How do I deal with this Virgo/Leo cusp male?

Hi,
I (Sag woman) recently went out on a date with a Virgo/Leo cusp (technically more Virgo I think) that's in my school program. The guy would probably be perceived as out of my league in the sense that he's a dorky skinny geek and I'm an attractive woman. (From outside perspective, not mine!) I can sense that he sees this as well because he seems to have lower self-esteem, like I'm some sort of lucky fortune...But, he has a fantastic personality and cute look that I'm really attracted to. He asked me out many times while we were both mutually intoxicated at a party. We had a wonderful date together walking/talking on the beach, followed by dinner/drinks, and a romantically planned kiss at the end of the night. He did not try and sleep with me that night. The next day we were at a party again, both intoxicated - I was a little aggressive and we ended up going back to my place. It was great, he was very sweet and caring. Although, he left to back to his place afterward. I couldn't tell if it was because he was self-conscious about his body, or if it was for other reasons.

During our date, he was trying to be honest and mentioned that he is not looking for a relationship since he's moving in 4 months and he's still dealing with his long-term ex (they broke up a few weeks beforehand). I understood this. He is also a rather bashful person, only showing his true extroverted personality at party or amongst close friends. He's not the email, text or etc. of person but is very sweet and PDA-ish to me in person.

I'm worried that he now views me as a f*k-buddy or rebound since I gave it up on date 2. I do not want to feel used. I am unsure how to approach this situation now. I am obviously already becoming emotionally invested in this person and wonder if I should put a stop to it now or enjoy the summer fling while it lasts. I also wonder how I should tread around this person...should I give him his space, confront him about the f*k buddy issue, etc. I'm just not sure how to read these Virgo/Leo cusps - I don't want to scare him off and I don't want to get in over me head as well. I had an ex bf that was a Virgo for about 8 years - I know they can be a little closed off in terms of emotions or romance yet feel very deeply. Ironic thing, even though I am a full-on Sag woman...I tend to be quite emotional/sensitive and when I really like someone, I tend to wear it on my sleeve and get hurt easily.

Thanks for any advice you can give me!

I'm a virgo/leo (female) cusp as well. Well, he did say he is not looking for a relationship and you proceeded to bed him. Sounds like you are having second thoughts about that decision. Since he is leaving in four months, you can either enjoy your limited time together, or turn it into something negative. Alot of women feel used if they are having sex and are not in a relationship, but don't forget that he was honest with you. You can overcome those feelings if you choose.

^^^ agreed.