How much does a Virgo wud miss someone...

This is just about Virgo men/women in general ... please no offense meant!
They are hardly seen displaying any deep emotion ... I mean neither overwhelmed in love nor very heart-broken after break up .... do they miss their partner comparatively less ? is it easier for them to move on?
am just being curious to know, from Virgo friends here or those who have Virgo partners.
Thank you!

Can't really help u there .... am dealing with an unemotional male Virgo myself and scouring these boards just make me more confused in figuring him out....he doesnt seem to miss me yet invites me to come and hangout with him, doesnt show emotions like me ... air sign- Libra... so I guess i just have to wait and see what happens... or dont... but i look for clues of emotions and believe it hard to find.....

lol

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they are proud of it

Try angering them ... they don't mind showing that side of themselves at all

Posted by onix
This is just about Virgo men/women in general ... please no offense meant!
They are hardly seen displaying any deep emotion ... I mean neither overwhelmed in love nor very heart-broken after break up .... do they miss their partner comparatively less ? is it easier for them to move on?
am just being curious to know, from Virgo friends here or those who have Virgo partners.
Thank you!

I have a question that I have been meaning to ask anytime such a question re-appears....

Exactly what is it this "display of emotions" that seems other zodiac signs demonstrate that people look for Virgo to do also ?
Like for example.....If you broke up say with a Aquarius, would they cry and make a big scene? And its maddening that Virgo doesnt do that? Or is it, say a Pisces, you break up with them and they recite some 5-minute monologue about why you should stay? While Virgo just says Good night?

Maybe something along those lines might help... For me ,I hardly get calls or texes from my male Virgo and he constantly disappears... but when I am reinvited into his space on his terms, he acts more stoic and platonic than passionate or romantic...
so it appears unemotional, and when we part its like, I'll see ya when i see ya,,,,,

and yes .... HE was the one to say "I love you" in the first month several times,, that blew me away,,, so I guess moving from that kind of emotion, to this sort of hard to figure out so , it appears unemotional......and confusing and inconsistent. I can relate to Onix....

What exactly , be specific, would you like your Virgo to say or do today so you wont be so confused by the behavoir? Be specific, please.


Could it be that maybe the Virgos have fallen out of love and are just going through the motions?
Cause they are comfy with what's familiar?

Or maybe they were hurt in the past when they went all in with their emotions (like I once did) and then to be dumped....that could make a Virgo more cautious and detached. I know it doesnt bode well for Virgo because they might end up all alone. The kicker is , we just might be okay with the solitude.
Anyhow...thanks for all your insight and who knows, maybe you will help a Virgo not lose someone they love because of their detachment.

Well it would be nice by some verbal cues or a smile that could help me understand that you are glad to see me, a few texes that you are thinking of me Like i do to him when i see him OK I am not big on cooking but he always cooks for me, but then again he loves to cook .... I have tried to be attentive and affectionate only to be told that he isnot into PDAs... and yes you can be right when you asked, wgamador2, that if he was hurt, yes, His ex wife cheated on him and remarried.

So I think coming out of that he is now super aloof and emotionless, or appears so,,,, whereas in the beginning he was soooo in love.... i was shocked. He said he never met someone so intelligent and interesting in such a long time and that he is not overly attracted to any ole chic that comes his way... He does not go looking for a woman... so on the heels of allof that , his aloof behaviour is jus so confusing and mixes the signals and I have told him so, many times.
I would imagine that this same behaviour of self protecting is sabotaging the relationship cause I am tired of htis hot and cold beh. , So if the aloof behaviour is out of fear, since he is the one that pursued me, then he is very close to losing me, and yes he said he is very cool with solitude and has very few friends.
How to reach out to him, as a Virgo....

and if he has fallen out of love , I have asked him many times if he wants to end things and he says nothing....
I just think being in touch with your gf is supposed to be a normal thing, not disappear and not respond an go cold.

Yeah...we don't give a fuck about dead fish, hahahaha. Who's always sniffing up a Virgos ass...LMAO!!!! Sniff away you little mut...hehehehehe, while you're back there sniffing, I'd be sure to shit on you...lol, because that's what Virgos do to people. Lmao!!! We're cold, callous, & evil as fuck!!!! 😈 I LOVE BEING A VIRGO!!!!!

And that's why that whore LOVES VIRGOS. Lmao. People always hate on what they desire to be.

@Lotuslilly - yeah dear, I can relate so much with your situation ... infact I would have written the same that you've said about your Virguy!

