Help me decode my Virgo woman crush

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Riddle me this: I met my Virgal on a lesbian dating app. After a year of respecting boundaries, learning who she is as a woman, and being EXTREMELY patient, this cancer woman finally stepped my game up and told Virgo gal that I like her more than just a friend.

She was literally, blushing, shocked, and speechless 🤣. After spending a impromptu cleaning session turned wine night with her, I honestly left her place on a high note And rather confidentially. I’m just curious if any Virgo women can advice on how I should interact with her moving fwd? She never expressed if the feelings were mutual but she didn’t waive me off with disgust either🤷🏾‍♀️
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Omg!!! I am screaming 🤣🤣💀💀💀😆😆!!! I am so over my old Leo and his attention seeking ass. He didn’t deserve it, at all 🥴

This cleaning sesh, did you clean her oven for her.

It’s all the rage during a Virgo season.

#leomen are so last season

Were Leo men ever acceptable though?

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id 😭😭😭! You are seriously on the money honey. She literally was feeling stressed out over how dirty her place was following her birthday party on 8/30. I was honestly surprised that she asked for my assistance, she usually keeps a tight lid on her emotions. We honestly had a great time. Her whole mood and demeanor changed by the time I left. She shared stories about her upbringing, her passions, and to my surprise she indirectly called me out as to why I never invite her to things. I really got a mouthful out of her last night. It was awesome 😆💕

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Omg!!! I am screaming 🤣🤣💀💀💀😆😆!!! I am so over my old Leo and his attention seeking ass. He didn’t deserve it, at all 🥴

This cleaning sesh, did you clean her oven for her.

It’s all the rage during a Virgo season.

#leomen are so last season
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stly be good if a Leo man left me alone for the rest of my life lbvs

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Posted by CallMeMuva

Omg!!! I am screaming 🤣🤣💀💀💀😆😆!!! I am so over my old Leo and his attention seeking ass. He didn’t deserve it, at all 🥴

This cleaning sesh, did you clean her oven for her.

It’s all the rage during a Virgo season.

#leomen are so last season

Were Leo men ever acceptable though?

https://thumbs.gfycat.com/DangerousHealthyIndigobunting-size_restricted.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
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Posted by CallMeMuva

I honestly did 😭😭😭! You are seriously on the money honey. She literally was feeling stressed out over how dirty her place was following her birthday party on 8/30. I was honestly surprised that she asked for my assistance, she usually keeps a tight lid on her emotions. We honestly had a great time. Her whole mood and demeanor changed by the time I left. She shared stories about her upbringing, her passions, and to my surprise she indirectly called me out as to why I never invite her to things. I really got a mouthful out of her last night. It was awesome 😆💕
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Posted by CallMeMuva

Omg!!! I am screaming 🤣🤣💀💀💀😆😆!!! I am so over my old Leo and his attention seeking ass. He didn’t deserve it, at all 🥴

This cleaning sesh, did you clean her oven for her.

It’s all the rage during a Virgo season.

#leomen are so last season

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Virgo being a Virgo during their season 😅

When your quoting, you should go to the bottom of the paragraph. Easier to read that way
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If you are looking for a Virgo to express how they feel in the same way as a Leo or Cancer would, you wont get that. I have been trying to decode a Virgo for years. You have to basicly ask them straight out while shaking them like a crazed beast "how do you feel—?" And still youll get like a half ass answer. I literally just did this an hour ago and this was after ignoring him for 2 days and then yelling at him for something he said that hurt me to where he panicked and thought he was going to lose me. Im exhausted now and Im dragging my skull... but I got some emotion out of him so its progress.
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I honestly did 😭😭😭! You are seriously on the money honey. She literally was feeling stressed out over how dirty her place was following her birthday party on 8/30. I was honestly surprised that she asked for my assistance, she usually keeps a tight lid on her emotions. We honestly had a great time. Her whole mood and demeanor changed by the time I left. She shared stories about her upbringing, her passions, and to my surprise she indirectly called me out as to why I never invite her to things. I really got a mouthful out of her last night. It was awesome 😆💕
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Posted by CallMeMuva

Omg!!! I am screaming 🤣🤣💀💀💀😆😆!!! I am so over my old Leo and his attention seeking ass. He didn’t deserve it, at all 🥴

This cleaning sesh, did you clean her oven for her.

It’s all the rage during a Virgo season.

#leomen are so last season

Virgo being a Virgo during their season 😅

When your quoting, you should go to the bottom of the paragraph. Easier to read that way
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Yes it was such a fun Virgo moment. She’s invited me to tag along to assist in organizing her life tomorrow so I’m going to bask in this big Virgo energy during their szn.

PS. Omg noted!! Thank you for that tid bit as I was struggling.
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If you are looking for a Virgo to express how they feel in the same way as a Leo or Cancer would, you wont get that. I have been trying to decode a Virgo for years. You have to basicly ask them straight out while shaking them like a crazed beast "how do you feel—?" And still youll get like a half ass answer. I literally just did this an hour ago and this was after ignoring him for 2 days and then yelling at him for something he said that hurt me to where he panicked and thought he was going to lose me. Im exhausted now and Im dragging my skull... but I got some emotion out of him so its progress.


