Dincedong
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How many virgo here can deal w/ confrontation
I'll be totally honest with you.
I've read your post 3 times now, and I have no idea what you're talking about or asking. I suspect that, since it's been 2 days and no one else has replied, that I'm not the only one.
If I understand correctly, you correspond via group emails regularly for work. I would strongly suggest that you work on how you converse by email, as that is very likely the reason that coworkers are taking a week or more to reply.
To answer your last question, though, no, Virgos do not respond well to bullies at all. Based on what I could understand here, I suspect that they're working very hard right now (behind the scenes) to get you fired or removed from the project.
I've read your post 3 times now, and I have no idea what you're talking about or asking. I suspect that, since it's been 2 days and no one else has replied, that I'm not the only one.
If I understand correctly, you correspond via group emails regularly for work. I would strongly suggest that you work on how you converse by email, as that is very likely the reason that coworkers are taking a week or more to reply.
To answer your last question, though, no, Virgos do not respond well to bullies at all. Based on what I could understand here, I suspect that they're working very hard right now (behind the scenes) to get you fired or removed from the project.
I second @csdude55
I still have no idea what you're trying to write.
Maybe it's how you type?
I'm a Virgo.
I don't like confrontation, but I'm also Scorpio dominant.
If confronted (especially about some bullshit), I basically will completely eliminate you.
Either directly or indirectly.
As long as you're gone, I don't care ☺☺
I still have no idea what you're trying to write.
Maybe it's how you type?
I'm a Virgo.
I don't like confrontation, but I'm also Scorpio dominant.
If confronted (especially about some bullshit), I basically will completely eliminate you.
Either directly or indirectly.
As long as you're gone, I don't care ☺☺
Posted by csdude55I am curious how you virgo deal with confrontation. Regarding to my 2 colleagues acted really similar, I was kind to them, but once they seemed pull away, while they knew it is urgent thing, I confronted, and immediately they are really nice to me, and help me anything non-stop. I am wondering why I had to do that to get their attention?? I am not playing mind games here tho.
I'll be totally honest with you.
I've read your post 3 times now, and I have no idea what you're talking about or asking. I suspect that, since it's been 2 days and no one else has replied, that I'm not the only one.
If I understand correctly, you correspond via group emails regularly for work. I would strongly suggest that you work on how you converse by email, as that is very likely the reason that coworkers are taking a week or more to reply.
To answer your last question, though, no, Virgos do not respond well to bullies at all. Basedi on what I could understand here, I suspect that they're working very hard right now (behind the scenes) to get you fired or removed from the project.
I didnt and will never initiate any kind (you said) bullies to them. They and I should be team players. The meeting was today, they seemed initiate contact me all the time and even brought box of doughnut to me. Yes it is nice! I have been trying to always be kind to them, eventho deep down, sorry-not sorry, I think that experience already pretty pushed me away.
I generally avoid confrontation completely. If someone starts trying to attack me, I'm going to walk away from the situation and make sure my emotions are completely under control before coming back.
If I think that I was wrong, I will make a real effort to fix it. I'll definitely apologize if I made a mistake, and I expect that to be the end of it.
If I think the other person is wrong, I might tell them in a calm, cool way, and expect them to also be an adult and either apologize or fix the problem.
Either way, I'll remember how you handled it, and it will affect how I see you and how I encourage others to see you. If you come across as bullyish (which is how your first post comes across) then I'll definitely remember that, and I'll either distance myself from you, or I will work to get you removed from my workspace.
I'm not going to fight you, and I'm not going to have a childish argument. And I'm certainly not kissing your butt, whether I was right or wrong. But believe me, I'll destroy a bully. Especially if you tried to publicly embarrass me.
From how you described the way they acted afterward, honestly, I think you should be afraid. Virgos are usually very intelligent; they know that you're not sincere, and the way they're treating you? Yeah, they definitely have a plan in action.
If I think that I was wrong, I will make a real effort to fix it. I'll definitely apologize if I made a mistake, and I expect that to be the end of it.
If I think the other person is wrong, I might tell them in a calm, cool way, and expect them to also be an adult and either apologize or fix the problem.