@Wgamador2 - hey thanks friend for helping to know more about the Virgo mind ... but why does a Virgo loves the solitude than showing some affection to a caring partner?

@Realtalk - hey your sense of humor is so much like my Virguy ...(sorry) very sarcastic , evil & wicked most of the times LOL ! But I used to get fooled by taking it personally & reacted often ! 😛

Some signs are more inclined to wear their hearts on their sleeves, and some are not. Virgos fall into the category of those who choose to keep their feelings concealed until they are sure of their partner and the situation. This doesn't mean we don't have emotions--we're human, of course we do. We're just not trying to throw them at every passerby.

And, for the last time, I really wish the clueless claiming Virgos don't have emotions would stop thinking their Virgos are the problem, and realize maybe the sign chooses not to let you into that private part of who they are because they sense you're not worth it.

Posted by onix
@Lotuslilly - yeah dear, I can relate so much with your situation ... infact I would have written the same that you've said about your Virguy!

@Wgamador2 - hey thanks friend for helping to know more about the Virgo mind ... but why does a Virgo loves the solitude than showing some affection to a caring partner?

@Realtalk - hey your sense of humor is so much like my Virguy ...(sorry) very sarcastic , evil & wicked most of the times LOL ! But I used to get fooled by taking it personally & reacted often ! 😛

Hahahahaha...cool to be compared to your virg guy...but I'm a woman! Ha! 😛

'Try angering them ... they don't mind showing that side of themselves at all'

LOL PAngel...so true!

'Virgos fall into the category of those who choose to keep their feelings concealed until they are sure of their partner and the situation. This doesn't mean we don't have emotions--we're human, of course we do. We're just not trying to throw them at every passerby.'

and this is why virgo and caps get along...we understand this about each other. we are so mushy together privately. on the outside, more reserved.

Posted by onix
@Lotuslilly - yeah dear, I can relate so much with your situation ... infact I would have written the same that you've said about your Virguy!

@Wgamador2 - hey thanks friend for helping to know more about the Virgo mind ... but why does a Virgo loves the solitude than showing some affection to a caring partner?

@Realtalk - hey your sense of humor is so much like my Virguy ...(sorry) very sarcastic , evil & wicked most of the times LOL ! But I used to get fooled by taking it personally & reacted often ! 😛

Well see our problem is that we truly only probably fall truly in love once. And usually when we are young, so depending on how that "love of our life" relationship ended, that can dictate how we feel about Love later.
We all want Love no matter how deeply we've been hurt but its almost like the mind-set of:
"I remember when I was so dedicated and loving and HONEST and LOYAL And that was taken for granted. Note to self: Do not be that fool ever again."
On the other hand, a nice, compassionate break-up can make the world of a difference in how we open up and conquer the fear of being rejected and worst of all, being HUMILIATED.
Humiliation can stay with you for a long time, even after the dust has settled.
Oh and I never Loved solitude until I received this nice little scar right here.

Its about being happy. When i'm happy, there is no lack of affection, ever.
Nothing shuts us down like losing someone we truly care for. But I certainly don't speak for all Virgos, im sure.

Posted by Let*It*Be
....also someone mentioned "try to anger them" ..lol. If they do not know you that well or haven't analyzed you just yet, that would be a serious error in judgement. You will pay severely with yet more confusion. If you've been in a long relationship with them and anger them...different story. They will shut you out, but if they care about you like Scorps, they will do whatever they need with effort to work things out, once they've had the space to alleviate the anger and work things out in their heads. When it's over however, IT'S OVER, and you will know it.

No no--please, let them anger us. Apparently, now Virgo is the only sign that can show anger. Hm. Learn something new everyday. I mean, what do I know? I'm just a Virgo. Why would I know anything about my sign? I'd rather be told about it by fish, rams, and the rest. Meanwhile, if I ever tried to tell any other sign about themselves, they'd scoff (and rightfully so) because instead of trying to tell them about themselves, I should really be asking questions--but I realize how lazy and self-righteous some people are, and also realize they're not on this planet to learn, but to create their own theories. Have fun living in your delusional bubble.

As I was saying, if they want to follow the pied piper of DXP down into the firey depths of Virgo hatred, and take her advice to anger us, let them. When they're back here next week, crying their eyes out about losing us, she'll reward them for listening by calling them desperate, stupid, and maybe even give them the gift of suggested suicide.

I absolutely love how NON Virgos are in the VIRGO section to answer questions on VIRGOS.

Anyone listening to them deserves to be misguided.

The end.

