HELP - What would YOU do....

About 2 years ago I met a virguy and was too clingy. He told me he liked me, but had a girlfriend. After that I got too clingy and he backed off and never returned any calls or texts. The problem is I still like him. I put him through a lof drama. I ran into him a couple of months again and when he saw me he blushed and I left him with a smile on his face. I ended up apologizing for everything I put him through. His Bday is coming up, he still has not returned my calls. What would a virguy think a*after all this) if I were to text him for his b day?

I know those rules, and I heard he had broken up with her in January. I dont really want a relationship from him anymore. All I want is friendship. Should I test this September? Is it possible that he may still have feelings for me?

I meant that I dont want a relationship with him as I once did. I just want a friendship with him. I was asking for your opinion - should I text him in September for his b day? Is there any possible way he still has feelings for me?

It sounds like you want him to have feelings for you, or else you wouldn't ask this question .. so, that's why people are raising their eyebrows when you say just "friends".


I'd say .. no .. don't contact him on his birthday, if friendship is all you want, for you would likely be sending him the wrong message.