How do Virgo's act when they're wrong?

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Posted by harry99
Some of them apologize and tell you the reason why they judged you that way. My ex had judged me wrong and after realizing it apologized to me. Sadly it was too late.



I know exactly why I was judged the way I was. I tried for a while to defend my character to no avail. I then just handled the situation and then gave the solid proof that my character was indeed what I present it to be.
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Posted by Let*It*Be
" I then just handled the situation and then gave the solid proof that my character was indeed what I present it to be."


^^That's very rewarding in a sense isn't it? Good for you! ๐Ÿ™‚

To answer your question, depends on the Virgo..some will explain why they thought what they did, and the more negative ones will explain what YOU did to make them think that way. Which one do you think you're dealing with?



Yes. I know and understand why he thought what he did and was the reason I gave the solid proof. I would tend to go with the latter...the negative side. He's MIA right now, so I'm sure that he's analyzing and probably beating himself up for making an error in judgement...
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Posted by harry99
Good thing you had hard evidence. Sadly I wasn't even told that I was being judged and that that was why all of a sudden our relationship had changed it's only after we broke up that months maybe years later I was informed that I was judged because of what an ex had done to them. My heart was already hardened to the whole thing so it didn't matter one way or the other. I just wish that Virgos could take what you say as truth instead of assuming you're lying.



O.M.G.!! I used to talk to Virgo & everything went downhill for the same EXACT reason . At first everything seemed to be going good , in the beginning . Then after a while , I felt like he was analyzing EVERY little thing I said or did . And it came off as if he was very skeptical of me and trying to be me at games I was never playing with him . All based off what a previous girl did to him. I caught onto it & called him out on it . He tried to make me think I was crazy , yet he's been proving me right. I hated it. I don't like being judged based off what someone else has done . Especially since I made my intentions clear & I never gave him a reason to doubt me .
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How do you act when you are wrong?


Look at your other thread, where you lied.


And you won't admit to lying, you won't admit to playing with the Virgos feelings.


And both of those are wrong.


So, have you asked yourself how you handle it when you are wrong?


In knowing how you handled Virgo #1 with what you posted and then lying about it .... I would wager that this Virgo #2 wasn't wrong in his assessment about your character. I'd bet he was spot on about your character, and it's just you who can't face yourself.
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How do you act when you are wrong?


Look at your other thread, where you lied.


And you won't admit to lying, you won't admit to playing with the Virgos feelings.


And both of those are wrong.


So, have you asked yourself how you handle it when you are wrong?


In knowing how you handled Virgo #1 with what you posted and then lying about it .... I would wager that this Virgo #2 wasn't wrong in his assessment about your character. I'd bet he was spot on about your character, and it's just you who can't face yourself.



He was. I provided him 10 pages of legal documents that prove my character is intact. Remind me to date and timestamp all events in my post from now on.....
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Does anybody have advice on confronting in issue with a VIRGO without them running away and disappearing? Or are ya'll good at sweeping things under the carpet and not talking things out?

Does one wait for the Virgo to mention the problem? How long.

I am ready for a good and dirty fight...this patience shit is not working for me..



You have to handle things straight up with no drama. Patience is key...
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How do you act when you are wrong?


Look at your other thread, where you lied.


And you won't admit to lying, you won't admit to playing with the Virgos feelings.


And both of those are wrong.


So, have you asked yourself how you handle it when you are wrong?


In knowing how you handled Virgo #1 with what you posted and then lying about it .... I would wager that this Virgo #2 wasn't wrong in his assessment about your character. I'd bet he was spot on about your character, and it's just you who can't face yourself.



He was. I provided him 10 pages of legal documents that prove my character is intact. Remind me to date and timestamp all events in my post from now on.....
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10 pages of legal documents ... wow .. you were determined to prove yourself, like the guity does.

The innocent has nothing to prove.

10 pages = guilt
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How do you act when you are wrong?


Look at your other thread, where you lied.


And you won't admit to lying, you won't admit to playing with the Virgos feelings.


And both of those are wrong.


So, have you asked yourself how you handle it when you are wrong?


In knowing how you handled Virgo #1 with what you posted and then lying about it .... I would wager that this Virgo #2 wasn't wrong in his assessment about your character. I'd bet he was spot on about your character, and it's just you who can't face yourself.



He was. I provided him 10 pages of legal documents that prove my character is intact. Remind me to date and timestamp all events in my post from now on.....




10 pages of legal documents ... wow .. you were determined to prove yourself, like the guity does.

The innocent has nothing to prove.

10 pages = guilt
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Lol...No. The guilty one received a 30 day vacation in the county jail and 2 years probation. I received a protective order.....