@ wgamador2, Youve said it , he lost the love of his life, some girl he was with in his teens for 8 years then when he married, his ex cheated on him..... so I guess Im meeting all of that , and he did say it is up to me.... how ? I dont know. and he is lookin for someone to give him all the love he lost... thats a tall order.... !!! i know he gives 100% in relationships and more, but I dont know what he thinks is reciprocating to him... its all so confusing, yet I dont want to give up on him.....just yet....

Posted by capbaby
'Virgos fall into the category of those who choose to keep their feelings concealed until they are sure of their partner and the situation. This doesn't mean we don't have emotions--we're human, of course we do. We're just not trying to throw them at every passerby.'

and this is why virgo and caps get along...we understand this about each other. we are so mushy together privately. on the outside, more reserved.

But, a person who is in the midst of becoming a partner with a Virgo isn't a "passerby" .. so to say that as if to insinuate that the woman who is trying to love him as being a part of .... every passerby ... is insulting to her.

She isn't a passerby, much less a part of the "every" to insinuate a random person.

That's pretty fucking cold

Posted by lotuslilly
@ wgamador2, Youve said it , he lost the love of his life, some girl he was with in his teens for 8 years then when he married, his ex cheated on him..... so I guess Im meeting all of that , and he did say it is up to me.... how ? I dont know. and he is lookin for someone to give him all the love he lost... thats a tall order.... !!! i know he gives 100% in relationships and more, but I dont know what he thinks is reciprocating to him... its all so confusing, yet I dont want to give up on him.....just yet....

Listen good luck.

And i hope you find the passion you seek.

Posted by Let*It*Be
....also someone mentioned "try to anger them" ..lol. If they do not know you that well or haven't analyzed you just yet, that would be a serious error in judgement. You will pay severely with yet more confusion. If you've been in a long relationship with them and anger them...different story. They will shut you out, but if they care about you like Scorps, they will do whatever they need with effort to work things out, once they've had the space to alleviate the anger and work things out in their heads.

Well, that's a crock of shit.


First of all, you make the insinuation that if the Virgo is angered then there is hell to pay .. as in how DARE the Virgo get mad, as if they reside on pedalstools, and rightly so.

What bullshit .... if a person relating with a Virgo isn't allowed to be human, with natural human emotions around the Virgo .. then the Virgo is the one in that case who has the error in judgement in making the partner severely pay, as if the Virgo is God.

Second, the Virgo in love with a long term partner does NOT shut the partner out .. seriously, have you ever been with a Virgo at all?

And lastly ... are you seriously saying that by virtue of being a Scorpio that it means you are the only sign that the Virgo will care enough about to allow your angry emotions?


You are as full of shit as Elle was yesterday when she was on about being able to get a man's phone number in less than 60 seconds if she chose, due to the fact that she's a Scorpio ..... meanwhile, she has an on-going thread about a guy at work that she's chasing and he runs away from her and all her flirts can't seem to catch his attention.


What you've said about Virgo is false ... you really don't know them at all.

Posted by Let*It*Be

When it's over however, IT'S OVER, and you will know it.

Well, that's a crock of shit.

Women come in here on a daily basis in emotional dire straights .... because their Virgo is NOT letting them know where they stand.

All these years you've been claiming to know Virgos ... and it looks like that's all it was ... bullshit

Ouch..sorry to say this. But compared to other signs, we don't miss people AS much. When we like or love someone...the mental aspect of love keeps it alive. Although we miss them..sometimes terribly, we don't really lose it and go crazy and let our work slip. We can perfectly run our lives without anyone, thank you. The psychological aspect of someone being there is more important than someone's physical presence.

Hmmm very interesting.....

Posted by amrutha92
Ouch..sorry to say this. But compared to other signs, we don't miss people AS much. When we like or love someone...the mental aspect of love keeps it alive. Although we miss them..sometimes terribly, we don't really lose it and go crazy and let our work slip. We can perfectly run our lives without anyone, thank you. The psychological aspect of someone being there is more important than someone's physical presence.

Just like that ^^^^^


It's nice to see a Virgo come in here and tell the truth .. doesn't happen often

Intimacy is shrugged off as not being an important component of a relationship .... and it's about time that a Virgo talked real about it.

Brandon used all the time .. but, he rarely visits anymore.

A Virgo doesn't need to have an emotional bond with the other on the terms of the other, so therefore tend not to ... what Virgo really needs to understand is that the other person needs them to need it.