Holy shit! Why are they like this?!?! It’s so crazy how words of affirmation is so hard for them, let alone it takes YEARS to make progress in the dating/relationship realm. I’m glad you were direct with your Virgo and he stepped up to the plate. They tend to do this when they think they are about to lose you. They are hands down thee most complicated bunch of the zodiac for me.
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Posted by CallMeMuva
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I honestly did 😭😭😭! You are seriously on the money honey. She literally was feeling stressed out over how dirty her place was following her birthday party on 8/30. I was honestly surprised that she asked for my assistance, she usually keeps a tight lid on her emotions. We honestly had a great time. Her whole mood and demeanor changed by the time I left. She shared stories about her upbringing, her passions, and to my surprise she indirectly called me out as to why I never invite her to things. I really got a mouthful out of her last night. It was awesome 😆💕
Posted by Isolde
Posted by CallMeMuva

Omg!!! I am screaming 🤣🤣💀💀💀😆😆!!! I am so over my old Leo and his attention seeking ass. He didn’t deserve it, at all 🥴

This cleaning sesh, did you clean her oven for her.

It’s all the rage during a Virgo season.

#leomen are so last season

Virgo being a Virgo during their season 😅

When your quoting, you should go to the bottom of the paragraph. Easier to read that way

Yes it was such a fun Virgo moment. She’s invited me to tag along to assist in organizing her life tomorrow so I’m going to bask in this big Virgo energy during their szn.

PS. Omg noted!! Thank you for that tid bit as I was struggling.
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Your welcome, glad it helps 😊

The fact she’s allowing you in to help is a good indicator
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did I give an advice? hahah that would be: be real & direct as much as possible


Hey Zando, I’m going to respond to both of your post here :-). Thank you for the advice and the reassurance that I am on the right path. My crush is definitely a text book Virgo with her “flirting”. Cancers are notorious for laying it on thick so I’ve been extremely mindful to do or say just enough without scaring her off. It’s been wonderful taking our time and I will continue to be direct.
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Posted by Isolde
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Posted by Isolde
Posted by CallMeMuva

I honestly did 😭😭😭! You are seriously on the money honey. She literally was feeling stressed out over how dirty her place was following her birthday party on 8/30. I was honestly surprised that she asked for my assistance, she usually keeps a tight lid on her emotions. We honestly had a great time. Her whole mood and demeanor changed by the time I left. She shared stories about her upbringing, her passions, and to my surprise she indirectly called me out as to why I never invite her to things. I really got a mouthful out of her last night. It was awesome 😆💕
Posted by Isolde
Posted by CallMeMuva

Omg!!! I am screaming 🤣🤣💀💀💀😆😆!!! I am so over my old Leo and his attention seeking ass. He didn’t deserve it, at all 🥴

This cleaning sesh, did you clean her oven for her.

It’s all the rage during a Virgo season.

#leomen are so last season

Virgo being a Virgo during their season 😅

When your quoting, you should go to the bottom of the paragraph. Easier to read that way

Yes it was such a fun Virgo moment. She’s invited me to tag along to assist in organizing her life tomorrow so I’m going to bask in this big Virgo energy during their szn.

PS. Omg noted!! Thank you for that tid bit as I was struggling.

Your welcome, glad it helps 😊

The fact she’s allowing you in to help is a good indicator
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I appreciate your support from post to post lmao!!! I can assure you that this love train will end with Virgo szn. I’ll keep you guys updated.
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Posted by CallMeMuva Riddle me this: I met my Virgal on a lesbian dating app. After a year of respecting boundaries, learning who she is as a woman, and being EXTREMELY patient, this cancer woman finally stepped my game up and told Virgo gal that I like her more than just a friend.

She was literally, blushing, shocked, and speechless 🤣. After spending a impromptu cleaning session turned wine night with her, I honestly left her place on a high note And rather confidentially. I’m just curious if any Virgo women can advice on how I should interact with her moving fwd? She never expressed if the feelings were mutual but she didn’t waive me off with disgust either🤷🏾‍♀️


Hi Guys! Just checking in with a quick update. Since telling my Virgo crush that I like her more than just a friend I am happy to report that while we are still friends (lmao 👍🏾), we’ve been communicating consistently and we have hung out several times since that night!!! The first week of september we hung out 4 times (1-1 and with her small circle of close friends). Unlike the past, she even asked if it were cool if a friend came along to lunch with us. (What’s up with Virgos inviting you over with their friends 😅?) The last time we hung out was actually at my place and it was just us! We had a great time and she didn’t leave until the evening. The whole experience has been amazing. I’m still going at her pace but I do long for physical closeness. It’s definitely safe to say that we’ve mastered intensely looking into each other’s eyes and “accidentally” or grazing our fingertips against each other. Ahh!!! I need more lmao. But that’s all I got for now. I finally feel seen by her 😍
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to take their time.

Any updates?

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Posted by CallMeMuva Riddle me this: I met my Virgal on a lesbian dating app. After a year of respecting boundaries, learning who she is as a woman, and being EXTREMELY patient, this cancer woman finally stepped my game up and told Virgo gal that I like her more than just a friend.

She was literally, blushing, shocked, and speechless 🤣. After spending a impromptu cleaning session turned wine night with her, I honestly left her place on a high note And rather confidentially. I’m just curious if any Virgo women can advice on how I should interact with her moving fwd? She never expressed if the feelings were mutual but she didn’t waive me off with disgust either🤷🏾‍♀️

Hi Guys! Just checking in with a quick update. Since telling my Virgo crush that I like her more than just a friend I am happy to report that while we are still friends (lmao 👍🏾), we’ve been communicating consistently and we have hung out several times since that night!!! The first week of september we hung out 4 times (1-1 and with her small circle of close friends). Unlike the past, she even asked if it were cool if a friend came along to lunch with us. (What’s up with Virgos inviting you over with their friends 😅?) The last time we hung out was actually at my place and it was just us! We had a great time and she didn’t leave until the evening. The whole experience has been amazing. I’m still going at her pace but I do long for physical closeness. It’s definitely safe to say that we’ve mastered intensely looking into each other’s eyes and “accidentally” or grazing our fingertips against each other. Ahh!!! I need more lmao. But that’s all I got for now. I finally feel seen by her 😍
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