, "as he will dump his wife for you and dump you for the next one".
Most probably he wants to use you and your feelings as a "slingshot" to escape from his life's current situation "I don?t know that you've ever felt that you've been USED"?its terrible feeling...
For your own good, do not encourage him to do this please..!
Put your mind and heart to something that you can be proud of later, this is nothing to be proud of, unless you want to challenge the FEAR of "someday, somehow, someone might steal him from you"
You've been warned
Cheers
As one of the GREAT mind and heart in this board "Freebird" says!
Plus?.
Messing with the married people are resulting unhappiness and disaster, "as he will dump his wife for you and dump you for the next one".
Most probably he wants to use you and your feelings as a "slingshot" to escape from his life's current situation "I don?t know that you've ever felt that you've been USED"?its terrible feeling...
For your own good, do not encourage him to do this please..!
Put your mind and heart to something that you can be proud of later, this is nothing to be proud of, unless you want to challenge the FEAR of "someday, somehow, someone might steal him from you"
You've been warned
Cheers
hi lovestruck
its gonna be tough when u have to see him at work all the time...
but try to be strong.. no matter what, u will either hurt yourself or somebody else (his woman)... i bet he'll hold on to both u and his wife, and where would his priorties be? where would u stand in a relationship like this?
its gonna be tough when u have to see him at work all the time...
but try to be strong.. no matter what, u will either hurt yourself or somebody else (his woman)... i bet he'll hold on to both u and his wife, and where would his priorties be? where would u stand in a relationship like this?
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