Posted by onix
This is just about Virgo men/women in general ... please no offense meant!
They are hardly seen displaying any deep emotion ... I mean neither overwhelmed in love nor very heart-broken after break up .... do they miss their partner comparatively less ? is it easier for them to move on?
am just being curious to know, from Virgo friends here or those who have Virgo partners.
Thank you!

My partner of 29 years is a male Virgo ... and he isn't inclined to displayed deep emotions.

Ironically, eventhough they don't miss their partner as compared to the other 11 signs who like to express passion .... it's not easy for the Virgo to move on, and often struggle with coming to terms of the broken relationship ....

.. eventhough in most cases, it's the Virgo non-expression-of-emotions that broke it.


go figure

And yet you stay...

Interesting indeed.

I have no respect for anyone who complains and whines about someone, or something, and remains in or with it. It reeks of desperation and non-existent self-respect. No wonder you don't get along with Virgo women. We do indeed look down on that.

Once again, not seeing how anyone can learn from a self-made martyr. If she can't fix and improve on her own situation, how can she help you? Blind leading the blind...

And, once again, if anyone is listening to other signs for Virgo advice, all I can say is if/when things collapse, make sure you don't blame the Virgos here.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by onix
This is just about Virgo men/women in general ... please no offense meant!
They are hardly seen displaying any deep emotion ... I mean neither overwhelmed in love nor very heart-broken after break up .... do they miss their partner comparatively less ? is it easier for them to move on?
am just being curious to know, from Virgo friends here or those who have Virgo partners.
Thank you!

My partner of 29 years is a male Virgo ... and he isn't inclined to displayed deep emotions.

Ironically, eventhough they don't miss their partner as compared to the other 11 signs who like to express passion .... it's not easy for the Virgo to move on, and often struggle with coming to terms of the broken relationship ....

.. eventhough in most cases, it's the Virgo non-expression-of-emotions that broke it.


go figure

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Go figure you'd get the fuck out of a miserable situation with this Virgo husband of 29 years who doesn't give a fuck about you. Lol, you're so pitiful, desperate, & weak. You give people advice on their Virgo significant others, yet you need to follow your own advice. Quite the paradox. Sometimes I feel sorry for you, but I'm a Virgo so I am not inclined to feel a thing. Insecure bitch. 😄

Posted by onix

This is just about Virgo men/women in general ... please no offense meant!
They are hardly seen displaying any deep emotion ... I mean neither overwhelmed in love nor very heart-broken after break up .... do they miss their partner comparatively less ? is it easier for them to move on?
am just being curious to know, from Virgo friends here or those who have Virgo partners.
Thank you!

The first thing you need to learn about Virgos is that they take everything offensively, personally ... and since emotional control is not their strong suit, they cannot be expected in proper handling of a topic in which might suggest to them their character flaws are their own errors.

I thought it was a non-expression of emotions? But emotional controls are not our strong suit? Damn bitch, make up your little mind. Which one is it?

'The first thing you need to learn about Virgos is that they take everything offensively, personally ... and since emotional control is not their strong suit, they cannot be expected in proper handling of a topic in which might suggest to them their character flaws are their own errors.'

-Absolutely.

Scorps and virgos a good match? I'm not in agreement UNLESS the virgo has a good amount of water in their chart. I have scorp mars which does mesh with my virgos venus/mars. He is scop rising too. Oh and aqua moon and mine is sag moon which meshes. But even still, he will back off from emotional outlandish displays of emotion, and he too does not show a lot..unless he WANTS/ready to.

Posted by amrutha92
Ouch..sorry to say this. But compared to other signs, we don't miss people AS much. When we like or love someone...the mental aspect of love keeps it alive. Although we miss them..sometimes terribly, we don't really lose it and go crazy and let our work slip. We can perfectly run our lives without anyone, thank you. The psychological aspect of someone being there is more important than someone's physical presence.

Very well said.

Posted by MoonMan
Hey RealTalk, what's your rising sign/moon sign?

Shhhhh...it's a secret. 😛

Your guy sounds more like someone who has issues (understandably so) and not a particular sign. IMO, Virgo's are not comfortable TALKING about feelings but we do show them, most especially when we are in love, we are extremely demonstrative though affections, thoughtfulness and helpful gestures. I, myself, may withhold (negative) feelings for a time but will eventually and quite suddenly blow someone's mind w/ a blunt question or comment that succinctly expresses what I've been feeling/thinking.
I've seen the behaviors attributed here lately (to Virgos) in men of other signs who had been hurt and had emotional commitment issues.
Ladies, we must remember they are MEN first...