Either way, I'll remember how you handled it, and it will affect how I see you and how I encourage others to see you. If you come across as bullyish (which is how your first post comes across) then I'll definitely remember that, and I'll either distance myself from you, or I will work to get you removed from my workspace.
I'm not going to fight you, and I'm not going to have a childish argument. And I'm certainly not kissing your butt, whether I was right or wrong. But believe me, I'll destroy a bully. Especially if you tried to publicly embarrass me.
From how you described the way they acted afterward, honestly, I think you should be afraid. Virgos are usually very intelligent; they know that you're not sincere, and the way they're treating you? Yeah, they definitely have a plan in action.
I can deal with confrontation. I stand quietly an observe everything. I could also burn anyone who confronts me really fast (scorpio heavy).
Except after my analysis it's usually in my best interest to just stay quiet. I wouldn't risk losing my Job but staying quiet but if it's with a friend, I wouldn't mind losing thing friend if the confrontation requires an immediate response
Except after my analysis it's usually in my best interest to just stay quiet. I wouldn't risk losing my Job but staying quiet but if it's with a friend, I wouldn't mind losing thing friend if the confrontation requires an immediate response
they probably be thinking the meetings are lame and get y'all no where
if u believe otherwise then talk to them and make sure to bring up how these emails and meetings are so important to y'all and how all of this delay in responses effect your work
if u believe otherwise then talk to them and make sure to bring up how these emails and meetings are so important to y'all and how all of this delay in responses effect your work
Posted by startwars
they probably be thinking the meetings are lame and get y'all no where
if u believe otherwise then talk to them and make sure to bring up how these emails and meetings are so important to y'all and how all of this delay in responses effect your work
Hey Starwars, how are you? It's been awhile.
I'm confrontational, aggressive and my personality is synonymous to a Brillo pad. It depends on the situation, I don't like it when people beat around the bush with things. As I get older, I just become more tactful with my "confrontations", I'm around A LOT of passive-aggressive people it drives me insane.
Posted by Nathan912Posted by startwars
they probably be thinking the meetings are lame and get y'all no where
if u believe otherwise then talk to them and make sure to bring up how these emails and meetings are so important to y'all and how all of this delay in responses effect your work
Hey Starwars, how are you? It's been awhile.click to expand
Helloo whaatsup! im all good how about you cool virguy 😏
Posted by startwarsPosted by Nathan912Posted by startwars
they probably be thinking the meetings are lame and get y'all no where
if u believe otherwise then talk to them and make sure to bring up how these emails and meetings are so important to y'all and how all of this delay in responses effect your work
Hey Starwars, how are you? It's been awhile.
Helloo whaatsup! im all good how about you cool virguy 😏click to expand
For some weird I didn't receive notification, good thing I remember and check this thread again. But I'm all good as well and you should hang out again on dxp haha
Posted by Nathan912Posted by startwarsPosted by Nathan912Posted by startwars
they probably be thinking the meetings are lame and get y'all no where
if u believe otherwise then talk to them and make sure to bring up how these emails and meetings are so important to y'all and how all of this delay in responses effect your work
Hey Starwars, how are you? It's been awhile.
Helloo whaatsup! im all good how about you cool virguy 😏
For some weird I didn't receive notification, good thing I remember and check this thread again. But I'm all good as well and you should hang out again on dxp hahaclick to expand
true Canadian! I miss doing nothing and dxping so much 😩
Posted by startwarsPosted by Nathan912Posted by startwarsPosted by Nathan912Posted by startwars
they probably be thinking the meetings are lame and get y'all no where
if u believe otherwise then talk to them and make sure to bring up how these emails and meetings are so important to y'all and how all of this delay in responses effect your work
Hey Starwars, how are you? It's been awhile.
Helloo whaatsup! im all good how about you cool virguy 😏
For some weird I didn't receive notification, good thing I remember and check this thread again. But I'm all good as well and you should hang out again on dxp haha
true Canadian! I miss doing nothing and dxping so much 😩click to expand
Forget the real life responsibilities and start dxping again and do nothing, I'm just kidding. But don't get too busy in real life like work and school only because that's sucks haha. Anyway I hope you visit dxp more often like you do before.
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